Why do some men always like to chat with strange women online? What kind of psychology is it?

In the process of each of us growing up, we will constantly project and transfer life energy to many important objects.

Due to the stimulation of some factors, people will return to their original object or satisfaction to defend themselves, which is called regression in psychology.

Psychoanalytic theory holds that everyone lives in an inherent pattern before the age of 6.

There are many reasons why these people behave like this.

For example, he didn't get enough sense of integration when he was a child. When the object has problems and can't feel integrated, he needs to protect his fragile emotions in the most primitive way.

People who have problems with this kind of object relationship are often not single-minded and rarely have a truly stable relationship.

It is also possible that these people have exaggerated egos, a strong desire for self-expression, a desire to gain the attention and envy of others, and are always narcissistic. This is the problem of self.

The specific reasons should be judged according to the individual's own situation.

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As for why men always chat with strange women on the Internet, according to the theory of evolutionary psychology, men play the role of spreading offspring in society, that is, they should constantly spread the genes of seeds, that is, it is more and more possible to reproduce and seek guidance. This is an instinct of human beings to reproduce.

Similarly, women believe that to protect or take care of their offspring as much as possible, they will choose a strong and reliable man, which is also the instinct of women to ensure the survival of their offspring.

Second, talk to women. Psychologically, driven by curiosity, men try to gain experience, get to know women and prepare for making more female friends through extensive and large-scale chatting. Because in this society, the instinct of like-sex repulsion and opposite-sex attraction makes people try to make more friends with the opposite sex in order to get all kinds of help and support.

Third, chat online. Because the internet age has brought us more opportunities to know others and more widely. Because they come from the internet, we don't know each other, so we can offset all the usual implicature and inferiority. We can chat at will on the internet, and it is easy to find the opposite sex with the same language. Various groups represent themselves and enter the main body of the group. Therefore, joining the group must first have the same hobbies or interests, which is easy to cause chat topics. Generally, men who like chatting online are mostly introverted, do not like to talk, and tend to feel inferior in reality. I like chatting or playing games online, because it can bring me confidence and satisfaction.

Because there happens to be such a woman! Who doesn't have a hobby yet?

Empty circulation view this kind of psychology is unhealthy, I want to satisfy something. Second, no one knows who is talking casually on the internet, and it is too late to speak. There is no danger that whoever says something wrong will ignore who is in reality! There are no taboos. There is nothing to talk about. If it's important, don't say it. Third, there may not be many friends of the opposite sex in reality, and they will not communicate with the opposite sex more, looking for feelings in the virtual.

Network is a double-edged sword, which can bring people closer together and make some friends to chat with! There are also some dangers hidden in the network. How many people were cheated when they met wine trays and wedding trays. How many people fall into the network peach trap, a fruit chat, and let themselves be blackmailed in series!

You can learn a lot from treating the network correctly, and treating the network wrongly may be the next target to be hurt. After all, the network is virtual and you don't know who the other party is. Maybe your beauty is a dinosaur and a stingy man, or maybe your prince charming is an online fugitive!

Virtual hides some beauty, but it also hides a lot of evil! The internet is not a place of extra-legality, but it does breed some new crimes!

The internet has turned the earth into a village, and we can speak freely, but the consequences without higher supervision are often more serious than reality!

Honesty and friendship bloom simultaneously in reality and network! I hope we can also become bosom friends online!

Social harmony is the dual harmony of reality and network!

You, me and everyone!

There will be no pie in the sky, and there will be no prince charming and princess that can't be met in reality! Strangers can become familiar, but it depends on how you run it!

Opposites attract.

First, in order to satisfy my curiosity, lewdness is basically the universality of men, and I cast a net on the Internet to find some lonely and indifferent opposite sex, hoping to make a difference, and at the same time, I am not afraid to let people around me know that I can satisfy my so-called reputation and achieve the purpose of lewdness.

Second, inferiority complex. Some people even feel uncomfortable and feel inferior at work and at home. They chat with the opposite sex online. Anyway, the other party doesn't know themselves, and others don't know their own environment. So no matter how nonsense they talk, they are not afraid of each other's jokes. If you cast too many nets, there will always be some vain women who fall for it and worship themselves. In fact, it's all inferiority complex anyway.

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He doesn't love you enough. He wants to steal food.

Human nature, curiosity, excitement, excitement, novelty.

Chatting is not responsible.

Actually, it's just for people to see. Women also like to find the opposite sex.