What did Nana and Lu Yu do wrong, which would be "offended" by Li?

It is happy to be understood by others, and it is even harder to meet people who are willing to understand you. After all, the list of friends is getting longer and longer Visible for three days? But more and more; Is it too difficult to find someone who is willing to listen to you when the routine is getting deeper and deeper, but the friendship is getting shallower and shallower?

Li is not always the kind of gentle and virtuous appearance. What does she sometimes show? Edge? On the other side.

A few days ago, a video of interviewing Li boarded a hot search.

In the video, the reporter and Li Zikai and others went up the mountain to shoot, pick fruits and camp, and exchanged video creation experience and life sentiment.

However, during the interview, the way the reporter asked questions caused a lot of controversy.

On the way, Li even said helplessly several times: What's the problem? Can we talk about something else?

For example, when the reporter saw Li debugging the lens, he asked her: Do you have to take the usual empty mirror by yourself? ?

Li couldn't help heart:? What do you mean by taking pictures in person? Isn't that normal? I know what I want more. ?

Later, they talked about the story behind her photography of wheat, rice and intangible cultural heritage. Li Xiang told her feelings about video creation, and the atmosphere seemed to return to normal. But after that, Li stood up and the reporter caught up and asked some of the same questions as before. Lee once again slightly embarrassed replied:

That's not enough. Finally, the reporter asked directly: I dare ask you, when you are old, does grandma urge you to have a blind date? ?

In fact, if you are really girlfriends for many years, you can play jokes on each other.

But after all, as an outsider, such a statement is really extremely inappropriate. Therefore, Li finally expressed her dissatisfaction half jokingly: You talked about this day until you died. ?

It can be seen that the reporter's question is not only disorganized, but also conveys an unfriendly attitude. Fortunately, Li's emotional intelligence is relatively high, and finally they all ended these embarrassing moments in a joking tone, but if it was someone else, it was an interview accident.

Frankly speaking, seeing these embarrassing moments, the president thought of another one more than once. Chat Famous host? Lu Yu.

User evaluation:? Not a day goes by when she can't talk about death.

Search for miles and miles? Lu Yu? The result can be said that she practiced it herself? As long as I'm not embarrassed, what's embarrassing is that when you interviewed Stephen Chow, they said: When filming on the set (Changjiang No.7), Stephen Chow said? You're handsome? Say that finish, everyone around you laughed, but Zhou himself was puzzled.

Usually at this time, the first thing the host has to do is to take the initiative to explain? Others mean no harm? To solve this puzzle.

But at the moment, Lu Yu said, isn't it funny? . The smile on Stephen Chow's face faded away, and he seriously asked, Do you think it's funny that I said I'm handsome? ?

But Lu Yu is still? Perseverance? :? This is really interesting, isn't it? I shouldn't laugh, should I?

(This kind of awkward rhetorical question is also something that few hosts can say. ) Finally, Stephen Chow had to say helplessly:? what do you think? .

Interview Zhou Xun.

Talking about a past event, Zhou Xun said: (Many people who want to cooperate) suddenly everything is in sight. Can you imagine my happiness? ?

Lu Yu:? I can't imagine. ?

Hearing this sentence, the president felt the same as Zhou Xun? I just want to run away at once. Interview with Zhang Chaoyang: At that time, I was sitting on the plane, looking at the round moon and despairing. How can I see the moon on the plane? ?

Degang Guo recalled his wandering years in the north: in the most difficult time, he couldn't afford to eat, so he had to drink water to satisfy his hunger.

Lu Yu:? Are you drinking bottled mineral water? ?

President can't help feeling, Mr. Lu Yu, do you really know the point? If we say these inappropriate reactions are just ... Awkward? Then, what is even more unacceptable is that there is a warm current between her words from time to time? Why not eat minced meat? Taste. Once, when talking with some left-behind children, she asked about their food: Why not eat meat? Does meat go bad easily? ?

Do you know the price of meat? I don't even know?

If she asks this question to get the children to talk about the price of meat, then? Is it easy to break? This sentence is also unexplained)

Some people say that as a host, she said these words to guide the interviewees. But even so, the final presentation of such a program effect still makes many viewers feel uncomfortable, which is dereliction of duty.

The hosts who are often criticized are Lu Yu and Nana.

On one occasion, Yun-peng Yue attended Happy Camp. When it comes to the education of his daughter, he is honest with himself? Without a high level of education, it is difficult to give a good education to your daughter? I don't want my daughter to be excellent. I just want her to be happy and don't want to put too much pressure on her.

When talking about the emotional situation at that time, Yun-peng Yue burst into tears. But at this moment, Nana burst into demonic laughter and pointed at Yun-peng Yue and said? He started crying? .

Finally, Justin and He Jiong, who were still on the side, gave Xiao Ping a hug in time to make the scene less embarrassing.

Pay attention to He Jiong's face when he hugs.

The goal of variety shows is to create laughter and joy.

But like Nana, he turned a blind eye to other people's pain and smiled blindly when others cried. What about this? Joy？ What is the difference between cruelty and cruelty?

Is it from Lu Yu? How to see the moon on the plane? , or nana? Haha, do you think he started crying? For these scenes, we often hear:? Low emotional intelligence? . But in the final analysis, what they lack is actually the ability to be affectionate and the ability to understand and care for others.

Someone said:? Don't cut others easily, others are watching the fun, but you are injured. ?

It's true. Imagine: if you face an emotionally incapable bystander and tell your painful past,

Even if you talk in tears, I'm afraid you can only get the other person's voice. Oh? .

We often say that a good communication partner should be a listener first.

Of course, it's not just superficial, okay Listen. More importantly, we can get into other people's hearts and understand each other, so that two people can be on the same channel. This is the premise of communication.

Let me give you an example. Or Stephen Chow.

Unlike Lu Yu's embarrassment, Chai Jing's interview with Stephen Chow was completely different? Sincere and warm. In a passage, they talked about Stephen Chow quoting the lines of a Chinese Odyssey in The Journey to the West.

In this regard, Chai Jing said. Can I understand it as an irresponsible idea and just want to say this sentence in my life at this time? Do you feel this way? ? Right? Thank you, thank you. ?

Compared with Lu Yu's interview, it is judged by high and low.

Perhaps Chai Jing is often criticized in some ways,

But the president thinks,

As far as her interview with Stephen Chow is concerned,

She has reached the acme of an interlocutor.

Stephen Chow is often criticized? Difficult to communicate? 、? Is that weird? .

But usually, such people are the most sensitive in life, and they are often misunderstood because they are not good at expressing. Once they meet someone who understands themselves, they will be sincerely happy and grateful.

It is happy to be understood,

And people who are willing to understand you are even harder to meet.

After all, the list of friends is getting longer and longer Visible for three days? But more and more; The routine is getting deeper and deeper, but the friendship is getting shallower and shallower.

It's hard enough to find someone who will listen to you.

So, if you have so many friends who can talk to each other, you are lucky, please cherish them;

If you haven't met them, it doesn't matter. Disappointment often happens, but it is no different from the speaker. Life is normal.