When you are speechless by your friends at dinner, you must go back like this.

"The curse of knowledge"

I want a scene where you and your friends are having dinner. You two have different majors, different jobs and different fields. At this time, your friend raised a question in his field that he thought was very simple. At this time, you must say that you don't understand or know. At this time, he will laugh at you. You don't understand such a simple question. This is common sense.

At this time, you will think that this is a problem in his field. How should I know? Yes, this is not your problem, but your friend is cursed by his knowledge.

Simply put, after you know one thing, you can't imagine what you don't know. When you want to explain what you know to others, it is difficult for you to fully explain what you know to others because of the imbalance of information. It feels like we are cursed by knowledge.

We can play a little game like this.

I beat the time with my hand. Guess what song I played "Pa … Pa … Pa, Pa, Pa, Pa, Pa, Pa, Pa, Pa".

Did I lie to you? In fact, I was cursed by my own knowledge. The melody of this song lingered in my mind for a long time. I just need to match the melody of this song with my slap. When you guess this song, you need to retrieve this melody from the vast sea of songs, which is basically impossible. (The answer is at the end)

This little game can be played at the dinner table, telling what is the curse of knowledge. Your friends will praise you and know too much! )

Case 1: Boyfriends and boyfriends are embarrassed to go shopping. The girl suggested that her boyfriend could coax herself with a rose. But don't say, let your boyfriend guess. At this time, no matter how the girls hint, the boys don't know. In fact, the girl just wants a rose.

Girls think their hints are clear, but why don't boys just know? In fact, girls are cursed by their own knowledge.

Case 2: When parents help their children with their homework, they can't do very simple questions. At this time, parents became angry and said, "It's stupid not to understand such a simple question."

This simple question is familiar to parents, but for a child, he is just learning this knowledge and can't be very skilled. It is normal to make mistakes. In fact, parents were cursed by their own knowledge at this time.

This requires us to stand in each other's perspective and consider the issues we are discussing. See if this question is familiar to me, but unusual to the other party.

Case 1: When arranging work for subordinates, leaders should keep a low profile, organize the language in advance, and make clear the work they want to arrange in an orderly way. And say the important things several times, and then confirm to your subordinates whether you have really expressed the work arrangement you want to convey clearly. Don't pretend to be profound, let employees guess their own ideas.

Case 2: When tutoring children, we should stand on the same level with them and learn knowledge calmly with them in a learning attitude. If you feel breathless, you should first think about whether you are cursed by knowledge.

Knowledge is a good thing, it can help us solve many problems in life. If we think we know a lot of knowledge, so that we are surrounded by the curse of knowledge, it is a state of complacency. How can life progress with such a mentality?

Reveal the answer: "in front of the door, under the bridge, a group of ducks swam around." Come and count, 24678. "

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