Pure or intellectual, what kind of women do middle-aged men like?

There is a joke that men like women in their twenties, no matter how old they are. Although this sentence is a little playful, it accurately captures a man's consistent aesthetic feeling, that is, he has unlimited enthusiasm for young and beautiful girls. Middle-aged men have experienced more ups and downs in life, and they have been experiencing ups and downs in the world for most of their lives. In fact, there is only one kind of woman they like best. They may not be really beautiful, but as long as they have one characteristic, it is enough to make men inseparable. This feature is: the sense of worship for men. What kind of woman do middle-aged men like best? In fact, it is a feature in summary.

Everyone has a tendency to pursue a sense of self-achievement, and middle-aged men are fascinated by "success". After all, who doesn't want to succeed after hard work? Many middle-aged people's marriages are actually in a trivial state, especially those couples who have no communication habits. By this time, they have reached the point where they are tired of being together. Don't let the middle-aged women around you look at their men with admiration, that is, it is very valuable for both husband and wife to talk well. A man can talk nonsense in front of a woman who worships himself, but if he dares to talk nonsense in front of his wife, he will be exposed in an instant: I don't know what you are, little boy!

This is why once men are over 4 or 5 years old, they like to seek identity outside, because they can't get due respect and other general affirmation in marriage. As long as he finds a woman who speculates on the object of his worship outside, he will surrender immediately. I remember a scene in Struggle in which a girl's father is an intellectual and her mother is a good woman, but in the end, her father would rather live with an uneducated nanny than go back to her mother. The reason is that her mother has a low opinion of her father all her life. She thinks he is an old pedant and doesn't make money. Husband and wife have quarreled for decades. Until later, my father found a sense of identity in the nanny, who felt that all readers were like gods, so he devoted himself to him every day and gave him many feelings that he had never had before.

In fact, life cannot blindly judge a person's success according to the standard of money. Those ordinary standards may not be suitable for everyone. Husband and wife should have the same pursuit. Only in this way can women not look down on men. Middle-aged men seek recognition more, and the only thing that can make them happy is the praise and affirmation of outsiders. The woman who can bring him a sense of worship just makes up for his empty mind at this time, which naturally makes him intoxicated.