What if my stepmother often speaks ill of me behind my back?

Don't confront him head-on, and don't rush to question him after hearing him speak ill of you. If you go straight to him and question him, it's very stupid. Since he only speaks ill of you behind your back, it means that he likes to create a good image of a good wife and mother in front of you or your father. At this time, if you are in a hurry to argue with him, he will pretend to feel sorry for your father, but he will think that you are too ignorant and unreasonable, so that he can achieve what he wants. He has always been like this. In fact, I really want you to rush up and argue with him, because once you rush up, his image in front of everyone will become a poor stepmother bullied by children.

You should find the right countermeasures and choose the right time to fight back. First of all, when you hear him speak ill of you, you should find out the situation, who he is talking to and why. Sometimes it may be that others want to deliberately provoke the relationship between you two, so be sure to find out the situation and don't wronged good people. If it is true that he speaks ill of you behind your back, you can also answer blows with blows, treat him the same, or choose a suitable opportunity to show your father what kind of woman he really is.

In fact, you don't need to care too much about what he says behind his back. After all, you are clean, as long as you have a clear conscience, no matter what he says about you. Believe those who really know you, they know what kind of person you are and that you are not the kind of person your stepmother said. In this case, your impression in the eyes of others will not be affected in any way.