A joke about starting a family before starting a business.

If I don't meet the right person, I will start my career before I get married. If I meet the right person, I will start my career before I get married.

Before meeting someone I like, I think it's better to put my career before my family. First of all, I don't think getting married is urgent. If you want to meet the right person, you must have fate. If you don't have fate and meet that person for the time being, then you are single for the time being. And a person doesn't have to worry about each other's feelings. He is very free and will live a very chic life. Moreover, it is actually very advantageous to have a career before getting married, because when you have a rich economic foundation, you will have stronger competitiveness and more choices in the mate selection market.

On the other hand, because you have a certain economic foundation, you have the ability to give each other a safe and comfortable environment. Marriage is not falling in love. It costs a lot of money for two people to live, so there is no need to worry about money at this time. A person's life is really comfortable Travel wherever you want, regardless of another person's feelings. Besides, you are young, immature and irresponsible. So, of course, employment first and then settlement.

But if I meet the right person before I start my career, it may change my mind. Because I met the right person, I would want to get married, which changed all my thoughts, and then I really changed from a boy to a man. After marriage, I don't need to be free and chic, because I need to support my family. The pressure of mortgage makes me have to work hard, and it will also prompt me to start my career earlier. After marriage, two people can't live together without money, especially after having children. So all kinds of pressures are urging me to grow up quickly and enhance my sense of responsibility. At this time, travel is no longer important. I will spend these extra hours with my wife and children. If I can work overtime, I will work overtime to earn more money for my children.

In fact, many people want to start their careers before they get married, because they are insecure about themselves and anxious about the future. In fact, we should not underestimate a woman's ability to endure hardships with you. If she loves you enough, she won't dislike that you don't have a career. Getting married before starting a career is actually a way to screen suitable candidates. Like the current blind date, the woman will be very realistic, directly depending on whether the other party has a house or a car and how much money is saved. Then this kind of woman is obviously not suitable for men who have no career. Therefore, a man who wants to get married first needs free love. Then you talk about an object yourself, and two people will come together because of love. Those material conditions will not be too harsh, and you will have the ability and time to work hard for your career.