Why do newcomers in the workplace need that bowl of chicken blood?

Walking on the road of job hunting, you will probably often blame your poor background for all kinds of job hunting reasons: the school ranking is not high enough, English is not good enough, GPA is not perfect enough, and so is Gao Fushuai. ....

In fact, what Sister Hong wants to say is that it is not these things that affect you, but your state.

If your background, English, GPA and face value are the engines of a car, which determine your horsepower, then your state is whether you stop or move:

Even if you are a Ferrari, you can't go anywhere if you park your car in the garage. On the other hand, even if you are a little Li Xia, you can keep running and finally get where you want to go.

The good news is that looking for a job is not racing. Your goal is not to beat Ferrari, but to reach the finish line. So the most important thing is to keep in shape, move, move, move!

So how to keep fit?

Sister Hong's experience is shared with everyone.

First, put yourself in the right environment.

You may not have noticed it, but the people around you have a great influence on you.

If you have poor self-control, at least subconsciously mix with friends who are looking for internships and jobs.

Some of them find jobs on campus, and you will be stimulated. Some people take part in the competition and get the ranking, and you will be stimulated again. Even if someone speaks English that you don't understand, you will be stimulated. You have to learn to secretly check the meaning of this word when you go back.

In this way, external stimuli will make you feel more urgent and push yourself forward. Everyone has his own interests, and some friends may think that finding a job and internship are not so important, so life is naturally more chic.

There is no right or wrong. But if you really want to find a job and an internship, you should put yourself in the right environment.

You may scoff and think, Sister Hong, why are you so snobbish? Let me abandon my brothers and sisters who have a hot pot party together! What should they think of me after being together for so long?

Sister Hong doesn't want you to completely abandon the existing social circle, but consciously make some choices.

There will be a hot pot party and a killing party on Friday night, but if there is another one on Saturday and another one on Sunday, you should think about whether it is time to relax and arrange the time more reasonably.

Don't worry that your brother and sister are not cool enough. You don't study to find a job to make others think you are cool, and there is no shame in trying to find a job (there is no shame in trying to do anything! )。

This is a necessary exercise for everyone who changes from a student to a professional. If you start early, you will grow up early and arrive early.

Second, don't stay at home.

Why not leave the house? It's simple, because there is no chicken blood in your refrigerator.

If you want to keep fit, you should force yourself to take part in any activity, even if you don't think it will help much.

Many students tend to be short-sighted and think that a recruitment-related activity is about to happen and will not help them get an interview and an offer. I might as well read a few more pages at home (in fact, they didn't read them either).

Sister Hong can tell you responsibly that 99% of the activities you participate in will not have immediate effect, but once you participate, it will help you to keep a state of fighting chicken blood, which you can't do at home for one night.

And looking for a job needs to be in a state of chicken blood all the time.

Even if you just overhear how American students chat up company representatives, even if you just talk to a completely irrelevant company representative inexplicably and speculatively, even if you just see that other China students' oral English is worse than yours without fear, it will make you less resistant to these activities and more eager to grasp and struggle.

This little accumulation will stop you and run faster. So, don't stay at home.

How about staying in the library?

No, stop!

Third, learn to share with the right people.

First listen to a story told by Sister Hong.

When Sister Hong first came to the United States to study for a master's degree in finance, she met a beautiful woman of her age, Xiao Su.

Although we are not roommates and have different majors, we are both bloodshot girls who want to find a job, so we hit it off.

After two years of master's degree, we unreservedly shared our job-hunting experience, embarrassing stories, jokes, lessons of blood and tears, useful resources, reliable alumni and activities to go. Sometimes we even interview for the same position in the same company and share generously with each other.

Sister Hong felt her conscience and told the truth. Every time she heard that she got an interview and participated in an activity she didn't participate in, Sister Hong felt that she was behind the times.

If you share the news of the same position in the same company, Sister Hong will be a little nervous and afraid of being compared.

Soapy got a full-time job a year earlier. Hong Jie still remembers her mixed feelings when she shared the good news with me for the first time. She was happy for her partner who fought side by side, and suddenly she felt completely desperate.

However, now that Sister Hong looks back, these pressures have finally turned into motivation, and the dry goods shared in those years are also the deepest memories of Sister Hong.

Finally, we all got jobs in America. After work, we also took CFA and studied MBA together. So far, we are still very close sisters. Sister Hong is going to interview her husband in an investment bank in January.

In fact, think about this kind of fighting friendship is really more precious than the offer.

So Sister Hong wants to say that sharing is better than you think, especially in the hard work of finding a job:

If you are wary of others everywhere and don't want to reveal a little news, you will live very tired and lose more.

On the contrary, if you are open-minded and willing to share, you will not only gain knowledge and skills, but also gain lifelong wealth, such as friendship.

Again, looking for a job is not to compare with the people around you, but to reach the destination. Open-minded and broad-minded.

Fourth, start with small things.

Many children's shoes can't find the state, can't see the connection between the current state and the satisfactory quotation, and don't know where to start.

Sister Hong thinks that we don't have to think too clearly first, but we should start with small things. Do more, the road ahead will be clearer and the state will be better and better.

Fitness is a familiar topic for many children's shoes. Sister Hong takes fitness as an example.

When many fitness experts first decided to exercise, they probably just had some very simple ideas.

For example, I want to lose weight, or my friends encourage me, or the gym is free. Anyway, I went in a daze.

At the beginning of fitness, I may have had the idea of "I'm too tired to walk", but they persisted. At first, they could only run for 10 minutes, but later they could run even slower. From the beginning, only the lightest dumbbell can be lifted, and then gradually various instruments began to try.

Because I began to try, I began to have some small achievements, and I gradually realized the fun of fitness. I gradually found out which fitness method I prefer, began to look for more effective exercise on the Internet, and slowly learned various terms.

I prefer to keep fit because I invest a lot. Every time I exercise, I still feel very painful, and the idea of giving up will still pop up, but they have gradually become strong enough to suppress these negative thoughts.

Because they know:

First, you can persist.

Second, the happiness after persistence is unparalleled.

And those who never exercise, they have many reasons.

Some are lazy, some feel that they are not fat and don't need to exercise, and some feel that they can't be as professional as fitness experts.

It is difficult for you to convince them, because they think that fitness is painful, an impossible task, and there is no happiness. But you know, that's because they have never really experienced it.