What if my wife finds out she's hiding private money?

A man who hides private money just doesn't love his wife: it's not that serious. You think too much.

There is a news on the Internet: a house in Quanzhou, Fujian caught fire, and the owner Chen Mou refused to leave. He cried and said that tens of thousands of dollars were hidden on the ceiling of the bathroom, worth more than 200 thousand. Only after the police promised to find him as much as possible so that he would not affect the fire fighting work, would he be willing to evacuate.

Chen Mou's wife didn't know the existence of this 200,000 yuan. It turns out that this money is Chen Mou's private money. As soon as the news came out, female colleagues were discussing why men hid private money. Some netizens commented that it is shameful for men to hide private money because they don't love their wives.

There is no necessary connection between men hiding private money and loving their wives. Men who don't hide private money don't necessarily love their wives, and men who hide private money don't necessarily love their wives.

On my friend Qin Yan's birthday, her husband Cheng Ming bought her a jade bracelet.

This bracelet was seen and tried on by Qin Yan and Cheng Ming when they were shopping. Wearing it on Qin Yan's hand, it smells like a lady. The salesman was full of praise. Qin Yan felt itchy in her heart, but she gave up after seeing the price.

At that time, Cheng Ming said nothing. Unexpectedly, a year later, he bought it back and gave it to Qin Yan as a birthday present. Qin Yan gives Cheng Ming 1000 yuan pocket money every month. In addition to smoking for entertainment, there is no scratch, and sometimes you have to pay in advance. How could he have the money to buy Qin Yan a bracelet? Obviously, this is Cheng Ming's private money.

In fact, Qin Yan always knew that Cheng Ming had private money, including the place where he hid it. It was found in a cleaning. Cheng Ming hid the money in the cupboard under the bed. Qin Yan hardly opens this cabinet. Because the mattress is heavy, you need to lift it before you can open this cabinet. Qin Yan couldn't lift it alone, so he abandoned the cabinet.

When Qin Yan's mother came to help Qin Yan clean, she opened the mattress and the cupboard. As a result, I saw hundreds of dollars in a cigarette case. Qin Yan lied to her mother that she put it there, but she knew in her heart that it was Cheng Ming's private money. But Qin Yan didn't move the money.

She thinks it's no big deal that men have some private money. He gave himself all his salary, so it doesn't matter if he keeps such a little money for a rainy day.

All this money was earned by Cheng Ming taking private jobs after work, and most of these private jobs were known by Qin Yan. Cheng Ming did not deliberately hide from Qin Yan. When there are private affairs, Cheng Ming will work in the study at night and will not accompany Qin Yan to watch soap operas.