After marriage, my wife moved my account to their home. I mean, I want us to split equally. I am the head of the family. As for the work account, I have always been a wife. ...

You moved your account into your wife's account book and didn't change the head of household, so your wife is still the head of household. To change the relationship (head of household) in the household registration book, you need to fill in the household registration change form. Both parties agree to apply for changes and go to the local police station to handle them.

Personally, it doesn't matter who is the head of the family (generally speaking, it is the head of the family, a man with status). Hukou book is actually not a real estate license, and there is no actual interest relationship, just a family member relationship.

If you really want to be the head of the family, you need to communicate and coordinate with your wife, and both sides can reach an agreement, otherwise it will be the beginning of family conflicts.