A joke about getting married first.

Generally speaking, you get married first and have children.

First of all, people usually don't get married on the pretext of "having children before getting married". When they do have children, they generally won't get married again.

Secondly, "unmarried pregnancy" refers to children born out of wedlock. Because the child's parents don't have a marriage certificate, they can't register during pregnancy (because they need a marriage certificate), and then a series of related problems will appear.

Finally, because the children born out of wedlock violated the current birth policy, even if the children were born in the end, they settled down smoothly. For the sake of social justice, you still need to pay social support. Moreover, in some cities, such as Shanghai, those who violate the birth policy cannot move their household registration (unless the household registration policy is adjusted in the future). Of course, there is nothing wrong with household registration, that is, they have to pay more social support.

Therefore, any young couple who are willing to start a family and raise children will definitely choose to "get married first and have children". After all, two things are more troublesome than one.