The father "overturned" when he picked up the baby from school for the first time, the son was dumbfounded and "ignorant", and the teacher was full of vigilance.

Nowadays, in many families, mothers are the main force to take care of their babies, and it seems that there will always be shortcomings in parenting. We often hear some concepts, such as "widowed parenting" or "fraudulent parenting".

The former means that the husband has no contribution to child-rearing, and depends on the mother alone. The latter means that some treasure dads start to take care of their children when they remember it one day, but they don't care if they can't remember it at ordinary times.

No matter what kind of parenting style, it is very unfavorable for children. And there will be many paragraphs, such as the following incident, which has triggered a heated discussion among many netizens.

There was a little video on the Internet a while ago. At the entrance of a kindergarten, the process of a treasure dad picking up the children made countless netizens laugh.

It is understood that this treasure dad is busy at work, rarely takes children, and has little communication with his son, let alone picking up children after school. Every day, all activities are attended by children, mothers or old people, and fathers have hardly met each other.

On this day, I was catching up with my early work, and I didn't have any urgent work in my hands. I was busy catching up with my mother, so Bao Dad wanted to experience the rush to pick up his son from school and volunteered to come to kindergarten.

I just didn't expect that the first time I got off the bus and went to school, it was not good for the whole "rollover". I picked up a child and went to the hot search.

In order not to be late, Bao Dad stood in line at the door of the child's house early, waiting for his son to appear, thinking of giving the child a surprise. Unexpectedly, it was a surprise to pick up the children by myself.

When my son saw his father for the first time, he just froze. "Who is this?" Looks familiar. What's he doing? "Judging from the child's expression, when he saw his father at the school gate, he must have been turning these questions in his mind.

Other children will be happy to call people when they see how their parents will react. Teachers are familiar with parents every day, so they will let parents take their children away.

But in this scene, the situation is obviously wrong. The person opposite said it was the father of the child, and the teachers didn't know, were unfamiliar with or even seen this face. More importantly, the child also looked puzzled and obviously did not respond to this man.

The most embarrassing thing in the audience is obviously Bao Dad, who greets his son assiduously, but his enthusiasm has not been responded. Only the dull-looking son looked at the vigilant teacher.

In this case, the teacher suddenly became nervous and quickly asked Bao Dad, "Who are you?"

Dad Bao was embarrassed and replied helplessly, "I am his father."

Having said that, judging from the child's reaction at that time, it was obviously not like seeing his father. However, the teacher carefully asked the child who the man opposite was.

As a result, the child was very confused, and was obviously more nervous when asked so frequently, and could not speak for a while. This blinded both the teacher and Bao Dad, and Dad was so anxious that he reached out to hold the baby when his brain was hot.

The teacher was instantly alert, and one turned around and directly protected the child behind him and rushed to the classroom.

This move made Bao Dad even more anxious, and it was really a family debate. It neither advances nor retreats. At that time, the air was full of awkward atmosphere. Bao Dad quickly explained, "I am really his father, teacher!" "

Seeing that the other person was in such a hurry and didn't want to cheat, the teacher also felt that he should ask the child again. So I asked the child again. At this time, the child who had been paralyzed for a long time finally woke up, recognized his father, gave the child a hand and shouted "Dad" happily.

The whole process was seen by the surrounding parents and teachers, which made everyone laugh. Dad Bao was embarrassed and helpless at once. He had thought of picking up a child, but he didn't expect it to be like this. But at the same time, I also realized that I usually spend too little time with my children, otherwise there would be no today.

In fact, something similar happened around me, but the role changed, not Bao Da but Ma Bao. My cousin is an open-minded person. Because of work reasons, my cousin usually has limited time to take care of the children. It is my brother-in-law's job to take the children to school.

My sister went to pick up the children the other day. It was my nephew's first time in kindergarten for more than a year. At that time, the teacher had no impression of my cousin and asked a few questions. Fortunately, my nephew was not confused and recognized his mother. Cousin later said: "I feel embarrassed to think about it."

Raising children requires the joint efforts and efforts of both parents, and there is no shortage of father's love and mother's love, which is very unfavorable for children's growth.

Without fatherly love education, children can easily become weak and have poor ability to resist setbacks. Without maternal love education, they can easily become careless, careless and weak in emotional ability.

It can be seen that no matter what kind of parenting method, if the child lacks the education brought by one parent, the result will not be too good, and it will have a great impact on the child's future life.

Koi fish's mother is very talkative.

Raising children is never a matter for mother or father alone. The whole process needs the joint efforts of parents. Only in this way can it be possible to raise children with mental health.