After a breakup, if you meet your ex again, will you be reunited or will you go the other way?

Is meeting your ex again after a breakup a reunion or a departure from the past

Is meeting your ex again after a breakup a reunion or a departure? When two people get along, there will always be friction or even breakup due to personality differences or trivial matters in life. If you meet your ex again after a breakup, is it a matter of reuniting or going the other way? Do you have an answer in your mind? Is meeting your ex again after a breakup a reunion or a departure from the past1

Recently, I saw a very hot topic on the Internet, the title is "meeting your ex again after a breakup". Netizens have different attitudes. Some people think, Although I have broken up with my ex, we still had the closest relationship and we would still say hello when we met. A large part of me also feels that I have been hurt by my ex. The grass on his grave is already three meters high. I would be polite if I didn’t scold him when I met him.

Everyone’s attitude towards their ex is different, and everyone’s love for their ex and the reciprocity they receive are also different. Most of the people who think they can still say hello are breaking up peacefully. I think Most of the people who have no contact with each other until old age and death are those who have been hurt by their exes, or who were deeply loved. As the saying goes, the deepest love is the most intense hatred.

A question often asked is whether you can still be friends after breaking up with your ex. Some say it can be done, some say it can't be done. In fact, these all vary from person to person, and there is no exact answer or absolute standard answer. It depends on the relationship between the two people. No one says that if two people are in love, they must have loved each other deeply. It may not be to a certain extent, or even if they break up peacefully and there is no friction, they can still be friends.

The person who once knew you the most, since meeting you is fate, everyone’s meeting has a certain reason, and there must be a reason for his appearance. , his appearance may be to teach you some things and principles in this world. If this kind of relationship cannot be a close lover, you can still be a good friend. It is also possible to feel like a relative, but it cannot affect the relationship with your current girlfriend. It is unreasonable to be too close.

This is the situation between Hu Ge and his predecessor Jiang Shuying, at least it seems like this now. Jiang Shuying once talked about his predecessor Hu Ge in Cai Kangyong's program. In fact, celebrities rarely mention their previous relationships or exes to avoid suspicion, but Jiang Shuying generously spoke about the relationship between the two. She said that they are really friends now. If Hu Ge invites her to get married, I will attend. If my spouse agrees, I will also invite Hu Ge to attend. In some activities, it is now rare to see two people in the same frame. Regardless of whether they are true friends or not, at least they are not in constant contact with each other like the other party.

There are also Deng Ziqi and Lin Youjia who were fired before. In the two music programs where they served as mentors respectively, contestants boldly tried their predecessors Song, singing Deng Ziqi's song in front of Lin Youjia, singing Lin Youjia's song in front of Deng Ziqi, it may be intentional by the program team, but the reactions of the two people are indeed not the same. Netizens generally say that Lin Youjia has become cloudless. Qing Qing has let go of his previous emotions, while Deng Ziqi's performance is more obvious, as if he has not forgotten his last relationship. No matter what the feelings between two people are, in fact, more people still hope that they can face themselves and their past, and it would not be a bad idea if they could be friends.

And what about those who choose to live without contact?

Is it really a good thing to choose to turn a cold shoulder or even yell at your ex? In fact, no, people around you will only see jokes and not care who is wronged more among you. It will only become a topic of conversation for many people after dinner. But it is understandable in some situations. It may be that you met a scumbag or a scumbag and were hurt by the other person's behavior, like Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen, who were the most searched.

I have a friend who kept silent about her previous ex. She was not that angry by nature, but after breaking up with her ex, her thoughts on love changed drastically. She began to hate being in love and would feel sick when she saw couples who were tired of being together. This was caused by the psychological trauma left by her previous relationship.

In fact, similar things will happen to many people, but they have different degrees of acceptance and different levels of hurt.

In fact, you don’t need to put many bad people on the wound in your heart. For those who have hurt themselves, your impulsive behavior may be a way to relieve their guilt in the eyes of the other person. The method is a topic that others gossip about behind their backs. Put the other person in an insignificant place. You don’t need to care too much. Time will naturally wear away all the scars and past. After experiencing it, it will become clear after a long time. I feel that I am naive, innocent and unnecessary. When meeting your ex after a breakup, is it a reconciliation or a departure from the past? 2

1. Overestimating yourself, but actually not as strong as you think

After breaking up, I have imagined many times when I meet again. situation, but when they really met again, they found that they were not as strong as they thought. We met again a year after we broke up with him, on the morning of August 10, 2016. I remember this day very clearly. After breaking up with him, I felt depressed for a while and ate and drank as much as eating to fill me up. The pain in my heart, I didn’t look in the mirror for two months, because I didn’t want to see my worthless look, I was depressed for two months, and finally woke up after a good friend scolded me, forcing me to look at myself in the mirror, and said To be honest, when I saw myself again, I couldn't help but laugh out loud, because in two months, I had eaten myself into a fat man. No wonder, I felt more and more bored. , it turned out to be my underwear, and my pants were getting tighter and tighter. At that time, I thought it was because I was worried because of the breakup...

My good friend pulled me to cheer me up, so I started running every morning to lose my excess fat. Yes, what’s so big about breaking up? , who can’t live anymore if we leave? After we broke up, I should make myself better and better. When he saw me again, I proudly said to him: "Look, I can still live a free and easy life without you. I regret it, haha." ...".

Every time I run, I feel so self-righteous in my heart. However, when I actually run, I meet him again. I am nervous, excited, and overwhelmed, just like that. I stopped and looked at him for a long time, until he said: "Hi, are you okay?" I came back to my senses, immediately sorted out my emotions, pretended to be calm and said with a slight smile: "Very good. It's never been better!" He smiled and nodded and said, "That's good!" After that, I pretended not to care and said, "Well, I'll run and leave first." He nodded, and I He ran away like flying, and as he ran, he found that his face was already filled with tears. It turned out that deep down in his heart, he still didn't let go...

2. Deliberately laughing loudly with friends and pretending not to notice

When I was shopping with my friends, I saw him from a distance. The moment I saw him, my heart seemed to beat a lot. After several times, I immediately suppressed my racing heart and took the initiative to chat about fun things with my friend. When I passed by him, I laughed loudly on purpose, as if just to attract his attention, okay? , I admit that it was just to attract his attention, however, I also succeeded. He saw me stop and waved my hand, but I pretended not to notice, laughed loudly and walked away with my friend, about ten meters away. Well, I still couldn't help turning my head and looking back. Finally, I found my heart twitching hard because I found that he was still standing there looking at me. I immediately turned my head back, nervous as if I was panting. I can't breathe, and I can hear my own heartbeat "bang bang bang"...

3. I threw away the cigarette in my hand in panic

When I was dating my ex-girlfriend, she didn’t like me smoking. Every time she saw me She would quarrel with me even if she smoked. She was so verbose and annoying. There are many men in the world who don’t smoke. In the end, we broke up for various reasons. When I saw her again, my eyes were open. When we faced each other, I threw away the cigarette in my hand in panic, then smiled awkwardly, and she nodded lightly and left. When I came to my senses, I looked at my empty hands and the ones I threw. Yan Yan, who was lying on the ground, laughed to herself: She won't bother me anymore...