Common sense of marriage

Wedding knowledge: 1. Drinking a glass of wine at the wedding is one of the important ceremonies at the wedding.

This custom has existed since ancient times and originated from the Qin Dynasty. According to historical records, at that time, the bride and groom each held a ladle that was split in two, which meant that the two became one and the husband and wife had the same status. After marriage, they love each other and live in harmony.

It was not until the Tang Dynasty that containers were replaced by wine glasses. Nowadays, the ceremony of toasting has changed a lot from the beginning, but no matter how different the expression of this custom is, its meaning is the same, that is, it symbolizes that the knot will always be good, and it also has the profound meaning of letting the bride and groom share joys and sorrows.

2, wearing a ring Many young people don't know which finger the ring is worn on and what it means. Jokes or gossips caused by wearing rings indiscriminately abound.

Therefore, when you decide to wear a ring to the street, you must make up the ring research. Even if it is decorative, it can avoid misunderstanding. Why not? The hint of the ring: worn on the index finger, it means unmarried and wants to get married; Wear it on the middle finger to show love; Wear it on the ring finger to indicate engagement or marriage; Wearing it on the little finger means being single.

In foreign countries, wedding rings cannot be made of alloy, but must be made of pure gold, platinum or sterling silver, indicating that love is pure. The names of both parties must be engraved on the ring, because this is a permanent commemoration, which means to grow old together.

3. Witness "Witness" generally invites the elders, unit leaders or people with high prestige at the whole wedding to be witnesses. Witnesses usually read the marriage certificate and make a marriage statement at the beginning of the wedding.

4. Married people usually refer to parents, the father of the groom or the father of the bride. In some cases, it may be the mother of the bride or groom or her grandparents.

2. I want to ask, what is the common sense of wedding?

1, to strengthen the exercise dress, you should wear real money. The most important thing is to strengthen physical exercise and lose weight as soon as possible. If you want to lose more than ten kilograms, you should implement a weight loss plan at least 1 month in advance. Of course, the most ideal way is to consult a professional fitness instructor and seek the best exercise method.

2, straight back Even if you wear the most expensive clothes, as long as you bow your back, your manners and demeanor will be greatly reduced. Stand up, adjust your posture and exercise your muscles in a targeted manner.

3, white teeth It is very important to take pictures or meet guests on the wedding day, showing white teeth and smiles. 4. Trim your hair in time. You should find a familiar hair stylist to have a haircut one week before marriage, so that your hair has enough time to grow naturally and be grateful.

Don't try a new hairstyle at this important moment, lest you make mistakes and regret it. Other embarrassing parts, such as nostrils, have thick hair and should be trimmed clean.

5, manicure In order not to affect the overall performance of the wedding day, the section can not be ignored. Cut your nails short in advance.

6. Get rid of body odor and choose an antiperspirant that suits you. Try to clear your breath with mouthwash before saluting.

Of course, it is best to prepare fresh and hearty cologne with a concentration not higher than that of the bride, otherwise the image of a man will be discounted. 7. Stand gracefully. On the wedding day, the groom should stand in front of the bride for about 15cm, gently bend his left arm, and let the bride hold her wrist with her right hand. The two will stand in a figure of eight. When entering the venue, the groom should stand up straight, look straight ahead, walk moderately and move slowly, so that the bride around him can follow calmly.

Don't hold the bride tightly, lest you step on the skirt and don't be too far away. When the head is lowered, the amplitude is about 15 degrees, and the head is still downward 1~2 seconds. 8. Make an appropriate speech. The groom thanked the guests with sincere tone and modest attitude.

While expressing my love for the bride, I also thank my parents for their upbringing, and thank the marriage seeker and other relatives and friends for their love. Examples are as follows: Today, Miss XXX and I held a wedding here. Please ask Mr. XXX to witness the wedding.

It's a great honor that all your friends and relatives are here. We will never forget the words of witnesses and elders just now, and we also need your elders, relatives and friends, brothers and sisters to give us more advice in the future.

Please forgive my poor hospitality today. I wish you good health and happiness for your whole family! 9. Toast You should know that toasting is a big test for newcomers, especially the groom.

Therefore, we must be fully prepared before, first of all, we must find a good wine stopper (best man); Second, we must arrange the "wine stopper" and the wine stopper; Third, we must avoid fasting before drinking, eat more greasy food and soup, which has the effect of hangover; Fourth, don't rely on hangover medicine and tea, they are more used to sober up; Fifth, if you drink too much, you might as well drink some hot soup and boiled water to dilute the alcohol concentration. 10. Treat guests equally when giving gifts. At the end of the wedding reception, the bride and groom should wait at the door to thank the guests and see them off.

Wedding gifts are essential, especially hard-working groomsmen. Watches and ties are good gifts.

3. Wedding knowledge ABC

I've seen too much myself. Here are some basics. I hope I can help you! 1 [matchmaker] The matchmaker is also called "matchmaker".

Yuan Zhen, a talented scholar in the Tang Dynasty, wrote a biography of Yuanyang, which created a clever and lively image of a handmaid matchmaker. She carefully planned again and again, and finally arranged the wedding for Zhang Sheng and Miss Yingying. Based on this story, Wang Shifu wrote Yuan zaju "The West Chamber", in which the image of the matchmaker is more vivid and lovely.

People call the matchmaker "the matchmaker", which shows their importance and friendliness to the matchmaker. 2. [Old Moon] is the abbreviation of "Old Moon".

According to the novels of the Tang Dynasty, a man named Wei Gu passed by Song Cheng at night and met an old man sitting on the side of the road, carrying a big bag and turning over a big book in the moonlight. Wei Gu asked him kindly what book he was reading. The old man replied that this is the marriage certificate of everyone in the world.

Gu Wei asked the old man what was in his big pocket. The old man replied, "If you tie men's and women's feet with red ropes, as long as you tie a man's and a woman's feet with red ropes, even a sworn enemy or a stranger thousands of miles away will definitely get married."

Therefore, people say that "a thousand miles of marriage is a thread." "3. 【 Lian Li, Bing Ke 】 Metaphors are different roots of vegetation, and their branches are connected together. In the past, it was regarded as an auspicious symbol, but now it is also a metaphor for marriage.

Li Lian is also known as Bingke. 4.[ Clothing] In recent traditional weddings, the groom wears robes, and the bride wears badges and dresses.

The rockhopper is decorated with silver or other phoenix shapes, giving people a gorgeous and charming feeling. Bi Xia is a red shawl, which can not only protect the coat, but also play a decorative role. Generally speaking, the bride wears a red silk skirt and embroidered shoes with auspicious patterns such as mandarin ducks, plum blossoms and lotus flowers on a red background.

5. [Weighing beam] This is used to pick the lid. The homonym of scale is "weighing", which means "contentment".

6. [Etiquette personnel] At the wedding, there are special requirements for etiquette personnel. In the old society, a married wife in Beijing must be a "well-off person", that is, there are in-laws and husbands, grandchildren and brothers and sisters, and the genus cannot be compared with the bride and groom. 7. [Taishan, Taishui, Lieyue] The wife and father are called Taishan, the wife and mother are called Taishui, and the wife and uncle are called Lieyue. The source is Chaoke.

8. [It doesn't matter if you get married for three days] As the saying goes, "It doesn't matter if you get married for three days", that is to say, you can find a bride to laugh and play. At this time, the relationship between brother-in-law and brother-in-law, between young aunts, between eldest sister-in-law and brother-in-law and young aunts is more casual. You can laugh and scold, but you can't turn your face and get angry.

After this special day, the interpersonal relationship and life of husband and wife are normal again. 9. The prototype of [hijab] is an ancient veil. From the Six Dynasties to the Sui and Tang Dynasties, the bride covered her face with a fan, so there was a custom of fanning every family after marriage, that is, the groom removed the obstacles of the bride, which was the same as the hijab of later generations, also called "hood red", "hood red" and "buried red".

When the bride goes out of the boudoir, the hijab is covered, and it is not until the in-laws get married that the groom picks up the hijab or uncovers it with a scale. 10, [Take Qi Mei as an example] According to Liang Hongchuan, a book in the later Han Dynasty, when Hongliang's wife brought him meals, she always held the plates filled with rice high. Later, people generally referred to the description of husband and wife respecting each other as guests.

1 1, China traditional wedding 1. Farewell: The bride will bow to her parents to say goodbye, the father will cover her with a veil, and the groom can only bow. 2. Wedding reception: Both Chinese and Western weddings are quite popular now. Most of them entertain guests at night and hold ceremonies at the same time. At the wedding reception, the bride can take off her wedding dress and put on her evening dress to propose a toast to each table one by one.

3. ancestor worship: the man worships his ancestors before going out to marry the bride. 4. Hold the bride: When the bride walks out of the limousine, a lucky elder of the man should hold bamboo chopsticks on the bride's head and help the groom enter the hall.

When entering the door, the newcomer must not step on the threshold, but cross it. 5. Fireworks to greet the bride: set off firecrackers all the way to celebrate the procession of the wedding car.

6. Waiting: When the groom arrives at the woman's house, there will be boys waiting for the groom with tea trays. After the groom gets off the bus, he will be rewarded with a red envelope before entering the woman's house. 7. Going out: The bride should be escorted to the limousine by the female elder of Fugaode with bamboo chopsticks or a black umbrella, because the status of the bride on the wedding day is greater than anyone else, and she can't compete with heaven.

8. Touch oranges: When the welcoming team arrives at the groom's house, a child with oranges or apples greets the newlyweds, and the groom wants to touch oranges. And give a red envelope as a gift.

These two sentences should be put in the evening and let the bride peel them herself, which means "longevity". 9. Cute: The groom should hold a bunch of flowers in the room for the bride who is about to get married. At this time, the bride's close friend will stop the groom and forbid him to see the bride. The woman can make a condition for the groom to agree, and then she can enter.

10. The limousine: Shortly after the bride gets on the limousine, the bride's parents will sprinkle a bowl of water and white rice behind the limousine, indicating that her daughter has spilled water, and she will never ask again, and wish her daughter food and clothing. 1 1. firecrackers: on the way from the woman's house to the man's house, a nursery rhyme salute should be sounded.

12. seeing the guests off: After the wedding reception, the couple stood at the door to see them off. 13. Making trouble in the bridal chamber: The degree of disaster that the newlyweds are punished depends on whether the newlyweds have teased others at other weddings or whether they have always been loyal to others.

4. Need marriage knowledge urgently

The first paragraph of Article 7 of the Marriage Law stipulates that "lineal blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations" are prohibited from getting married.

Lineal blood relatives refer to people who have given birth to themselves and their descendants, such as parents' children, grandparents' grandchildren, great-grandparents' great-grandchildren and so on. No matter how far the algebra is, immediate family members are not allowed to get married.

At the same time, legal fictional lineal relatives, such as adoptive parents and adopted children, may not get married although they have no natural lineal relatives, which is mainly an ethical requirement. Collateral blood relatives refer to all relatives from the same source except lineal blood relatives.

Like brothers and sisters born to one parent, half-brothers and sisters born to the same father, cousins born to the same grandparents, etc. The law does not prohibit all collateral relatives from getting married, but only collateral relatives within three generations.

Generation is the first generation, parents are the second generation, grandparents are the third generation, and so on. Therefore, collateral blood relatives within three generations refer to collateral blood relatives from the same grandparents and grandparents.

Specifically, collateral blood relatives who are forbidden to get married include: (1) brothers and sisters, including siblings and half-brothers, but excluding unrelated or half-brothers. (2) Uncle, uncle and niece, uncle and niece, aunt and nephew; (3) Cousins and cousins can get married without violating the above provisions.

5. I want to ask, what is the common sense of wedding?

1, strengthen exercise

The most important thing to wear formal clothes is to strengthen physical exercise and lose a fat belly as soon as possible. If you want to lose more than ten pounds, you must implement a weight loss plan at least 1 month in advance. Of course, the most ideal way is to consult a professional fitness coach and seek the best exercise method.

Step 2 keep your back straight

Even if you wear the most expensive clothes, your manners and manners will be greatly reduced as long as you bow your back. Stand up, adjust your posture and exercise your muscles in a targeted manner.

3. White teeth

It is very important to show white teeth and smile when taking photos or meeting guests on the wedding day.

4. Trim your hair at the right time

It is advisable to find a familiar hairdresser for a haircut one week before marriage, so that the hair has enough time to grow naturally and be grateful. Don't try a new hairstyle at this important moment, lest you make mistakes and regret it. Other embarrassing parts, such as nostrils, have thick hair and should be trimmed clean.

Step 5 trim

In order not to affect the overall performance of the wedding day, this part can not be ignored. Cut your nails short in advance.

Step 6 get rid of body odor

Choose an antiperspirant that suits you. Try to clear your breath with mouthwash before saluting. Of course, it is best to prepare fresh and hearty cologne with a concentration not higher than that of the bride, otherwise it will give a discount to the image of men.

Step 7 stand gracefully

On the wedding day, the groom should stand in front of the bride for about 15cm, gently bend his left arm, and let the bride hold her wrist with her right hand, so that they stand in a figure of eight. When entering the venue, the groom should stand up straight, look straight ahead, walk moderately and move slowly, so that the bride around him can follow calmly. Don't hold the bride tightly, lest you step on the skirt and don't be too far away. When the head is lowered, the amplitude is about 15 degrees, and the head is still downward 1~2 seconds.

8. Make a proper speech

The groom thanked the guests with sincere tone and modest attitude. While expressing my love for the bride, I also thank my parents for their upbringing, and thank the marriage seeker and other relatives and friends for their love. Examples are as follows: Today, Miss XXX and I held a wedding here. Please ask Mr. XXX to witness the wedding. It's a great honor that all your friends and relatives are here. We will never forget the words of witnesses and elders just now, and we also need your elders, relatives and friends, brothers and sisters to give us more advice in the future. Please forgive my poor hospitality today. I wish you good health and happiness for your whole family!

9. What you need to know about toasting

Toast is a big test for newcomers, especially the groom. Therefore, we must be fully prepared before, first of all, we must find a good wine stopper (best man); Second, we must arrange the "wine stopper" and the wine stopper; Third, we must avoid fasting before drinking, eat more greasy food and soup, which has the effect of hangover; Fourth, don't rely on hangover medicine and tea, they are more used to sober up; Fifth, if you drink too much, you might as well drink some hot soup and boiled water to dilute the alcohol concentration.

10, thank guests for their gifts.

Guests should be treated as gifts. At the end of the wedding reception, the bride and groom should wait at the door to thank the guests and see them off. Wedding gifts are essential, especially hard-working groomsmen. Watches and ties are good gifts.