Nana Ou-yang was sexually harassed at the airport. How can a woman protect herself outside?

On the evening of March 365438+1October 3 1, Nana Ou-yang was pestered by a man at the airport. According to the people present, the man pulled Nana's hair and said to her, "May I kiss you?" Then the police arrived in time and took the man away.

It is reported that when Nana was about to leave the Capital Airport that night, she was suddenly entangled by an unknown person. Ignoring the staff, the man pulled Nana's hair and asked Nana, "May I kiss you?" The staff quickly took Nana away from the scene and shouted for help. The man kept up with the entanglement again, and the airport police heard the news, isolated the person and conducted an inquiry and investigation.

This is naked sexual harassment! This is a real crime!

However, what people never expected was that this network was more malicious:

Some people say that she deliberately hyped and created sexual harassment on hot search! He also said categorically: "Can an enthusiast say sexual harassment?"

Some people say that she is harassing and posing, and she is too calm and fake after being sexually harassed!

Some people are so vicious that they say, "I didn't even pull!" " He also said: "Find a quiet and private place to pull your hair." !

Someone even directly attacked: "It doesn't matter if you steal the actor's pajamas, just pull your hair and jump."

The evil of the human heart is nothing more than this.

In many countries in the world, people attach great importance to the concept of "don't judge", which means "don't judge others".

In fact, it is very strange that in Europe and the United States, where freedom of speech is more emphasized, "no"

The judge is absolutely correct in society, and the criteria for judging "sexual harassment" have become very broad. For example, if a man says a strange woman is "getting fat" in the elevator, she can sue you for sexual harassment! Even if you tell a same-sex person about his or her figure in the street, you will be accused of "sexual harassment". Most importantly, the court will support this accusation to a greater extent! This is actually a high degree of protection for women by the whole society and law.

In China, however, there is no clear legislative provision on "sexual harassment", and only those who commit "indecent assault" will be sentenced and punished. This threshold of imprisonment has caused irreparable physical and mental harm to women. The boundary between it and "felony rape" is only whether there is any substantive relationship!

The perpetrators of "sexual harassment", their crime cost is too low. So that they can ignore the flirtation, attack and sexual harassment of women around them, but it is difficult to be punished. So when I see people just using:

"Crazy!"

"This man is really idle!"

"I hope the world is less malicious ..."

When evaluating and responding to this matter, I really want to tell you: this is not a disease, this is naked sexual harassment! This is not malicious, but a real crime! This is a real injury to girls and a contempt for rules and laws.

Those who use foul language, slander or even understate are the most shameless accomplices and perpetrators of sexual harassment!

Don't say that girls' beautiful clothes will make people daydream; Never say that girls dress up beautifully just to show others; Don't say that someone sexually harassed or even violated girls, one link is linked! Anyone who is normal, has a sense of justice, and knows good, evil, honor and disgrace should not say such absurd things.

The so-called slap in the face is a ferocious and proud sophistry of the perpetrators!

Is there really no useful way for a girl to face sudden harassment? How do girls protect themselves?

Today, I called my sister, the largest world-class mixed martial arts event in Asia, the public relations director of ONE Championship, and the beauty of Dragon Horn. Moreover, she has practiced fighting for many years and is also a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu blue ribbon player.

She told me. Even a girl who has been practicing for a long time in her major (fighting), it is almost impossible to make enemies suddenly in this situation! Normal girls practice self-defense, fighting and fighting, and receive professional training for a long time. The best result is that you can use limited confrontation to buy yourself time and opportunities to scream and escape.

"In fact, teaching these things is based on a hypothesis. Suppose a girl encounters this situation, and then such an action, such as being hugged from behind, how should you react? He just gave you a theoretical framework. In fact, you may have to train 1000 times! 10000 times! If you really encounter such a situation, you can use it instead of preaching you. You will. There is no such thing. In fact, in such a situation, normal girls are almost blank! "

You see, in the face of infringement, you are at a loss, blank and even stiff, unable to act. This is the normal response of normal girls' bodies to stronger threats in the case of adrenaline surge. Instead of the question we often have, why didn't she dare to resist at all? Why can't she delay talking? Why can't she shout for help?

Long Jiao said to me very seriously: "In case of a real situation, there may be two kinds." That is, when I really met, my mind went blank, and then the second kind was to meet a girl who really felt confident and rushed to fight back. That is the most dangerous, you know? "

"Actually meet a man outside, really can compete with your strength! Most men are small when you meet them. They look as tall, thin and weak as you, but their strength actually exceeds yours. If he really fights with you, you are right, but you just can't compete with him. "

So dear friends! Don't blindly believe in "women's self-defense", "women's fighting", "women's jujitsu" and "women's mahjong" widely publicized on the Internet and in Tik Tok. Don't rashly think that I will kick his crotch, poke his eyes, take off his pants and run, and he will trip and fail to catch up with me!

In the face of sexual assault and harassment, there is only one correct way. That is "creating opportunities to escape."

In fact, it is also possible in public. Your cry for help and struggle must be useful. He'll be more scared than you. As long as you attract people's attention to you, you will almost certainly get out of the dangerous scene. Just be careful in this link, don't believe anything he says, let him lead you to an empty corner, or even be taken away by him.

Never, never be positive unless you have overwhelming equipment. According to the actual investigation, if women's self-defense weapons are antagonistic weapons such as knives or sticks, the result will often bring more serious secondary injuries to women. The abuser will use more serious methods until he thinks that you have completely lost your ability to resist.

More useful than a knife and gun is the pepper spray to prevent wolves. If you are well-trained at ordinary times, you can calmly find opportunities to take out Chili water and hit him in the face. That feeling is about 100 times the pain of pepper splashing in your eyes when eating the most abnormal spicy pot!

More often, we don't have any special self-defense props in our hands; More often, this kind of infringement is sudden!

Is there really no way to create more escape opportunities for yourself?

Yes, that's the "catch the target" and "escape" in Brazilian jujitsu. This may be the only way for a girl to get out of danger after long-term practice.

These two terms come from the runaway technique in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ). Imagine your body as a "target", that is, a target, and imagine the other person as a person who wants to control you. Only when he can completely subdue your target can he be at your mercy. And all you have to do is escape from his control and create opportunities for yourself to call for help and escape.

Grasping the target and running away will teach you how to escape from the gap between his body and your body shape when being caught by others. Long Jiao told me that this may be the most effective, and those things that take the initiative to fight, such as boxing, are hopeless!

This is one of the classic ground escapes. When faced with a depressed abuser, you can escape quickly by training, and call for help or escape when he is in a daze!

Here, I was going to talk to you in detail about the skills and methods of "catching the target" and "escaping". But I'm really afraid that some sisters will feel in control after reading it. The brain said, "got it!" The hand said, "Get out!"

I hope all girls can be treated well and not be hurt.

I hope all of us have good intentions, no matter who we like or dislike.