What psychological problems do left-behind children have when they grow up?

The psychological problems of left-behind children are easily overlooked, especially for left-behind children, the psychological problems caused by long-term lack of affection and education are the most noteworthy issues. The main psychological problems of left-behind children are the aggravation of inferiority, depression, self-isolation, aloof and unsociable, and some children have a deformed psychology of hatred and even a tendency to violence. However, loneliness, fragility and longing for family ties have become the biggest psychological problems of left-behind children.

1. Left-behind children with weak and introverted personality have left their parents since childhood, and their parents are seriously lacking in care. Although some of them are supervised by grandparents or relatives and friends, they are different from their parents. When they encounter difficulties, they will feel weak and helpless, and over time they will become unwilling to communicate with others and introverted. Emotional lack of sound care and communication is prone to psychological barriers. Long-term separation from parents leads to left-behind children not enjoying the care of their parents in their daily lives, unable to find emotional support from their parents when encountering difficulties, and unable to guide and correct some mistakes in time in the process of study and life. Over time, some obvious psychological and behavioral problems have been formed. Such as emotional fragility, self-abandonment, anxiety and autism, lack of self-confidence, pessimism and so on.

2. Most children who feel inferior have the psychology of comparing with others and have a strong sense of pride. Without their parents, they seem to have lost their strong dependence and protection. Therefore, compared with some children with parents around them, they are prone to inferiority complex, and some even give up on themselves, lose confidence and do not strive for progress in their studies.

3. Lonely, hungry family. When parents go out, children feel empty and lonely at home, which leads to inner turmoil and depression. Caring and caring play a vital role in children's growth. Most left-behind children are in a period of rapid physical and mental development. They have their own understanding and knowledge of their own changes and interpersonal communication, but they also face many problems and troubles, and they need channels to talk and comfort from their relatives. However, because the parents of left-behind children work outside the home all the year round, it is difficult for some children to make a phone call, write a letter or meet once every six months or even years to maintain their family ties, and it is difficult to communicate their thoughts, listen to their troubles and give them enough care. Some parents and children haven't seen each other for many years, which makes children forget their parents' faces, let alone family ties.

4. Resentment for parents A few children don't understand their parents, think that their families are poor and their parents are incapable, so they go out to work, which leads to resentment. Some children say that their parents are alienated from their parents after returning home, have emotional obstacles with their parents, and even resent their parents for being heartless.

5. Behavioral problems caused by psychological problems In recent years, there have been more and more illegal and criminal problems about left-behind children. The case of left-behind children killing their mothers is a social tragedy. Because they were addicted to online games, their parents were not around to discipline them. At the same time, because their grandparents instilled bad ideas in their mothers, their mothers died in their own hands. What is even more chilling is that they went to school as if nothing had happened after killing their mothers. In addition, there are some incidents of left-behind children being injured. Due to the lack of corresponding safety education and neglect of management, left-behind children are still often injured, most of whom are neighbors or relatives.