"Honey, I know I was wrong, let's remarry." Is remarriage good or bad for divorced couples?

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Divorce is not a good thing for all of us. Who doesn’t want their marriage to be long-lasting and loving? But wishes are beautiful, but sometimes reality is cruel. Some people make unforgivable mistakes in marriage, which leads to the breakdown of their marriage and divorce from their significant other.

When we were young, divorce seemed to be a very shameful thing. But now, divorce has become a very common thing. According to reports, my country's divorce rate has increased for 15 consecutive years. Divorce seems to be an easy thing.

No matter what, I always feel that if couples can understand each other, it is best not to divorce. After all, it is not easy to be together. And can couples after divorce really ignore each other?

I think this is not easy. Many couples choose to divorce because of impulse. After the divorce, they find that they still have feelings for each other, so they choose to remarry. So, is remarriage good or bad for divorced couples?

Liu Hui is a woman who lives a relatively clear life. In her opinion, once some couples divorce, if they choose to remarry, they will undoubtedly make the same mistake again. After all, some mistakes are unforgivable.

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Liu Hui and her husband Sun Qiang are a very loving couple. The two have been married for 2 years and their relationship has always been very good.

When Liu Hui was just married, her eyes were full of love every time she saw her husband. Everything about Sun Qiang seemed so beautiful to her. This may be the so-called "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"!

Liu Hui thought they would live happily forever, but unexpectedly something happened that led to the breakdown of their marriage.

It turns out that Sun Qiang had an affair when Liu Hui was pregnant. When Liu Hui pulled out the woman's photo from Sun Qiang's phone, her heart was broken. She never expected that her beloved husband would choose to betray the marriage when she was pregnant. Liu Hui was in so much pain that she almost thought of committing suicide.

During that time, Liu Hui simply lost the idea of ??living, and her heart was as chaotic as a hemp rope. Her husband, Sun Qiang, knelt down and begged her for forgiveness and said he would never do it again in the future. But he has completely lost trust in Liu Hui's heart. Liu Hui didn't know whether she should trust him or whether she could trust him in the future.

In the end, Liu Hui chose to divorce and gave birth to the child, a boy, who she raised alone. This is unbelievable in the eyes of Liu Hui's relatives and friends. Why should the child be born?

When I first discovered that Sun Qiang had cheated on me, the child had only been in my belly for 2 months, so I didn’t have to choose to have it! Liu Hui's inner activities were not told to anyone, and no one knew why she made such a choice.

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After the two divorced, Liu Hui took care of her newly born son alone. On the other side, Sun Qiang felt extremely guilty. He had been begging Liu Hui for forgiveness ever since he was discovered to have cheated.

Now that what has happened, there is no point in asking for forgiveness. Sun Qiang actually still loves Liu Hui, but he was just impulsive and suffered a bitter consequences, so he wants to use actions to plead for Liu Hui's forgiveness.

After the divorce, the two had no contact or visit, and they did not find a new partner. Sun Qiang directly cut off contact with the woman, because there was not much friendship in the first place, and the cheating was an accident.

Liu Hui actually knew Sun Qiang’s current situation very well, and Sun Qiang deliberately conveyed to her the message that he had corrected his evil ways. But Liu Hui didn't say anything, as if he regarded Sun Qiang as a stranger.

One day a year later, Liu Hui’s mother fell ill and was very serious. Liu Hui's brother has been away from home, and there is not even a man in the family. Liu Hui has no backbone and doesn't know what to do for a while.

Sun Qiang learned the news from his "confidant" (a neighbor of Liu Hui's family) and immediately rushed to Liu Hui's house. Liu Hui didn't care too much, so she and Sun Qiang drove the old lady to the hospital.

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In the hospital, Sun Qiang was busy running back and forth, just like the old lady's biological son. Liu Hui didn't have much expression on her face. She just stayed in front of her mother's hospital bed and talked to her.

Liu Hui’s mother saw that Sun Qiang still took such care of her, and the meaning expressed was obvious. The mother thought about how difficult it was for her daughter to raise a child alone. Now that Sun Qiang has realized his mistake and corrected it very well, it is better to remarry him.

So her mother has been persuading Liu Hui to forgive Sun Qiang this time. But Liu Hui just didn't agree, and her mother couldn't persuade her so she had to stop persuading her.

When he went back, Sun Qiang gave it a try: "Honey, I know I was wrong, let's remarry!"

Liu Hui rolled her eyes: "I don't want to be fucked by you again." I'm not stupid after being hurt once. Goodbye!" After saying that, he left, leaving Sun Qiang to sigh independently.

Later, relatives and friends around Liu Hui tried to persuade her to remarry Sun Qiang, but Liu Hui firmly disagreed. She said: "If Sun Qiang just made a common mistake, as long as he is willing to correct it, I will definitely forgive him. But what he made was a principled mistake, cheating in marriage. Based on this alone, I cannot forgive him in any case." ”

“In my opinion, there are only zero cheatings and countless cheatings. Since he could cheat on me when I was pregnant, how could I believe that he would not cheat on me again after remarrying? "

"You always think that the two of you can be reconciled as before, but think about it, how is this possible? Will the scar in your heart be restored? It's always been there. Even if I get remarried, he'll still be tormented by his cheating, and we still won't be able to go back to the past, even though I know this is the result. , Why should I remarry him? It’s better to just leave each other alone as we are now." After hearing Liu Hui’s words, no one around her tried to persuade her again.