It depends on the fable of the object.

The fable of speaking by the object 1 the fable of speaking by the object.

Confucius took several of his students out to give lectures and visit, and the journey was very hard. On this day, Confucius and his party came to a village. They are resting in the shade, ready to eat some dry food and drink some water. Unexpectedly, Confucius' horse broke free from the reins and ran to the field to eat other people's wheat seedlings. A farmer stepped forward, grabbed the drill and buckled his horse.

Zi Gong is one of Confucius' most proud students and has always been eloquent. With his extraordinary eloquence, he volunteered to try to persuade farmers and strive for reconciliation. However, he talks like a book, and even people who talk big, whether in the sky or underground, tell the truth one by one. Despite all his efforts, the farmer just wouldn't listen.

There is a new student who has just followed Confucius for a long time. His knowledge and talent are far less than Zi Gong's. Seeing the stalemate between Zigong and the farmer, he said to Confucius, "Teacher, please let me try."

So he walked up to the farmer and smiled and said to him, "You are not farming in the distant East China Sea, and we are not farming in the distant West Sea. We are close, not far away. How can my horse not eat your crops? " Besides, maybe one day your cows will eat my crops, don't you think? We should understand each other. "

When the farmer heard this, he felt very reasonable, and the meaning of blame was relieved, so he returned the horse to Confucius. Several farmers nearby also talked to each other and said, "It's not like that man just now."

It seems that you must look at the object and the occasion when you speak, or you will be eloquent again, and it is no use for others not to buy your account.

The fable that speech depends on the object 2. The fable that speech depends on the object.

Professor Hong Zhaoguang, a famous Chinese health care scientist and anzhen hospital, said: "As the ancients said,' A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June'." This is the perfect way to describe the doctor's language. "

Professor Hong gave a real example, which sounded ridiculous, savored carefully and had profound implications. A patient had a liver examination. After the B-ultrasound, the doctor said: "Seven centimeters of liver cancer, this disease, died quickly. Now I advise you to think about it. What do you usually like to eat? Eat quickly. What do you like to play? Hurry up and play quickly. " The patient was frightened and pale, and fell to the ground and couldn't get up. The patient came home and stayed up all night. Get up the next day, look in the mirror and it's over. Results The patient lay in bed for 40 days, skinny, weighing less than 40 kg.

Later, the chairman of their labor union came to visit and said, "The organization sent me to see if you have any other requirements, and I will try my best to help you." Finally, the patient said, "I'm going to die. I have never seen Tiananmen Square in my life. I can see Tiananmen Square. Death is also worth it. " The chairman of the trade union said, "Then you can go. You can't get up. I will send four boys to carry a stretcher and carry you to Tiananmen Square. " The chairman of the trade union secretly said to the four young men accompanying the patient, "Go quickly and come back after reading it. Don't let him die in Beijing. Beijing is our capital, and it is not easy to die there. "

Fortunately, when I arrived in Beijing, one of the young men suggested inviting experts from Beijing to have a look again. What a coincidence! They met an experienced old expert. After the patient was examined, the old expert said, "Don't worry, there is nothing wrong." The patient said, "I'm dying. Why do you say I'm not sick? " The old expert said: "This is a misdiagnosis of liver cancer, and it is a scare. That's what scares people! Some people get liver cancer in the morning, but not in the afternoon. They have a nervous breakdown. They can't get out of bed at once and can't do anything. You have "benign cirrhosis ascites". I have been a doctor all my life, and I know your illness. Don't worry, there is absolutely no problem. I dare to open a certificate, I dare to guarantee you that I will be responsible for you! "

After returning to the northeast, the patient can eat and drink, and there is nothing wrong with it. If the patient hadn't come to Beijing for such a trip, if he wanted to see Tiananmen Square while he was alive, he would have been scared to death, turned to ashes and died in vain.

The fable of speaking depends on the object 3. Speaking depends on the fable of the object.

In ancient times, there was a bookworm who talked without looking at the object and always liked to chew over words. Once a scorpion stung him while he was sleeping. He shook his head and shouted, "Good wife, hurry up, silver candle, your husband was bitten by a bug!" " "Said several times in a row, the wife all don't understand.

He was even more anxious and said, "He is like a pipa and his tail is like a steel cone. Call for a good wife. Show me what it is. "

His wife doesn't know what happened yet. As a result, he couldn't stand the pain. In a rage, he said, "Wife, turn on the light quickly, the scorpion stung me!" " It hurts me! "

This joke reminds us that we must look at the target before speaking, which can never be ignored.

In ancient China, there was a man named Xu Yun, who was an official in the official department and promoted many fellow villagers. When Wei Mingdi noticed it, he sent someone to catch him.

In order to win over the situation, his wife said to Xu Yun, "The sage can take it away, but it is difficult to ask." Because she knew it was difficult to plead with the Ninth Five-Year Plan Emperor, but she could argue with "reason". You can't judge things casually according to the identity of the emperor. The emperor regards the country as the biggest and the people as the most important. Only by convincing people with reason and convincing people with reason can we safeguard national interests and the identity of the head of state.

Therefore, when interrogating Xu Yun in Wei Mingdi, Xu Yun replied bluntly: "Your Majesty's principle of employing people is' knowing what it is', and I know my hometown best. Please check whether they are qualified. If they are incompetent, I am willing to be punished. "

Wei Mingdi sent someone to inspect the hometown promoted by Xu Yun. They are really competent. They not only let Xu Yun go, but also rewarded him with a new suit. According to the personal recommendation system formulated by the feudal dynasty, Xu Yun's promotion of fellow villagers, whether appropriate or not, conforms to the "reason" recognized by the emperor in his identity. This can be said to be an excellent example of being good at choosing a way of speaking according to the status of the speaker.

Xunzi said, "Don't be proud of your words, don't hide your words, and don't be proud of your appearance." .

The "unspeakable" in this sentence seems to be related to the whole object. That person or those people should not say. As Mao Zedong said, casting pearls before swine means satirizing the subject as well as the object. Who told you to play the piano for the wrong person?