No one can afford to lose the bet of life.

If life sets a deadline for you, do you still have time to finish your unfinished business in this life? If the answer is no, then what we should cherish most at this moment is love and health.

I woke up yesterday morning, picked up my mobile phone and habitually opened a circle of friends. I found myself attacked by the link of online fundraising. I was curious about what happened, but when I clicked in, I saw an unacceptable reality. It was my high school classmate Xiao Jing who raised money for advanced breast cancer.

I was a little confused: I clearly remember that she was more optimistic than any of us. Before getting married, she told us that her husband's family was very rich and just gave birth to her own baby six months ago! In unknown so Middle School, I quickly contacted other students to ask what was going on.

It turned out that after Xiao Jing got married, she always felt that not earning enough would make her husband's family look down on her, and she tried to prove herself. In addition, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled very well, which gives her great psychological pressure. The baby was born as a son six months ago. She thought that all this had finally changed quietly with the arrival of the child, but she found out the advanced stage of breast cancer during the physical examination, which means that she had breast cancer before pregnancy, but she didn't find it in time. The tumor has metastasized in a large area and cannot be removed by surgery. It can only be relieved by continuous chemotherapy. After a chemotherapy, her husband's family directly asked her to show her hand. You see, the family is not that rich. We will raise your children, and we won't treat diseases.

All our efforts seem to be a joke, but she can't stop it from going back. This is not a story, this is reality. She wanted to give up on herself, but for the sake of her son, she finally bravely appeared on our circle of friends to raise money. She said that at this moment, she deeply understood that love is a magical thing, seeing parents' anxious eyes and seeing babies who don't know anything. She wants to live. The illness was terrible, but it gave her a new understanding of life.

Everyone donated money, but I don't know how much they can help. And what her body needs to bear is not that others can help her. It just gives us a profound warning: only with a healthy body can we fully love those who care about us. And all this should not be awakened in the face of death! Of course, money can give us more ability to love others, but what if we need to exchange our lives? This is undoubtedly a subtopic.

? In AI Future, Kai-fu Lee warned us that love and being loved are unique emotions of human beings, and no artificial intelligence can replace them.

? Kai-Fu Lee, who has experienced multiple identities, once worked for Apple, founded Microsoft China Research Institute, then moved to Google, and left in 2009 to establish innovation works. The transformation of these multiple roles makes his life full of legends.

But fate always strikes you inadvertently. An illness gave him a new experience and understanding of life. After he found out that he had lymphoma, he sent a message to Weibo, saying: Things are impermanent and life is limited. It turns out that everyone is equal in the face of cancer.

After getting better, I wrote in the book "Born to Die: My Death Credits": All our experiences must have their reasons. Perhaps this disaster is a "cause" and an opportunity for us to learn and grow. For example, illness may remind us that we should live healthier; Suffering makes us cherish the beautiful days more; Helpless let us learn to accept things that cannot be changed; Facing death can teach us to distinguish what is really important.

However, not everyone will get rid of the disease intact, and this probability covers too many factors. What we can do is to accompany our families on the premise of ensuring health around us. Such efforts are meaningful.

I remember reading such a question on the Internet: How many people will die on the earth every day? The answer is as follows: 1.8 people die every second in the world, which means 106 people die every minute, which means 6360 people die in one hour, 152640 people die in one day and 557 13600 people die in one year. . . . . .

We are always discussing which comes first, tomorrow or accident, so we should cherish every day. Turning around, still living an irregular life, quarreling with the people I love most. I joke at work, as long as I have enough money, no matter what year tonight is.

There is no empathy in the world, and there is nothing happening around us. We will never know what it means to lose health and life.

Romain rolland said: There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, people who know and love life. I hope each of us can learn to live as soon as possible. Health can not only bring us love for ourselves, but also make you love others better. No matter how heavy the burden is, please take health as the premise and don't try to gamble your life, because no one can afford to lose. So protect your life and become a superhero of the person you love!