Who is in charge in your family?

I am the husband of the family as my wife. Life Times once conducted a survey with Sina Health Channel on "Who is in charge in your family". There are two sets of data that are very intriguing. As far as the control of economic power is concerned, the proportion of wives holding wallets is 32%, which is much larger than that of husbands 1 1%. However, this significant difference has been reduced a lot in the final decision, with the wife being 25% and the husband being 1%.

From my point of view: in modern society, men's social status and economic income are higher than those of women, so the slightly weaker party is in charge of economic power, which can ensure the balance and stability of family structure. However, because men's thinking is abstract and macro, and they have advantages in major decisions, they are not easy to make mistakes in major decisions. Women, on the other hand, have delicate thinking and are suitable for detail management. If you don't give them a small life, it will be overqualified!

In fact, many men are reluctant to hand over their bankbooks. What they think is that handing over the passbook is tantamount to handing over power, and their position in the family will not go on in the future. Look at the housekeeping of star couples; And Xu Fan, Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie are two couples, and Feng's family is in charge of money; The Zhang family is a woman in charge of money, a typical man is the object of money, and a woman is the combination of money boxes.

Hand over the passbook, but not the power. You have to * * * participate in major events at home and make decisions. If women have doubts and dare not participate in some projects, men will shoot the board themselves. As long as the board is shot correctly and loudly, why can't women take it orally?

Do you want to change that 1800 yuan, or a toilet, and what brand of toilet paper should I use? Who wouldn't give something like this to a woman? Men may not understand that many women do not care about managing the affairs of the country and the world. If you leave her in charge, she will be under a lot of pressure.

But women's financial quotient is also cultivated by men. If a wife has no financial quotient at all, her husband will look down on her one day. Deng Jie said that he was a fool at first, but he became smarter when he became a producer. Look, this is just an example of being exercised.

The so-called harmony between home and everything, how to embody this kind of "harmony" lies in who is in charge of the money and who has the final say. Those who have to take care of money and make decisions, no matter which side of the husband and wife, seem a bit too competitive. He (she) should think about it, does this inhibit the growth of the other party? And those who want to touch all the good ones and run all the bad ones are really boring. There is always something more important between husband and wife than money.