Why can't a 3-year-old boy compete with a 7-year-old Adam Cheng? Please start managing yourself!

Every time I evaluate a girl, I usually say that she is beautiful or has outstanding temperament. However, it is rare to hear such comments on boys, which are generally divided into handsome or ordinary-looking, but rarely describe a boy as very temperament.

Temperament really depends on nurture, not only for girls, but also for boys. Nowadays, men in many countries pay more attention to their own clothes, wear suitable clothes, have their own taste, look comfortable when they are dressed clean, which just sets off their own temperament, and there is also a comfortable feeling among the crowd.

You said you want to study, and you want to improve, but you are still sloppy every day and have no enthusiasm for life. Where does your temperament come from?

temperament comes from within, as we all know. So you have to keep your love for learning, your passion for life, and your yearning for the unknown.

Temperament is often accumulated with the progress of years, with experience, insight and familiarity with the world, but there is still a proud spirit of not compromising with the years, which lasts for a long time, and the longer it lasts, the more fragrant it becomes. The same temperament we have seen in many women and also in some men.

Yesterday, I saw Adam Cheng, who had not seen me for a long time, appear at the airport. His appearance itself shocked everyone. Isn't he really 4 years old? Is he really 7 years old?

His waist is straight, his feet are windy, his clothes are decent, and his face is kind. Is that how "Yushu is facing the wind" describes him?

There are also many well-maintained people who are younger than their peers, but I think youth is a gesture. Some people can really be elegant all their lives.

I saw a lovely comment saying, "The same age as my grandfather, but he looks younger than my father." This kind of handsome uncle really depends on temperament. It must have taken a lot of effort to keep such a figure. At least I will be self-disciplined and restrain myself and become what I expected.

at a certain age, hair will turn white, teeth will fall out, and skin will relax, all of which are normal.

I was amazed when I saw his recent photo, and then I had to sigh with emotion, why most boys now wither when they are in their prime, and Adam Cheng's posture can kill some small meat.

It's not how well he is maintained and how young he looks, but the spirit he had when he was young. After decades, he still has it on him, and he looks like he is still working hard for it after his success.

My friend recommended me an APP called Detective last time, which only looks at the image of the opposite sex. If you like it, you can slide right, if you don't like it, you can slide left. I've watched it for about ten minutes. I'm about twenty years old, and my image is ok. I can only say it if I'm not ugly. People in their thirties or even forties are really unbearable to look at, not just their faces, but their temperament. Are they really that old after just a few years?

I was scared after reading it. Was my vision too high, or did I just see it like that?

It seems that I am not suitable for playing this kind of software. Uninstall it decisively and don't waste time on it.

The real aging is not that there are more wrinkles on your face and new white hair, but that the vicissitudes and gloom in your heart are increasing year by year, and the feeling of carrying yourself forward in your heart when you were young is completely gone.

When you are young, people are full of pride. When you want to accomplish something, wind is blowing under your feet. What I see in many people is old-fashioned, which is related to mentality.

How many young people, whose adolescence is extremely short, quickly entered the "middle age" a few years after graduation, dressed lazily, developed freely, and their eyes were no longer clear. Everyone in their thirties will reach this age, which is much more dazzling than those in their twenties who are still ignorant, but many people have removed the light behind them.

I once met a boy in his mid-thirties, who was actually not very old. After meeting him, I found that this "leader" was really old. He was wearing a khaki POLO shirt, tied up in a suit and trousers, and his keys hung on his belt. When he spoke, he did not have any cadence. He was even as flat as the coastline, and his face was longer than the winter night.

standing next to him is like standing between broken walls and withered branches, lifeless, not to mention talking about the same topic, just talking about work and buying a house. Facing lifeless people, you can't make jokes.

I don't like old-fashioned people, regardless of boys and girls, physical and psychological state determines everything. I like the sunshine inside. Even in my forties, I still have a sense of youth and girlhood inside.

The people who shout "Agassi" in Korean romantic dramas are more tangible and thoughtful, and it's not that any elderly person can be an uncle with Lori.

As mentioned earlier, temperament is from the inside out. Never give up the outside, let alone the inner cultivation. After all, the inside is the most important thing.

Everyone should know a little about fashion. Even if they don't know much about it, they can look at other people's clothes and see which ones are more comfortable and textured. Dress yourself up, but don't overdo it. Everything goes too far.

The inside is manifested through the outside. Compared with dressing well, I appreciate the spirit embodied in my body, which is your temperament that can't be taken away by time.

At home, I often hear aunts discussing that some people don't look very old, but their back is an old man, which may be the lack of this temperament.

When I thought about the last time I was at home, my mother saw a lot of white hair on my father's head, and told me that she had two wishes in her life:

First, she dyed her hair often, so that her hair didn't have any image;

First, if the teeth fall out when they are old, they should be filled up, and they must not be completely gone, which is an old popularity.

after listening to my mother's words, I found out that my mother is also a person who cares about image extremely.

Usually, when I am in the street, I sometimes see some married young ladies walking around the street in bloated pink pajamas, looking very lazy.

When I was very young, even if I didn't go out for a day at home, my mother asked me to dress neatly, and I couldn't wear pajamas. She thought it was rude and ugly, in case there were guests at home.

women like to please themselves, but it is better to please others than to please themselves. If you are satisfied with yourself, others will certainly like you, boys and girls alike.

I heard a joke about falling in love quickly in college, because it was the peak of a man's face value and figure. After this stage, most of them would gain weight, get pregnant or go bald. Don't you notice that many boys are disabled?

Having said that, do you think your ugliness can be saved, or can people control their looks?

You should be self-aware of ugliness, and then have the confidence to change. Many girls are actively becoming beautiful, so don't give up your image.

of course, even if you are not outstanding in appearance, you can totally fight back by improving your temperament!

before the age of 25, beauty depends on nature, and after the age of 25, face value depends on practice, regardless of boys and girls.

Whether you are good-looking or not is from the inside out. A person who loses enthusiasm for life and has no sense of self-discipline will not give people a good-looking feeling.

think about it. I can't help myself every day. I stay in bed and procrastinate every day. I barbecue beer and come as soon as I say, not to mention fitness. I never have much exercise. I'm panting after a few steps. How can I be windy and imposing?

A person's attitude towards life and psychological attitude can be completely expressed through the body.

It is impossible for people who live seriously every day to feel ugly if they treat their own people with heart.

Let's start fitness exercise. Don't let your hairline grow or your stomach get fat. People who keep fit for a long time are definitely different from people of the same age.

or find a few things that you like and are willing to stick to, spread your light and enthusiasm, and devote yourself to what you like, and this spirit will not leave you.

I'm just in my thirties and forties, and I'm in my prime. I can do a lot of interesting things, so don't be a greasy middle-aged man, otherwise it's a pity!

I know a university teacher, who should be in his forties. He shared that he is very strict with himself, not only adjusting his regular work and rest, but also exercising for a long time, which makes him feel comfortable, elegant and convincing. It is no wonder that although his class is Sunday morning, many of us still actively attend his class.

managing yourself is not only pleasing to the eye, but also respectable and convincing.

please, don't give up on yourself!

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