Looking at the second-born sister, my brother's "eye-catching" is on fire. Netizen: There is a trace of bitterness in the joke.

The opening of the national second child policy is bound to make many families want to have a second child. Many young couples will inevitably neglect to take care of the first child after giving birth to the second child, which will gradually make Dabao feel a little unbalanced. At this time, how to balance the relationship between Dabao and Bauer depends on parents.

I saw such a thing on the internet. There is a young couple whose first child is a boy. After the opening of the second child policy, they gave birth to another daughter. For this young couple, nature is very happy.

But the son didn't show happiness, even a little impatient. Parents want their son and daughter to be close, so they give their little daughter to their son. Unexpectedly, my son showed great reluctance to approach his sister and showed "murderous eyes" to his sister.

This expression made the parents on the side see it, and it was also dumbfounding. It will take some time for my son to accept the existence of his youngest daughter. And this brother, who is the most "dramatic" in his eyes, is also a smash hit on the Internet.

Many netizens laughed when they saw this photo, and said that there was a trace of bitterness in it. Presumably, the second child sister will inevitably take away some of Dabao's love. No wonder he made such an "eye-catching".

Many families with two children often don't know how to face it when Dabao knows that he wants to have a younger brother or sister. Because after giving birth to a second child, parents will inevitably have some negligence on Dabao.

At this time, Dabao can easily transfer negative emotions to his younger brother or sister, thinking that they have robbed their parents of their love, and may even lead to a bad relationship with the second child.

1. Tell Dabao in advance that he will have a younger brother or sister.

When parents decide to have a second child, they must tell their Dabao in advance that they are going to have a younger brother or sister. This can give Dabao some psychological preparation time. At the same time, parents should let Dabao know that even if they have a second child, they will not reduce their love for Dabao.

In this way, after the birth of his younger brother and sister, Dabao will not have contradictory emotions, which is more conducive to the cultivation of feelings between the two children.

2. Treat two children fairly

After giving birth to a second child, many parents may focus on the second child, thus ignoring the care for the older child. In this case, for Dabao, their inner feelings will inevitably be lost, and even these negative emotions will be transferred to their younger brothers and sisters and they will begin to hate them.

This is very unfavorable to the emotional cultivation between the two children. Therefore, even if parents give birth to a second child, they should treat the two children fairly and should not reduce their companionship and care for Dabao because of the second child.

3. Let Dabao take care of Bauer.

After Bauer is born, parents can also involve Dabao in the process of taking care of the second child. For example, you can usually let Dabao hug your brother and sister; When feeding the second child, you can ask Dabao to help you hold the bottle. This not only gives Dabao a sense of participation in taking care of Bauer, but also allows them to accept their younger brothers and sisters.

4. Arrange and supervise each child's time

For children, they all have a certain possessiveness to their parents, and they all hope that their parents will only accompany and love themselves for a certain period of time. Therefore, in daily life, parents must arrange time alone with each child. In this way, after the children's needs are met, they will not compete with each other for goodwill. This is also conducive to the cultivation of feelings between the two children. (The pictures are all from the Internet and have been deleted. )

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