What's it like to have a person without a pattern?

What's it like to have a person without a pattern?

Only when you have a model can you be more and more successful on the road of life. What about people without a model? Read with me what it's like to be a person without a pattern. I believe it can inspire everyone.

A table of people had dinner together and had a snail, the kind with a shell. Everyone is ready to eat with great interest. Those who haven't tried it will be surprised to ask: Wow, this is so interesting. How to eat?

At this time, a very discordant voice sounded: hey, it's disgusting, how can you eat it!

Matching the voice is the speaker's face that eats shit. It's awkward to eat something in your mouth. If it hasn't reached your mouth, you can't help but pause. If you haven't put out your chopsticks, you can change to another dish.

After a while, someone said to the disharmonious person: Try it, it's really delicious.

Others echoed: Yes, have a taste.

She shook her head like a rattle and said firmly, I will never eat this again in my life. I feel so dirty!

That meal, she really didn't eat a snail, and not only snails, but also some other dishes, and she didn't touch chopsticks.

I felt very strange, so I asked her why she didn't even drink tremella soup. She said, I don't know why, but I haven't drunk it anyway, and I don't know what tremella tastes like.

I was even more surprised and asked her if she had any taboos. She said no, just thought tremella was strange and didn't want to taste it.

Well, there is really no way to continue the conversation. I only have one feeling: girl, it's not the tremella that's strange, it's you.

I seem to like chatting with strangers very much, so I continued to dig deeper and got what I expected.

The girl told me that she couldn't play smart phones. She felt so complicated that she didn't want to learn, so she kept using the old computer. Buying clothes will always be that style, and you won't try other styles easily. My job has never changed. Although I have a lot of dissatisfaction, I have never thought about looking for a job again.

She looks young, but she's totally living in a condom. Many new things, she refused to try, others tried, but she still didn't like them.

You see, from eating this little thing, dig down a little bit, and you dig up a self-satisfied person.

Another time, my husband's company organized employees to travel, and they could bring their families. I also went.

That day was particularly interesting, because many people had breakfast in the car, and they all drank soybean milk and milk for breakfast. As a result, the car was on the highway, and many people clamored for the toilet. The driver had no choice but to detour off the expressway to solve everyone's physiological problems.

This delay reached the scenic spot, one hour later than the scheduled time. It was almost noon when I arrived, and the weather was very hot, so during the whole tour, I heard a woman beside me complaining: these people are disgusting to go to the toilet at high speed, and it is so hot now!

While waiting in line by boat, she began to whisper again: I don't know how to get more boats for such a big scenic spot. On such a hot day, people lined up to give him bad reviews!

When eating at noon, looking at a table of local specialties, she began to be dissatisfied: Who ordered this dish? I wonder if I can take care of the tastes of people in different places? So light, what about those spicy people?

It is estimated that many people will avoid such negative energy, but I just listened with relish and quietly asked my husband, is this woman difficult to get along with in the company?

The answer is really not surprising. She is the kind of person who likes to find fault in the company. She is very picky about other people's clothes and speaks loudly. In short, she can always find fault.

These are still small things. What's important is that no matter what policies are introduced by the company, it is difficult for her to implement them, and she can always find out unreasonable places from them. When something goes wrong with the project she is in charge of, she always puts the blame on other departments. When someone else made a mistake, she caught it and attacked it again and again.

Such a person, narrow-minded and without tolerance, is naturally extremely unpopular, and everyone tries to avoid close contact with her.

You see, from a few complaints, dig down step by step, and you will dig up a person without tolerance.

At a friend's party, a friend brought a new friend, a young girl.

The atmosphere that day was very good. Everyone was talking about it and was very happy. New friends are not at home, and they have been expressing their views.

But what's interesting is that every time that new friend talks, someone always wants to interrupt, and it's the same person every time. And many times, it is to express the opposite view.

The girl's face is a little worried. Although she didn't say anything, she was particularly cold to her friends who interrupted her during the whole party, and even occasionally sneered. I didn't always give that friend a smiling face, even if I smiled like a flower in front of everyone, I put away my smile as soon as I turned my face and saw that friend.

When she left, she said goodbye to everyone but pretended not to see the friend who upset her. Because she was well hidden, no one noticed, but I noticed all this and found it particularly interesting.

As I said, I am a person who likes to get to the bottom of it. I took the opportunity to talk about her with my friend who brought her to our party and asked her if she was particularly narrow-minded and haggle over every ounce.

My friend was very strange and asked me: How do you know?

Then my friend told me that this girl is good everywhere, but she is too competitive and wants to get the upper hand in everything. She didn't win a new colleague in the exam, so she began to meet her colleagues in various unpleasant modes. Colleagues talk to her, but she ignores them. A colleague asked her for help, but she refused. My colleague was very strange at first, but when she saw the clue, she ignored her.

Among her friends, she showed no weakness. My best friend is in love with the male god and looks very happy. As a result, this happiness flashed in her eyes. She always speaks ill of the male god in her best friend's ear and makes up some hearsay news. Make my best friend very unhappy, and slowly contact her less and less.

She used to be a very good girl. She seemed to have a good personality, but she just couldn't stand others being better than her, being too competitive, and always being competitive everywhere, which made everyone dislike her.

It was not until she clamored to go that her friends reluctantly took her to the party.

You see, from the trivial details of a party, step by step, you dug up a person who cares about everything and can't tolerate people everywhere.

We often say that a person should have a pattern, and everyone likes to live with people with patterns.

However, the pattern is a very general word, so I specially searched it. The above explanation is: Case refers to personality. Bureau is tolerance and mind.

It's still a little general, to put it bluntly. My understanding is that the so-called pattern is that people have the vision and courage to accommodate all rivers, and at the same time people are very willing to get close.

So, how to judge whether a person has a pattern?

It seems difficult.

In fact, it is not difficult, as long as you judge from small things.

A person is afraid to try new things easily, likes to criticize and complain, has no tolerance, likes to haggle over every ounce, and has the upper hand everywhere. Do you think such people have a pattern?

As we all know, only when a person has a pattern can he go further.

Having written so much, what I really want to say is that if you want to be an organized person, you must start with the little things in your daily life.

Try new things, accept everything, and sincerely bless others. This little thing, slowly accumulated, will eventually change from quantity to quality, improve your life pattern bit by bit and affect your life.

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