Because of a takeaway order, I found my boyfriend cheated on me. How smart are women in love?

There is no way to disagree. Everyone is an adult, and no one can convince anyone. Boyfriend wears makeup and there are many beautiful girls around him.

Thirdly, he is the kind of person who is very popular with girls. He often plays jokes on his female colleagues, and sometimes has intimate actions, such as calling "baby" or pinching others' faces.

This makes me very uncomfortable. We have argued about this many times. Every time he says that makeup is like this. If you don't mix with women, people won't take you to play, and business can't go on. He also said I was narrow-minded.

Tell me more about the recent situation. Their company went online and rented a hotel venue. The live broadcast time is about four o'clock in the afternoon, but my boyfriend has never come back. In the meantime, he didn't answer anything. He didn't get in touch until eleven in the evening. He said he was tired after the live broadcast and fell asleep in the hotel.

Intuitively, he is lying. Sure enough, I used his mobile phone to order takeout yesterday, and found that at around 8 pm, he ordered two fast foods, one of which was spicy (my boyfriend doesn't eat spicy food). I asked him what it was, and he said that he was replying with his colleagues at the hotel, fearing that I would think too much and not tell me.

Of course, I don't believe it. I said goodbye noisily, but I still had a little hope in my heart, expecting him to give me a reasonable explanation.

I didn't expect him to blame me, saying that I was always jealous and didn't support my career, saying that other people's girlfriends were never like this, and people were more sensible. He also said that he is a big man and it is not easy to mix makeup. Not only can't he help me, but he often drags him into the water …

I'm a little confused to see what he said is so wronged. Am I really stingy? Should I really "turn a blind eye" to the so-called career?

Gan Bei: I really want to criticize you. Now the little girl, with a bad style, comes out of nowhere. After being brainwashed by her boyfriend, she begins to doubt herself and keeps asking, "Am I wrong?"

Let me have confidence! Nothing for nothing. What's wrong with that? The mistake is blind, and the mistake is the trick of finding an asshole-after the live broadcast, the lonely man and few women returned to the hotel, but he thought of it!

Forget it if it's not good. The key is to dig. Just open a room honestly and find a dark night once a month. It's an honor. This buddy is a good friend, and he cheated in the company in broad daylight. He was reluctant to part with his room money, but also smashed the two pieces of fast food money, and finally he had to be reimbursed by the company. What is the promise?

Don't ask me why I think he cheated. A lonely man and several women hid in a hotel and didn't answer their phones. Whether he has had sex or not, he should be regarded as having had sex. That's the normal logic of human beings-don't avoid suspicion, where do you think he will be measured?

Finally, he said something like "open your eyes and close your eyes". Too many men have said that it is not easy to go out and have fun by yourself, and it is inevitable to have a drink. A clever wife should open her eyes wide and close them to show her support for her career.

You big head ghost, I bah. It is such nonsense that even women believe it.

Take three melon seeds and two dates earned by ordinary men, and you can still pull them up and dedicate yourself? Since everything has to be paid, why not go directly to the White Horse Club, maybe meet a rich woman and go directly to the peak of life? Don't look, check the balance on the bank card. You are an ordinary office worker. Don't make it so ugly.

When it comes to "taking part in accidental amusement", women can illustrate this point better than men. Or do you want to send your wife to "compete in the same field" next time you talk about business? Make sure the effect is better.

But will you? You don't want to, you think I'm insulting you, and you're even going to start work on me.

Hey, so you are so stingy and ignorant? Look, it's all lies. Sisters, don't be fooled by men's mouths. What nonsense are they unable to make up in order to achieve their goals? "Take part in accidental amusement" is very low. In order not to cook, they even make up jokes like "People cook". Can you believe it?

My attitude towards money is too sticky. For one thing, I need money very much, and for another, I refuse to talk about money with others.

For example, I am helping my sister open a shop now, and she wants to give me some salary. Every time I refused, I was embarrassed to ask for it, and then I regretted it. I feel that people can't be so realistic, but they can't always get rid of reality …

Sister, it's good that you have such integrity. However, as the saying goes, "Only when you are in the warehouse can you know the etiquette, and only when you have enough food and clothing can you know the honor and disgrace." Talking about money is not necessarily dishonest. On the contrary, it may be for more integrity.

For example, industrialists who donated airplanes and cannons to the country during the war made a lot of money, but they used it to run state affairs. Do you think this is angry or not?

Poverty is a person's strength, success is a person's spiritual strength and success is a person's happiness. With a dollar in hand, you can buy a steamed bread for the homeless at most.

With 100 million yuan in hand, you can start a company, create jobs, promote social consumption, revitalize national industries, and provide a platform for more young people to realize their dreams, environmental protection, charity and public welfare. ...

Isn't this integrity? Gambei Bar, like me, advertises on the official account of WeChat all day, but I do public welfare every year and form an alliance with several rich women to build a school in the future. Is it low to do small advertisements? I really don't feel it.

Especially when the epidemic breaks out, every transaction will save a factory and create a job. Manufacturers can increase profits and readers can buy things at cheaper prices. Isn't it a win-win situation?

Money is needed for food, clothing, housing and transportation, as well as for national rejuvenation. As long as money is hard-won, not evil, not harmful, not fake, "making money" is a good word.

Let the world find those people you hate, and don't let those opportunities to make money find those abnormal people. You are a person with a bottom line and integrity, so you should earn more money. I believe that if the money falls into your hands, it will definitely make a difference. Come on!

I watched a lot of videos about mountaineers in Tik Tok. Some of them are white, still climbing mountains, picking things lightly, and the ropes are embedded in the meat.

Even those who drive tourists up the mountain and watch them ride in sedan chairs are young people with hands and feet. Why can't they go up by themselves?

Kindness is good, but a kind heart will do bad things if it is ignored. Your sympathy for mountain pickers proves that you are compassionate people. However, have you ever thought that without this job, these unskilled people are likely to lose their jobs, have no financial resources at home, and their children can't go to school or even have enough to eat? So what should we do?

A trip to the construction site will tell you that what workers fear most is not being tired, but not having a job. The same is true of mountain pickers. A tourist who wants to take a sedan chair will be greeted by several mountain bearers, because a guest has a day's life. Although this job is really hard, it may be the best or even the only choice for them.

Don't deprive them of their livelihood. The best way to really help them is to give them enough respect and reward. One more thank you. Money is enough if you work hard enough.