What are the characteristics of women, and it is most difficult to get long-term love from men?

What are the characteristics of women, and it is most difficult to get long-term love from men? 0 1 Give up your personal future I often hear some people's "outstanding" remarks about love, such as choosing to give up a better university in order to meet someone; In order to be someone, I choose to give up my favorite proposal.

Just to be in the same city with him and spend more time together. I am not easily moved by such words. I just feel that this persistence has a little distorted the connotation of feelings. Is it necessary for a person to sacrifice his development prospects in love? If two people can't keep pace at present, isn't long-distance love a kind of training?

I have a friend who sells goods live. I talked about a boyfriend in my hometown a few years ago. Boyfriend thinks she doesn't work very well and always wants to get married. Going abroad all the time is not the way. After careful consideration, my good friend resigned, went back to his hometown, opened a fashion shop, took photos of Tik Tok from time to time and shared his clothes. She had hoped that her boyfriend could take photos of himself and help with things in the store, but he would rather play games than fight with her after work. Even complained about her, always dressed so elegantly.

But a shopkeeper who runs a nail salon and sells goods online knows how to dress and match is one of her professional skills. And because friends are still as busy at work, there will be more friction when two people live under the same roof. After a long time, both of them are tired of this endless quarrel. In the end, they survived the foreign love, but they still didn't survive the real life together. Because when we live together, it is very obvious that the pursuit of beauty in life is so different.

Until the separation, she didn't tell her boyfriend that what she gave up for him was a job whose income was three times higher than that of opening a shop. Fortunately, my friend didn't make any more mistakes in front of the wrong person. In her words, if you make a mistake, change it back, and the money will still be earned back. Everyone may have experienced a failed love, but they don't know that they have entered a dead end and don't want to look back for a new development direction. In the final analysis, their life is that only by creating their own value can they get what they really want.

Only in this way will I not become worthless because of others' abandonment. If you leave your original job, life or even your life pursuit for love, then if you lose love, you will find yourself with nothing. Things are unpredictable, and feelings are the most unpredictable things. They can be sincere and enthusiastic, but they can't be brainless. Only by grasping the opportunities that you can see can you get gratitude and feedback from life better.

The mistake that girls are more likely to make in their feelings is the proliferation of the Virgin Mary, especially in front of the person they like. This feature of the Virgin Mary is usually more prominent. I heard a short story of a reader. She is a female boss doing small business in a fourth-tier city. By chance, she met a man who was seven years younger than her online, and the other person was broadcasting live. The female boss is divorced and single. After chatting for several times, she fell in love with the man and went to his live broadcast room to reward the anchor every day. Then, as expected, the two of them went offline. The man talked with his female boss about his life experience, how he felt inferior when he was a child, and how he suffered an emotional mutiny when he grew up.

Hearing this, the female boss felt that she was not its savior. Since then, I have been nicer to her. I bought him some gifts from time to time, such as clothes and watches, and even bought him a car of more than 200,000 yuan. However, although the man has always accepted her efforts, he is only grateful and has never acknowledged the relationship between the two. After they were together for more than half a year, the man told her that they didn't have to meet because they talked about their girlfriends.

At this time, the female boss looked puzzled. She paid so much for him from beginning to end, not counting his girlfriend. In the future, when the female boss calls again, it is a busy tone, and the mobile phone WeChat can't be read back, as if this person suddenly disappeared from her life. She didn't mean to be sad about money. After all, she doesn't care about that little money. She just felt that her enthusiasm was like a joke and her sincerity was trampled on by others. In feelings, it is easy for women who are flooded with Notre Dame to pay a lot for pity.

They always think that no matter how hard they work, they can get each other's love. I don't know, because your shortcomings are easy to expose, and the other person is likely to seize the characteristics of your virginity and deliberately guide you to give what he wants. Once he gets what he likes, he pats his ass and leaves, leaving you with everything to reflect on whether you are not good enough.

I have always felt that a man who really loves you, when you are still in the period of mutual trust, is not easy to deliberately create his own image of the weak, so that you can pity him and sympathize with him. Because if a man really loves a girl, he must want to give the other person a reliable and capable impression. Naturally, the most important thing is that feelings are equal and giving should be mutual. Don't give blindly at any time, otherwise he will only think that your contribution to him is taken for granted and cannot be cherished.