When visiting relatives in the countryside, what kind of people make farmers "disgusted" the most?

Everyone has his own social circle, so communication is essential in this society. In the countryside, I often visit relatives. So what kind of people do farmers dislike the most?

First of all, people who like to talk big. Most people in rural areas are very simple, and some city people look down on rural people when they visit relatives in rural areas. In fact, they are not very rich themselves, but because they live in cities, they always feel that they will be superior to rural people. Talk a lot? You rural people? What you say will also belittle rural people, such as dirty rural environment and poor living conditions in rural areas. Everyone has his own way of living, and it is particularly disgusting to say these words when visiting relatives. So many rural people don't like such relatives in the city.

There are also some rural people who like to speak ill of others behind their backs when visiting relatives. For example, they speak ill of their daughter-in-law in front of her mother-in-law and speak ill of her mother-in-law in front of her daughter-in-law. They like to stir up contradictions and affect the harmony of others, but they look on coldly and look at jokes. This kind of relatives who harm others and do not benefit themselves are also disgusting to rural people.

There are also some relatives who always have no face and skin, and go to other people's homes to eat and drink under the excuse of relatives. In the countryside, you should bring some gifts or food to your wife's house. And some people are stingy and don't want to spend the money. I didn't pay attention to going to other people's homes, so I ate and drank. Besides, I don't have any vision and I don't do any work. I eat when I sleep, so that others can serve you like my ancestors. A little carelessness will make irresponsible remarks behind my back. Such people are the most disgusting in the countryside. Many people don't want such relatives to visit their homes.

Everyone should learn to be a man, otherwise not only outsiders don't like you, but even your family may not like you. So if you are one of the above people, you must try to change yourself and be a respected person. Ask for praise.