How do men view the seemingly great posting behavior in women's minds?

Some people say that marriage is a woman's second life, which is enough to change a woman's life. Only by marrying the right person can she live the rest of her life happily.

Love is sweet. Many people have expectations and yearnings for love when they are young. They are eager to talk about a love that will not break up, and they can hold hands with their lover and grow old together. Women, in particular, are sometimes carried away by love, regardless of the suggestions of people around them, and can give everything for each other just because of their good feelings. No wonder some people say that most girls in love have zero IQ.

In life, some women always think that love is pure and has nothing to do with money. Therefore, in the face of the person you like, as long as you feel that the other person loves you enough and can work together in the future, you dare to gamble for a lifetime, preferring to stick to your husband's family and be with each other. Unfortunately, in reality, sticking to your heart may be great, but in the eyes of people who don't know how to cherish you, it is humble.

Mix is the only daughter in the family. She grew up under the doting of her parents. After graduating from college, she found her favorite job, but Mix is also facing the troubles of most people at this time, that is, her job is stable and lifelong events will be put on the agenda. Every day, her parents talk about finding a date for Mix, asking her to date early and having a home to reassure them.

However, Mix also has his own concept of love, that is, love is supreme, and it is more important to meet the right person. Therefore, in the face of parents urging marriage, she always finds various excuses to shirk. It was not until a party that Xiao Xiao met Xu Yang. When they first met, they were like friends they hadn't seen for years. On the contrary, there is a feeling of short meeting. Perhaps the fate is wonderful, and Mix has a good impression on Xu Yang.

Later, under Xu Yang's confession, Mix also promised him, which made his parents stop talking about blind date. After the exchange, Xu Yang was really good to Mix, almost always on call and obedient. Mix felt that he had met the right person, and he was glad that he didn't listen to his parents' arrangement, but Xu Yang's family background was not very good, so his parents didn't think highly of him.

However, in Mix's eyes, as long as the other person is really good to himself, that's enough. Love can't be tied to money, so she insisted on marrying Xu Yang despite her parents' opposition. Mix's parents finally agreed, and in order to make her daughter happy after marriage, she gave her daughter a hundred thousand dowry. But after marriage, Mix found that her contribution seemed worthless to others.

Mother-in-law doesn't respect Mix because of the dowry of 100,000 yuan, but she still thinks that she has given a little less. Since the family is so rich, shouldn't she help her own family? At the same time, I hate that Xiaoxiao's family can't help Xu Yang's career, so they often sneer at Xiaoxiao. In contrast, Idy's attitude, either keeping silent or helping her mother-in-law, will only make herself unbearable.

Until that time, Mix didn't come home until she worked overtime, but her mother-in-law suddenly said strangely to her, Did you go fooling around again when you came home so late? This made Xiaoxiao very angry and answered directly: Mom, what do you mean, am I so unbearable in your eyes? Is that what you want to say?

Mother-in-law replied faintly: What is precious about a woman stuck in my house? I said, what's wrong with you? Rainy suddenly felt wronged, tears began to fall unwillingly, and Xu Yang was so busy playing with his mobile phone that he didn't notice it at all.

Mother-in-law's words also made Xiaoxiao understand that some people are not grateful. Even if you are kind to him, he will take it for granted. The love he has always insisted on, when he meets the wrong person, is a joke. The more he gives, the more humble he is.

In love, many people pay attention to the right match, because only people with similar family conditions will not have much difference between the three views and their environment, and naturally it is not easy to have disputes. Beautiful love is desirable, but after the feelings return to dullness, they will also face all kinds of trivial matters and pressures. Different family backgrounds will lead to different understandings of things, and it is easy to produce contradictions because of trivial matters. Marriage is not poverty alleviation, all efforts should be given to the right people, otherwise.