What are the taboo topics in interpersonal communication?

Lying is despised. Liars are not only despised by others, but also psychologically punished by themselves. Because, after lying, people will be flustered and can't sleep at night. This will cause brain dysfunction, lead to imbalance between excitement and inhibition, and cause nervous system diseases such as neurasthenia. Therefore, don't tell lies in the process of interpersonal communication.

It is not advisable to say too many compliments in communication.

Praise is the lubricant of interpersonal relationship, which can make interpersonal relationship harmonious, but it must be just right. If you say disgusting compliments in interpersonal communication, it will make people feel contempt and disgust, which is not conducive to interpersonal communication. Seeking truth from facts and praising each other appropriately can create a warm, friendly, positive and enthusiastic communication atmosphere. Praise can be reciprocated by the same friendliness. If you can satisfy other people's human desires, know how to praise and be good at praising, then you will become a compassionate, understanding and attractive person. The excessive compliment in interpersonal communication is hard to hear, which not only lowers one's personality, but also can't get the recognition of the other party. Therefore, it is not appropriate to say too many compliments in interpersonal communication.

Laughter can enhance friendship.

Happy laughter is not only beneficial to health, but also can enhance friendship, especially the laughter in conversation can achieve the effect that ordinary words can't. When meeting a stranger, the other person may appear stiff. At this time, if you can tell a joke, it will cause laughter on both sides, make the other side feel relaxed and cordial, and the sense of restraint will disappear. When the other person's question is difficult to answer at the moment, laughter can provide time for thinking and let you find the right response; When the conversation atmosphere enters a tense stage, timely laughter can ease the tense atmosphere and can be regarded as a "mediator" to open the deadlock. In addition, using laughter to refuse the other party's request can not only ease the atmosphere, but also make the other party embarrassed. At the same time, laughter can also eliminate troubles and restore fatigue. In a word, laughter is a vivid expression. In communication with people, laughter is essential, and of course laughter needs to be just right.

Look at people around you with a positive, positive, supportive and constructive eye.

Be good at discovering and praising the advantages of others, compliment them appropriately when necessary, and accept others' criticisms and suggestions happily. After being hurt by feelings, you can still communicate calmly. Apologize to others in time after touching their feelings. When someone disagrees with your point of view, you don't have to force others to accept it, and you don't have to feel angry. When you are wrong, you should bravely admit your mistake. Let others finish the dialogue before expressing your opinion. Listen carefully when others are talking.

Learn to listen and focus on each other when communicating, and you can't be half-hearted and perfunctory; Find meaningful things from uninterested topics; Act according to circumstances, simply tell each other's content and their feelings; Don't be preconceived when you listen for the first time, and then look for the theme and main points after listening.

In addition, nonverbal communication is also a way to improve interpersonal communication ability. Sometimes, a look, a gesture and a smile can bring people closer. In a word, interpersonal skills are varied, and only by comprehensive application can we achieve good results in the process of interpersonal communication.