The magnetic field law of interpersonal relationship

I have to admit that there is a magnetic field between people.

Some people fall in love at first sight, while others will not get along for years. Even, some friends talked and laughed at first, and then separated one after another because of various disagreements.

The magnetic field emitted by a person determines who he will meet and who he will end up with.

Who you will meet and what kind of life you will lead, your magnetic field has already doomed you.

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A positive personality will attract people.

A young man complained to the wise man:

"Why doesn't anyone around like him? Even if you make friends, you will eventually leave him? "

The wise man asked him, "How do you usually get along with your friends?"

The young man replied, "I am usually very withdrawn and seldom associate with people, but when I meet my bosom friend, I am sincere." But my personality is a bit pessimistic. I will tell my friends if I am unhappy, but in the end fewer and fewer people listen to me. "

The wise man replied, "No one wants to be with people with negative energy all the time."

A person's character is a person's energy field.

An optimistic person is like the sun. Wherever he goes, he will bring positive sunshine energy to people. I want to ask, no matter where such people go, who is not welcome?

In interpersonal communication, few people are willing to associate with a sentimental and unreasonable "Lin Daiyu" type of person.

Psychological researchers have always believed in one sentence: "Positive attraction, negative stay away."

In other words, the more positive emotions a person has, the more people will be attracted to him by the magnetic field on his body like gravity.

A person's personality affects a person's magnetic field energy; One's magnetic field also affects one's luck.

I have a younger sister who was in a lovelorn period for a while.

When a person is lovelorn, he will think wildly, which is reflected in his appearance temperament. The whole person is listless and depressed, as if he had a serious illness.

People with good business skills can't do anything during that time, and efficiency is the last one. Going out to meet customers, I left the most important information at home, and finally the negotiation naturally fell through.

The boss gave her a good scolding. She resigned in a rage and lived a hard life for several months without income.

When you are depressed, the magnetic field is a state of negative energy. If the magnetic field is not good, people are prone to bad luck. If things don't go well, bad things will always happen to him. Your magnetic field is your luck.

I quite agree with such a sentence:

"Everyone has their own magnetic field. A person with a pure soul will have a good magnetic field and people around him will feel comfortable. The magnetic field emitted by people with dirty souls is not good, and people around them will feel uncomfortable. This is why some people are popular in social circles, and some people run as soon as they hear it. "

If you want good things to happen to yourself, the first thing to do is to adjust your state.

You know, people get along with each other not by money, not by status, but by the charm of inner energy.

Mobilize your energy, be positive, and naturally good deeds will come to you.

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The three views are different, why should we be stronger?

Some time ago, a pair of "golden lovers" broke up in a circle of friends.

Asked why, I learned that although I liked each other at first, I couldn't get along with each other in actual communication.

For example, they go to a new restaurant to eat together. The girl ordered a new special on the menu, but her boyfriend said, "Is it inappropriate to order a popular dish that everyone likes?"

For another example, on the weekend, the girl asked the cleaning aunt to clean up, but her boyfriend couldn't stand it anymore: "You can't clean up with such a little work, it's too lazy."

Someone asked: What is the farthest distance between people?

It's not the end of the world, nor the distance from Wan Li, but I'm standing in front of you, but we can't talk together.

You said the sea was beautiful, and he said people drowned there; You said that the sports car looks good, and he said that poor people like you can afford it;

You see a funny joke and he asks if you are mentally ill. You bought a pair of high heels with your own money, and he didn't appreciate it. On the contrary, he slandered that shoes are ugly and you are a loser.

What is the disagreement between three views? This is the difference between the three views.

Psychologist Honey said: "The biggest gap between people is not status, wealth, education or beauty and ugliness, but values."

When there are great differences between two people in their pursuit of experience, lifestyle and perspective, you can only respond to you by telling him what you saw.

Different views, getting along like casting pearls before swine, will only make people more and more tired. Get along with people, three views are the foundation.

It's not cool to be with people who have the same three views:

Laughter is the same, you don't have to worry that a burst of laughter will make the other person's expression different;

Empathy, you are not afraid of misunderstanding, you can confidently say a lot of things;

Values are consistent, chatting is also very pleasant, and sparks can be sparked from time to time.

Three views are different, just like two parallel lines, no matter how hard you try, there is no intersection; The magnetic field is the same, even without words, you will still feel warm and comfortable.

And the essence of any harmonious and long-term relationship in the world is to get along comfortably. Life is too short, don't try to change others and embarrass yourself.

Sharing happiness with the wrong person is showing off; It's hypocritical to share sadness with the wrong person.

Everyone has his own magnetic field, and with people who fit in with the three views, he will be very at ease and relaxed. Such a relationship can be comfortable and long-lasting.

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If the frequencies are the same, we can go together.

The best relationship is the same frequency vibration.

The so-called same frequency means that two people have the same view of the world, the same interest and the same goal;

The so-called * * * vibration means that two people's spiritual worlds can be linked, communicated, inspired and nourished.

Xiaoya, a backstage reader, once shared a story of her own:

Xiaoya has always had a dream of opening a shop. When she told her husband what she thought, she not only received cynicism from men, but also threatened to divorce.

Thinking that the child was still young, she had to give up. In a few years, when the child is older, she really can't stand the job she doesn't like now and will resign anyway.

Of course, on the day I left, I also signed a divorce agreement with my husband.

According to her plan, she found a shop in this city and opened it. The business is actually getting more and more prosperous, which is a hundred times stronger than after work.

Her ex-husband came to make peace several times, but she didn't agree. My husband is a down-to-earth person, with no ambition and doesn't like taking risks. They are not on the same frequency for a long time.

A few years later, Xiaoya remarried.

Her husband is an architect, and she appreciates Xiaoya's courage and boldness. The point is that he will support her no matter what she does. Even help Xiaoya to point out problems and make suggestions.

When they are not working, they will plant trees, flowers and vegetables in their backyard. They will also cook delicious food, make soup and bake snacks in the kitchen.

They have the same goal in life together, that is "to live a beautiful and moving life". Only when you are mentally suitable can you have the same magnetic field in marriage.

Speaking of life now, Xiaoya can't hide his joy and satisfaction: "Every day is a beautiful and stable day in my imagination."

Some people say that "partners" are two equal people who respect each other, learn from each other and gain energy from each other.

Lovers with different frequencies consume each other, and the magnetic field is chaotic. Such relationships are either alienated or collide with each other.

The same frequency of the mind is the foundation of a stable relationship, and the magnetic field is actually the power emitted by a person's soul. Even if their careers are not at the same level, there is a spiritual voice between them.

I have heard a saying: "Love is empathy, and the magnetic field of true love must be * * *."

Even if the communication between two people is short, it is also a tacit understanding. In fact, no matter love or friendship, those who can finally walk together and go further are people who can share the same frequency.

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I have always liked a saying: "People with similar frequencies will naturally get together, and people with different magnetic fields will climb mountains and mountains if they say a few words."

In life, you will find that this is true:

An optimistic person must have positive sunshine friends around him;

People with three views and integrity are surrounded by people with the same ideas and similar views on the outside world;

Two excellent friends, their inner frequency, rhythm and thoughts are the same.

Of course, everything is always in motion, and the human magnetic field can also be changed and improved. There is a "law of attraction" in the universe, that is, as long as you believe in something, you will attract it.

As long as you believe in beauty, you will certainly attract beauty.

If you believe that you are happy, you will certainly attract positive and optimistic people.

Believe that you have love and love others, and you will certainly attract people who love you.

As actor Audrey Hepburn said, "Of course I won't try to pick the moon. I want the moon to come to me. "

Your magnetic field will eventually attract people with the same frequency and pace as you.

For the rest of your life, you should walk among people who know you and stay together in matching magnetic fields.

In the rest of my life, I hope that we can appreciate and tolerate each other with people with magnetic fields. I will walk until the water blocks my way, and then sit and watch the rising clouds.

Ok, that's all for today. Knowledge breakfast, see you tomorrow.

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