Mengwa was born without a head, and it is constantly being discussed whether it is parents' love or selfishness.

And doting on the topic composition materials.

Composition: A biologist who specializes in butterflies found it very difficult to study the process of butterflies leaving pupae. His wife really didn't see the difficulty of butterfly pupation, so she gently scratched several marks on the pupa with a scalpel. She smiled with relief when she saw the butterfly come out of the pupa easily. But it didn't take long for them to find that this "help-seeking" butterfly was particularly fat and its wings were so small that it couldn't fly at all. In fact, this true story contains profound philosophy. Children don't grow up like this! Parents' excessive caress deprived children of their viability. Please choose your own style, draw up your own topic and write an article with no less than words on the topic of "love and doting".

One of the materials:

Love or harm?

Parents and children have a continuous blood relationship, and children are the continuation of parents' lives. Everyone has deep feelings for their children, which is human nature and understandable. Luo Yin, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote two poems for his friends: "The national plan has been encouraged, and the family wealth is not for future generations." What he advocates is that you should be bold for the country's big plans, but never seek wealth for future generations.

Lin Zexu wrote a couplet: "Children and grandchildren are like me, what should I do with money?" Being virtuous and rich will damage his ambition. My children and grandchildren are not as good as me. What did you leave the money for? Foolish and rich, benefit to increase it. "Meaning, if future generations are as honest as I am, what should I leave him money for? He's already smart. I left him money and property, which actually damaged his will to struggle. My children and grandchildren are not as good as me. Leaving money to him will make him relax, hate work and live in the open space. The more money you save, the more you run amok and make more mistakes.

Ancient sages can understand the great righteousness so deeply and treat their children with extraordinary mind. Don't we even understand this? Overindulgence of children is not to love them, but to hurt them.

There is a word difference between "love" and "doting". In fact, the difference between the two is that loving in a rational way is true love, and loving with emotional love is doting. Love with reason, then you must know how to realize your love correctly. If you just love with feelings, then you can only get lost in doting.

A young mother thinks that Americans are really unfriendly. Look at the men in new york. Where did Aunt put Wang Qiming and them? Broken basement! It's dirty and messy there. Where does the man live? And look at aunt's virtue. She threw Wang Qiming and them a few hundred dollars, saying it was borrowed. Then who did it? Others come to the United States all the way, and you have to ask your niece, nephew and son-in-law to find a good restaurant and have a good meal. What a bore!

The young mother immediately put her arms around her teenage child and said softly, honey, mom can't do this. How can she treat her children like this? Mom wants you to study hard and be admitted to a famous university in the future, so that your grandma, grandpa, mom and dad will have luster on their faces! Baby, mom won't let you do anything. You just need to read a good book. If you have no money to spend, just say that your mother will meet your requirements no matter how hard and tired she is, because she loves you. ...

At the moment, I pay close attention to the picture in front of me: a red-faced teenager and a young but elderly mother, both of whom have completed a sacred speech in the history of modern family education in China. I believe this mother represents the existing ideas and behaviors of most parents in China today. At the same time, in that mother's sacred and proud eyes, I saw a deep-rooted educational concept has entered almost every family in China like a plague.

Material 2:

In real life, many parents care for us in every possible way. This is a deep love, and this sincere love itself is beyond reproach. However, once this kind of love is excessive, it becomes doting. This kind of doting has actually become a gentle trap on the growth path of each of our classmates. Each of us should have a clear understanding. If we fall into this trap, we will be deprived of the opportunity to make mistakes and correct them, and the right to make decisions, choose and act, thus losing the opportunity to grow.

Mencius, an ancient man, once said, "If heaven wants to belittle Sri Lanka, it must first suffer its mind, train its bones and muscles, starve its body and skin, and confuse its actions, so it is impossible and attractive."

The song "True Hero" sings: "How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? No one can succeed casually. " "Adults are uncomfortable, but they are actually uncomfortable." I hope that each of our classmates has a strong body, a sound personality, wings to fly high and a solid foundation.

Love and doting (selected works)

-11-2915: 37: 7 Source: Dai Author: Dehua No.5 Middle School (12) Reading:

There is a story about a teenager who once went out to eat with his classmates and got eggs. He said that the eggs here are not delicious, which is different from those at home. Asked him why it was different, he said it was too difficult. The eggs at home are white and soft, so they can be eaten with them. It turned out that his parents had been peeling eggs before giving them to him.

Maybe this is just a special case, but looking around, there are quite a few similar people and things in life.

Mary was born in a rich family. Her father is an official. He loves Mary so much that he gives her whatever she wants, so that an idea comes to her mind: anyway, my father's money is enough for me to spend my whole life, so why study hard and work hard? So she doesn't like to think seriously with her brain. It led her to make a joke about "a duck has four legs" in class, which made the whole class burst into laughter.

Like this teenager, the reason why he stuffed eggs into his mouth without peeling them was because his parents spoiled him so much that he didn't know how to eat them. Mary understood a duck as having four legs because her father gave her an overly relaxed environment and a love beyond love.

However, not all the love given to others is to spoil others, such as Project Hope, Cong Fei and so on.

Project Hope is a social organization that has sponsored countless poor students to return to school and rediscovered the fun of learning. It has raised a lot of funds from home and abroad to invest in education, established and improved educational institutions, and made more mountain students realize what high technology is. Organizations like Project Hope have inspired more poor students in mountainous areas to work hard and fight for the motherland.

Cong Fei, one of the top ten young people in China, was moved in 2000. He is suffering from cancer, but he has been fighting the disease, holding his body gradually swallowed up by the disease and sending the warmth of love to countless poor people. I have extended a helping hand to many students who can't continue their studies because of lack of funds, making them feel the greatness of love. This year, Cong Fei closed his eyes and passed away forever, but his spirit will remain in people's hearts like Lei Feng's spirit, and become a spiritual driving force to inspire people to make progress and embrace the world.

Love is selfless dedication to others, and doting is excessive love that parents pour into their children. They didn't realize that the flowers in the greenhouse couldn't stand the storm. The spirit of helping others, such as Project Hope and Cong Fei, is worth learning, and it is a spiritual force that inspires us to keep forging ahead.