How to get along with jokers?

First, such people often don't realize that their jokes have gone too far and offended others. There is a boy from the northeast in my class, who likes to joke at ordinary times. My roommate is also from the northeast, and she looks chubby. That boy is always joking, chubby and chubby. My roommate is really angry. In private, she told us that she hated her hometown. So there is nothing wrong with joking, but it can also enliven the atmosphere and promote mutual feelings and exchanges. However, joking about no big or small is often counterproductive, annoying and not funny.

Second, if you hate his jokes, don't go along with them after he finishes. Everyone has a sense of belonging, and he hopes to get the recognition of the other party, and someone will respond after speaking. Generally speaking, whoever makes the final speech and no one replies will feel a little embarrassed. Let him find that his carefully thought-out jokes are ignored, and a feeling of boredom will arise and he will gradually stop doing them.

Third, deal with a man as he deals with you, without hurting the feelings of both sides, and let him realize that some jokes are hard-won, which hurts both feelings and hearts. People's hearts are sometimes really fragile and can't stand these injuries.

Fourth, when you get along with him, don't listen to his jokes, that is, ignore his words at all, go in one ear and out the other, and don't take his words seriously. Be more tolerant and comfort yourself that such people have too low emotional intelligence, and be more tolerant of those who have too low emotional intelligence. After all, this low emotional intelligence is a kind of disability, but people in reality can't understand that problem.