Adult love is proved by actions.

Hello! Hello, everyone, I'm Tu Xiaoyi, a 6-year-old Shanghai drift, an Aries girl who doesn't just love.

In fact, we have been discussing what adult love is like. I believe there is no perfect answer. Every way of love is different, and everyone looks at love in a different way.

Jia Baoyu said, I'll just take a scoop of water, even if it's 3 thousand.

San Mao said: Love will not last long if it can't be implemented in such small things as daily necessities, eating and sleeping.

Hugo said: Men's first reaction to true love is timidity, while women's first reaction to true love is courage.

Zhang Ailing said: I thought love could fill the regret of life. However, it is love itself that creates more regrets.

Miyazaki Hayao said: I believe that some people in this world have something and some love. When they met for the first time, they were doomed to be bound for life. They are destined to grow in their hearts like trees and live forever.

You see, everyone looks at love in a different way.

But I think adult love is "made".

# One #

Love you wholeheartedly.

Is there one thing that you are particularly afraid of? I really do, and that's fear of heights, similar to exciting events in amusement parks. I can't play at all. Just watching those events can make my heart beat faster.

My friends often laugh at me: you are not suitable for going to the playground, and you can only play the merry-go-round when you go.

Not to mention, I feel dizzy even on the carousel.

On one occasion, some of our friends who had a good time took their boyfriends out to play, and two or three couples were just eating, drinking and having fun together.

So I decided to go to Disney. After all, girls have no resistance to this dreamy place.

Because I have been with my good friends before, my interest is not high, but since it is the first time to go with Mr. Li, I am still looking forward to watching fireworks together in the evening.

As for the other two couples, they are absolutely enthusiastic. From the moment they entered the park, it seems that they have never stopped, and they can't wait to finish all the projects in one day.

Of course, for people like me who can't play exciting projects, I can only watch.

It was very hot that day, and all my friends went to play their own interesting projects, but Miss Li could only accompany me to the park for a walk or arrange some simple projects.

I brought a 50% discount umbrella, and Mr. Li helped me hold it. In order to let me get less sunshine, basically all the umbrellas are tilted to my side.

After shopping for a long time, I found that my new shoes rubbed my feet, and then I was pleasantly surprised to find that the band-aid and wet wipes prepared by Mr. Li really lamented this person's carefulness.

In fact, what moved me most at that time was that I quickly found a place to sit, helped me take off my shoes and put on a band-aid.

Only then did I really see a boy crouching down to find me. Although my mouth has always blamed me for not wearing comfortable shoes, my hands have never stopped.

At that moment, I suddenly seemed to know how much Mr. Li loved me. He has been taking care of me as a boyfriend, giving me the sense of security I want.

I think really loving someone really needs to be done, not just talked about. Let's take "love" not as a noun, but as a verb.

Actions speak louder than words. In this love, he loves me in the simplest but warmest way, and I will respond to him in this way.

# 2 #

Love you with all my company.

Last year, my mother suddenly lost weight because of stomach trouble. I watched her from being fatter than me to being thinner than me. In that case, my whole nerves are tense.

Although the doctor said it was nothing serious, I was still worried as long as I took care of it, so I would often go home to take care of my mother during that time.

During that time, my whole mental state also declined sharply, and I gradually realized that my parents were getting older.

When time gets tough, you will become miserable.

Mr. Li knows my fear and pain. During that time, I accompanied my mother to various hospitals for examination, and he would try to take time off to accompany me. He knows I'll be more supportive.

Fortunately, there was really no big problem in the end, just accompanying my mother to recuperate.

I still remember being busy for my mother in the hospital. Most of the time, Miss Li is running around in various ways, while I am waiting calmly with my mother.

During that time, he would often accompany me home and cook with my dad to make my mother and me happy.

Once on a business trip, I was worried about my mother. I used to always go home, and sometimes he would "blatantly" follow me back. At that time, he went to my house alone and cooked his own specialty for my parents.

Looking at the photos he shared with me, I suddenly felt that the feelings of two people were so much, and the feelings of the family were the most stinging.

He is willing to spend time for my parents, do what he can, and express everything with his own actions, which has completely won everyone's favor.

We often hear people say that feelings are related to two families. I think so, too. Real happiness should be realized by three families together. Whether it's his family or mine, we will all go to the same home in the end.

In fact, all the sweet words will eventually disappear because of disappointment. No one can overcome all disappointment and love someone again. That kind of love is too difficult.

When disappointment accumulates slowly, then TA will leave quietly. After all, all feelings have been consumed for a long time.

# 3 #

For a person who really loves you, things related to you must be very important to him.

He is willing to tolerate your little waywardness, pay attention to every detail related to you, spend time with you and treat your family as his own. ...

It is because of this love that you will feel extremely safe.

Zhang Xiaoxian once said: Good love makes you see the world through one person, while bad love makes you abandon the world for one person.

I want to say: who doesn't love the love that is managed with heart? The person who really loves you will continue to influence you, and you will respond to him in the same way, so that he can feel your true love.

Choosing a lover doesn't need too many criteria, just three points: don't lie to you, don't hurt you, and accompany you.

One day you will understand that what you really need may not be vigorous love, but someone who won't leave you.

TA may not bring surprises to your life, but it warms your years.

Good Night!

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