How much do parents know about the vanity of adolescent children?

When I was carrying a lunch box to school to deliver meals to my daughter, I met the parent of my child’s classmate on the way. When she learned that I was carrying a lunch box to school to deliver meals to my daughter, the parent sighed. , your daughter is still obedient, and she doesn’t dislike you for helping her deliver meals. I was a little surprised and said that there is reason to dislike you for giving meals to your children out of kindness to increase nutrition.

The parent said that she once brought dinner to her child, and it was as if she was an underground party member. The child took the lunch box and carried the classmates on his back, quickly stuffed the meal into his stomach, and ran to the classroom. I was afraid that my classmates would find out some secret, so I lost my temper when I got home and said, "Who asked me to take it upon myself to deliver meals to my daughter?" After listening to what the parents said, I rushed to deliver meals to my daughter, so I had to talk to my classmates' parents. A hasty farewell.

Every time I deliver meals to my daughter, it is during the rush hour of school. When I walk into the school gate with my lunch box, I sit down on a row of stools next to the security room and wait for my daughter to come back from school (the child Our school only has students in the hope class, and they are not allowed to leave school until they have finished their evening self-study.) Every time, the children are happy, sitting with me generously, picking up their lunch boxes and eating bite by bite. She never forgets to praise my growing cooking skills. When a classmate from my class passes by, my daughter will tell her classmates to go to the cafeteria and taste the dishes cooked by my mother. What are the names of my classmates, what positions they hold in the class, and their strengths, etc. This may be the reason why my wife and I don’t like to complain in life. In my daughter’s eyes, she sees more strengths than weaknesses in others. Only then did I suddenly realize why my children were so popular at school.

Watching my daughter happily eating the dinner I sent, I suddenly thought of the conversation my classmate’s parents had just had with me on the way, so I asked my child, will your mother attract classmates if she brings you a meal? A joke? My daughter said, no! It was too late for my classmates to envy me. They said that my mother is beautiful and can cook. She is a blessing from her previous life. My daughter, who always likes to joke with me, always makes me happy when she talks.

Thinking about it carefully, it seems that my daughter has never stopped me from delivering food to her. During the holidays, the child attends training classes on the street. As long as I have time, I will often deliver food to the child to the training school. , because I know very well that it is when the child is growing that he must gain sufficient nutrition. Moreover, I am not sure about the many diets available outside. Maybe it’s because my child has been used to me delivering food to her since she was a child. Not only does she not dislike it, but she is also very happy to tell her classmates that the food my mother cooks is super delicious. Indeed, every time I deliver food to my child, I will carefully prepare the dishes and make them meat-free. Vegetarian Pairing cooks different kinds of food for the children every day. Seeing that the children are not only healthy but also growing taller, I feel from the bottom of my heart that the food cooked for the children by myself is really good.

I always thought that it was just an isolated phenomenon that children disliked parents bringing meals to school. Unexpectedly, even my mother told me in great distress that her son did not want parents to send meals to school. I feel embarrassed to say that I am afraid of being laughed at by my classmates. When I went to pick up my daughter from school tonight, I also heard several parents telling each other that the school dinner was not suitable for the growing children at this time, but when the parents said they wanted to give their children When sending meals to school, the children will obstruct them in every possible way and do not want their parents to send meals to school. Parents lament helplessly that adolescent children have too much vanity and are always afraid of their classmates laughing at them for not growing up. There are many reasons such as the way their parents dress makes them look dull.

Standing aside and listening to what parents said, I realized that there are so many children who don’t want their parents to send meals to school because of the so-called face. When I carefully observed the parents’ dressing, I immediately thought It’s no wonder that children are vain. Although parents come to school to pick up their children, they don’t seem to pay attention to their appearance at all. They wear a set of cotton pajamas and a pair of fur slippers, and talk loudly to others while standing at the school gate to pick up their children. Children, with such an image, not only do children not like their parents to stay in school more, but they are also scary to passers-by and do not like to meet similar people like this, which makes the good mood disappear without a trace immediately.

Thinking about it is not that adolescent children have serious vanity, but that parents have not only failed to learn to respect their own appearance, but have also not given adolescent children further exploration and understanding of the word beauty. In fact, What the children want is for a parent to appear in front of their classmates with a clean and tidy appearance and a radiant face, and proudly introduce to their classmates that she is my mother.