How to make sincere friends with colleagues at work?

1. Don't pull small circles and spread gossip to each other.

In the office, it is forbidden to form gangs without permission, which is easy to cause opposition from outsiders. It is even more inappropriate to spread gossip outside the circle and act as a well-informed person, so that you will never be treated sincerely by others and will only be afraid to avoid you.

2. Avoid being in a bad mood and complaining.

You should maintain a high emotional state at work, even if you encounter setbacks, be wronged and lose the trust of your leaders, don't be full of complaints and grievances. The result of doing so will only be counterproductive. Either attract colleagues, or be looked down upon by colleagues.

Don't follow the trend, climb the dragon and attach the phoenix.

A man should be aboveboard, honest and upright, and a man should not have two faces after his predecessors. Fully show yourself in front of the leaders, be proactive and try your best to flatter; In front of colleagues or subordinates, evasive, indifferent, and kind. In the long run, the situation is not good.

Never complain to everyone.

It is inevitable that people will avoid it and regard painful experiences as routine. Forget the sadness of the past, focus on the promising future and be a strong man in life. At this time, people will give you more admiration than pity. 5. Don't put on different postures and behaviors.

Don't give people the feeling of being new in the office. After all, this is a formal occasion. No matter how you dress up and behave, don't be too avant-garde and give people a coquettish or weird impression, which will lead to ridicule from men and women in the office. At the same time, people will think that he has no practical ability to work, and he is a man who plays around and behaves strangely.

Step 6 don't overdo it

You may wonder: Is it a mistake to be positive? That's not necessarily true. Being positive is basically worth encouraging, unless it is too much to cause public anger. For example, when colleagues get together, they are afraid of missing any important news, but they always want to intervene when it's none of your business and like to make a long speech ... This kind of thing is absolutely commendable, but if it is too positive, it may lead to the deterioration of interpersonal relationships.

7. Avoid office friendships

The office is a business place, and it is definitely not a good place to play emotional cards. Being too kind, considerate and considerate of others' feelings will only hinder you from doing things. If you are too kind to your subordinates, they will indulge you, big or small. Trust other colleagues too much and you will only find yourself betrayed in the end.

Colleagues should maintain good relations, but good relations are enough, not necessarily good enough to form a party. I have seen the funniest true story in the office. A clerk was fired, and his good friend immediately handed in his resignation letter. It's boring for me to stay here when you're gone. Remember, as long as you form a party with a colleague, his enemies will immediately become your enemies, but his friends are not necessarily your friends. Judging from this formula, it was not cost-effective to be close to the people in the past.

8. Be careful what you say

In the office, colleagues meet for the longest time every day, and the conversation may involve various things outside work. "Say the wrong thing" will often bring you unnecessary trouble. How to master proper limit in the conversation between colleagues has become a link that cannot be ignored in interpersonal communication. 9. The office is not a place to talk to each other.

There are many outspoken people who like to pour out their grievances to their colleagues. Although this kind of dialogue is human nature and can make you friendly, research shows that less than 1% of people can keep secrets strictly. Therefore, when your personal crisis, lovelorn love and extramarital affairs happen, you'd better not complain everywhere, and don't confuse the "friendliness" and "friendship" of your colleagues, so as not to become the focus of attention in the office and easily leave the boss with the impression of problematic employees.

10. It is best not to argue in the office.

Some people like to argue and won't give up until they are better than others. If you really like and are good at debating, then I suggest that you'd better leave this talent outside the office. Otherwise, even if you hit the other person verbally, it actually hurts his dignity. The other person may hold a grudge from now on, and maybe one day he will repay your kindness in some way.

1 1. Don't whisper.

Whispering is what people say behind their backs. As long as there are many people, there will be gossip. Sometimes, you may accidentally become a "talker"; Sometimes, you may be the target of others' attacks. These whispers, such as who the leader likes, who enjoys it the most, who is having an affair and so on. Like noise, it affects people's working mood. Smart people know what they should know, speak bravely when they should, and never talk nonsense when they shouldn't.