(4) What leaves will eventually leave, even if it is very close.

There will be as many encounters as there will be partings in this life.

In fact, when the story is written to the end, we generally hope that the ending will be a good ending. However, everything is not what we think. Everything happens for a reason. Some people once watched it forever, but later they grew tired of it , who is to blame? No one owes anyone, but in the days to come, we all become more cautious, for fear of falling in love with the wrong person, for fear of experiencing separation, for fear of wronging ourselves.

No matter how good, deep or sweet the love is, it is not as good as the love that comes from the depth of the soul.

(8)

Oscar Wilde said: "We are all living in the gutter of life, but there are still people who are looking up at the stars."

Just like It’s the same as Ashin. He’s been through a relationship without ever falling in love. It’s the story of his youth. He spent several years falling in love with someone. Some people say he’s stupid, some people say he’s single-minded, but only He knew that it was his first time to judge feelings, but he didn't succeed.

Compared to his previous high-spirited and elegant character, he brought them all into the army, and the environment really changes a person. He becomes more calm and generous, and he also becomes better at taking care of a person, and Understand life.

I underestimated Ashin and put a lot of thought into chasing Xiaotian.

After introducing the two of them to each other, they had contact information with each other.

During that time, Ashin became a complete "mobile phone addict". Chatting with the people he likes is probably an extremely pleasant thing. They can chat until very late, very late. From all over the world, we can talk about hobbies and other topics. When we are with the people we like, happiness is always very simple.

Ashin knows that Xiaotian likes to read books about travel, and knows that the place she wants to go to most is Hoh Xil. He knows Da Bing’s words, “Accompany me to Hoh Xil to see the sea. I don’t want the future, but you.” Come." He said to her, I will accompany you to Hoh Xil next time and I will wait for you to come.

He knew that Xiaotian was an extremely emotional girl. He listened to her tell some stories about what happened during the trip. When she laughed, he laughed with her. He also felt sad when she felt a little disappointed. He liked the way Xiaotian smiled. He said it was the most charming smile he had ever seen.

He knew that Xiaotian would encounter problems of one kind or another at work. He would tell her how to deal with and face them like a boy next door, and then tell her some interesting jokes. , to relieve her temporarily depressed mood.

He knows that Xiaotian likes to eat potatoes the most. He prides himself on his superb cooking skills. He can fry any potato slices or shredded potatoes to the desired taste. She will smile and ask for it. Eat, Ashin will happily say "no problem".

The gift he gave Xiaotian was the book she had always wanted to buy but had not had the time to buy, called "Ten Years of Backpacking".

As time goes by, both of them have a good impression, but neither of them said it out loud, and they both understand each other tacitly.

I see Ashin doing something with so much heart. Just saying that he is no longer lonely in his inner world. At least there are people who like him. This is good. At this moment, he is satisfied and inspired.

(9)

One night, Yichen and I talked about Xiaotian. Yichen told me that Xiaotian is more thoughtful, but she doesn’t like to give her advice at home. She made the arrangement and didn't like long-distance relationships.

I asked, what is the arrangement?

Yichen pointed at my head with his finger and said with a bit of disgust, "Of course it's time to talk about marriage, you pig head."

"Then tell me, is it possible for Ashin and her to be together?"

"How do I know this? It depends on the two of them."

"The two of them have been in constant contact recently, and I think there should be some drama."

"Then together, I wish them well."

"

"What if we are not together? ”

“If they are not together, it only means that they are destined to be together.” ”

“That’s it?” Can we help them? ”

“Help you big-headed guy, you need to see the right eye on the relationship thing. Besides, this is a matter between the two of them. It still depends on their feelings. Go and help. If you can help, then that’s it.” Okay, have you ever thought about it if it didn't help? fool . "

"I'm not thinking about my brother. Besides, he doesn't have time as a soldier. I'm afraid Xiaotian won't like it." "

"Then it depends on whether Ashin is sincere. "

"Yichen, I find that you are really open-minded,"

"Could it be that if I were not with you, would I seek death and survival for you? Everyone has their own faults, one person has faults, two people have faults, but they must follow their own hearts and cannot deliberately arrange them. Therefore, let them communicate with each other about Xiaotian and Ashin, and we should stay less involved. "

"Okay, I get it. ”

After chatting with Yichen, I finally understood why I asked Yichen to help me ask Xiaotian about her attitude towards Axin. She said that there was nothing to ask about this emotional privacy, and it could become the most important thing. Well, it can only be said that it is not fate, and I am still a little unhappy about this matter.

Now I understand that when it comes to relationships, one person's life is easy and comfortable, but if two people want to be together, It’s worse than living alone, so forget it.

The next day, I called Ashin and talked to him about it.

“Ah. Xin, the next step is to rely on your own performance, and I can't help you much. "

"Xuliang, I know, I will try my best to chase him. "

"Brother, you must coax and deceive girls, you know? "

The other party was a little confused.

"Why do you have to coax and lie? "

"I said, brother, you are good at everything, but your emotional intelligence is too low. Didn't you learn to be thick-skinned in the army? Just beating and chasing girls indiscriminately. That's what I was chasing after Yichen..."

- "Stop, Xu Liang, don't lead me astray! I still come here in a serious manner. "

"You wooden fish head, you have to surprise her when necessary, do you understand? ”

“Buy flowers?” "

"You can figure it out for yourself. By the way, she doesn't like long-distance relationships. I don't know how you two will meet after you return to the team. This is still a problem. "

Suddenly the other party lost his voice and pondered for a while.

"I don't know what to do, I will only know then. "

"Come on, Ashin, I'm waiting for your good news! Let's have a drink together then!"

"No problem. ”

After hanging up the phone, Ashin himself didn’t know how confident he was that he could catch Xiaotian. Maybe it was just like what I said, he was really a wooden fish-headed guy with too low emotional intelligence. Their current The relationship is still at the level of good feelings, and beautiful words are said across the screen. This can only be said to be a good feeling, but it has not yet reached the point of being truly trustworthy.

(10)

But in the end they came together. I only found out about this news through the WeChat Moments posted by Ashin. There was a photo of Xiaotian sitting opposite him eating, and then accompanied by a text from him: I have decided. , the person I’m looking for is you.

After reading it, I immediately liked it and commented: I wish you happiness! Yichen also commented below: You can work underground! Be happy!

Ashin called me and told me what happened when he went to see her today.

“Brother, I went to see her today. "

"And did you confess your love today? "

"No - no confession, but -"

"But what? Talking makes me anxious.

"

"But I said that I will come to see you when I have time. Does this count as a confession? "

"Axin, why are you so naive? This is not a confession -"

I realized that my tone was a bit bad, so I quickly asked.

"Then what did Xiaotian say? "

"She didn't say anything, so she took me to meet her friends and colleagues. She took me to climb mountains, and then just like the plot of the movie, we had dinner and a movie. ”

“I took you to meet your friends, that’s fun, so will you hold hands?” "

"No. "

The other side said this weakly.

"Okay, it's okay. Be more courageous next time. Boys must take the initiative when holding hands, and girls pay attention to the sense of ritual. , you must make up for it next time, understand? "

"Yes. "

"It's you, go and chat with your Xiaotian quickly, and don't disturb the sweet time you two have." "

When Ashin heard the word "he" become the word "them", he smiled happily, like a child, full of infinite longing for the future and full of beauty in love.

He recalled the day he went to see Xiaotian. It was still March in spring, the sky was not beautiful, and it was raining lightly. He was dressed very ordinary. He was used to wearing military uniforms on weekdays, so he was not interested in his external appearance. She didn't care anymore, but Xiaotian had obviously dressed up carefully.

She appeared in front of Ashin wearing a beige suspender skirt and carrying a backpack. Ashin's heart was pounding. He even forgot the words to say. He could always pick up any lines the other party said across the screen, but in real life, he seemed so out of place.

Maybe it was because he was nervous. After a while, Ashin regained his sense of relaxation, chatting and laughing with Xiaotian along the way, and took a lot of March scenery.

There is not enough time in one day to accompany him, and there is always not enough time to accompany him. It's time to say goodbye.

It was raining outside, and Xiaotian insisted on sending Ashin to the car, but Ashin couldn't resist her. He had never seen a girl be so sincere to her like Xiaotian at this moment, and he was really moved. When he was moved, he did something like this. He secretly hid a bank card in her room. That was the money he had saved. He thought that Xiaotian's life outside was not easy for him, and he was now qualified to do well. Take care of her and don't let her be wronged.

When sending him away, Ashin saw Xiaotian's eyes were a little wet in the car. Maybe it was because he was too reluctant to let go, maybe because the temperature was too cold, maybe. I met the right person. In short, this scene will never be forgotten by Ashin. It is also the most touching chapter.

Even the driver in the car said: "Young man, my girlfriend can't let you go. She's a good girl, don't let her down. "

Ashin muttered in his heart: Xiaotian is a good girl, I can't lose her. Ashin, if you lose her, you will be a bastard!

After returning to the army, Ashin was in good condition, full of energy in everything he did, and his face was always filled with a confident smile. Since the secret was revealed in the circle of friends, his comrades all joked that the power of love is great enough, making the squad leader more and more Handsome, more and more charming.

Hearing such praise, Ashin smiled even more brightly.

The story was written in March, and there are too many stories about love. There are so many stories about you and her, so little that only you and her know about it, and there is no third person.

As long as you know the happiness and joy in it, it is enough, right?

Yes.