Things you should not say when a couple is arguing. 6 things you should never say that will make a man and woman fall out instantly.

Sentences that couples should not say when they quarrel: 6 sentences that a man can use to make a woman turn against her.

1. You will nag most women that they are busy all day long. Husband is an important chat partner. In addition to negotiating chores, you'll also want to have a home-cooked meal. If a man inadvertently says such a sentence while watching TV or in a bad mood, it will definitely dampen his wife's interest in communication and cause inner unhappiness. A woman with a good temper may be able to tolerate it, but when she becomes impatient, she will instantly turn against him, and if she is vindictive, she will hold a grudge. One day when a man wants to chat, his wife will retaliate by saying she is "not in the mood", which affects the couple's communication. 2. You are getting fatter and fatter and turning into a pig. It is a woman's nature to love beauty. Everyone wants to have a beautiful face, maintain a slim figure, wear fashionable clothes, and turn heads when walking on the street. Helpless women tend to gain weight after giving birth, especially when they are worried about obesity. They often complain that drinking cold water will make them gain weight. They are worried that their husbands will reject them and they are afraid of being laughed at by outsiders. Although a man is good at reminding his wife to lose weight for the sake of her health, her wife will not appreciate it and will think that you dislike her. If you say, "You're so fat, you know how to eat!" Even if it's just a joke, it's easy for your wife to turn against you instantly. 3. You and your mother are in the same boat.

When a woman marries her parents to her husband’s family, her husband is the only person she can rely on. Most mothers-in-law love their son-in-law because they hope he will treat their daughter well. It is rare for a son-in-law to speak ill of his mother-in-law. No matter whether a man is teasing his mother-in-law maliciously or not, it is not polite to scold his wife. No matter how good-tempered a woman is, she will be impatient. Therefore, if there is a dispute between husband and wife, they should discuss the matter and do not involve the elderly of both parties intentionally or unintentionally. Although men's verbal abuse can resolve temporary anger, it can also easily damage the relationship between husband and wife and parents.

4. Your bullying of my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult relationship. Even if you are careful, it is difficult to avoid estrangement. A little carelessness can lead to conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Men should make peace between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Taking sides will only intensify conflicts. Although the younger generation should be filial and accommodating to the elderly, some mothers-in-law do not appreciate it and are afraid that their dignity will be lost if nothing happens. When a man says this, he means to crush his wife with his old mother. From his wife's point of view, it's just that he doesn't look at her. He also bullied her, which naturally made her feel uncomfortable, so a quarrel was inevitable. 5. This child really did nothing wrong or failed to live up to my expectations. Many fathers will say this out of anger. Although the original intention is to criticize the child for being ignorant, it is easy for the wife to misunderstand. Even if she doesn't misunderstand your suspicion of the child, she will think that you are blaming her for not educating the child well. If she is angry, it can easily lead to conflicts or conflicts. Besides, it is the husband's responsibility for a woman to give birth to a child, and it is also the father's responsibility to discipline the child. It is not the wife's fault that the child is disobedient. Men had better not say such stupid things to insult themselves. 6. Just say it if you don’t think about it.

Men think that their wives are good to others, and women also like to compare outstanding men with their husbands. When they are angry, they will say things like "marrying the wrong person." A woman's complaints not only vent her dissatisfaction, but also stimulate her husband's progress. If a man has no grace and says he doesn't want to go too far, he will make his wife even more disappointed. Because this sentence means that you don't like your wife, it is easy for people to misunderstand that you want to divorce her, which may make her feel too heartless. Therefore, no matter how fierce the quarrel is, couples cannot talk too much.