Why are many people unwilling to talk about their ideals and future with others now?

I remember reading many inspirational books when I was a child, many, many. I guess I've forgotten all about them by now, but it's no use thinking about it again. Most of those books are sold for making money. I still remember a story Napoleon told his uncle when he was a child, saying that he would conquer Europe in the future, and then many people laughed at him. Then he said, wait and see, and finally he conquered Europe.

This Monday morning self-help book has influenced many people. Now I really don't think what Napoleon said as a child has anything to do with his later achievements, but I have to say that quite a few people, such as me, didn't know much about the future when they were young, boasted about what would happen in the future, cited many examples, read enough books, told many anecdotes about celebrities at home and abroad, and finally talked about my parents.

Dreams and ideals can be talked about years ago in China. At the level of my high school students in those years, it is not difficult to talk for a few hours. Up to now, especially after the popularity of the Internet, everyone feels that they have seen the world, especially those who don't like reading books and news, and don't have much reasoning ability. Just look at qq space and Renren. Biography, news and life of com.

I have to say that there are a large number of people who pretend to be B now, and a large number of people who used to love to talk about their ideals and dreams have been diluted. Although these people have other people's ignorance and talent, for the living non-Bole people, before these people have achieved success, people can't tell these people who love to talk about ideals from those who pretend to be B, so many idealists and dreamers who are angry about this will argue endlessly. But most people are good at summing up afterwards and have no forward-looking ability to distinguish. In addition, thinking is also a technical activity. Except those who like to think, most people like to accept existing conclusions without thinking about authenticity.

At this point, those who like to talk about dreams and ideals that we can come into contact with are almost buried by the vast B group, and few survive. However, the ideals and dreams we can hear have become the exclusive terms of those successful people, such as the re-starting of Kaifu's teacher and what dreams Reebs will realize when he is 40 years old.

As for us ordinary people, we are left with only one sentence from Uncle Benshan: "Don't talk to me about ideals, quit."

The questioner and I are good friends. He likes to say the sentence in Stephen Chow's movie: "If a person has no ideal, he is no different from salted fish."

To tell the truth, I like people like him very much, and I'm not afraid to express my ideals, but I quit because of a bunch of guys in the dormitory.

Finally, most people with ideals will eventually work hard alone and then give up silently when they find that they can't. For example, if I am lucky enough to meet like-minded people, it will be great luck in life.

But in the Internet age, there are many people who don't study and think, and most of them are self-righteous, and few people are modest and prudent. If everyone has an ideal dream, encourage them to work harder and talk less.