On "Failure is the mother of success" or "Success is the mother of failure"

Failure is not the mother of success

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Everyone will know the sentence "Failure is the mother of success". When this sentence is mentioned, people Then you will think of some people who have tried many times without giving up, like Einstein, who tried thousands of times to complete the unified field theory. His success was accumulated by failures. Therefore, some people think that it does not matter how many times he fails. It will succeed anyway.

This kind of thinking is wrong. The saying "Failure is the mother of success" needs to add a prerequisite.

If you don't learn lessons after failure, you won't be able to succeed. To look for the reasons for failure and not to treat failure positively, but to comfort ourselves by thinking that "failure is the mother of success". When encountering difficulties in learning, instead of finding ways to overcome the difficulties, it is "three days to fish and two days to catch fish" I treated my study like "Shaying the Internet", but in the final exam, I still didn't do well in the final exam.

Success is not smooth sailing. Frustration and failure are inevitable, but you cannot always use "Failure is the mother of success." To comfort ourselves. When we fail, we should summarize, review, learn lessons, and treat failure with a positive attitude. Only in this way can we truly achieve "failure is the mother of success."

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There is a saying in China: Failure is the mother of success. I don’t think so. The example that parents always like to use when educating their children is Edison. In the process of inventing the electric light, he tried thousands of filaments. He failed over and over again and searched again, and finally he succeeded. At the end of the story, the parents did not forget to encourage the children: Don't be afraid of failure. Where can there be no success without failure? Success? This is really a strange thing. It seems that on the road of children, we must first experience failure before we can achieve success. Whether we will fail in the process of doing things is also uncertain. The success of something requires two aspects: subjective efforts and objective foundations. It is important to have subjective efforts, but more importantly, there must be an objective factual basis. If subjective efforts are made, there is no possibility of success at all. That would cause a lot of jokes. In the 1950s and 1960s, under the guidance of the concept that man can conquer nature, our people put forward the slogan "The boldness of people is the same as the land." One-sided pursuit of high yields and one-sided pursuit of human interests. The failure of the "Great Leap Forward" was certainly due to political factors at the time, regardless of the existence of scientific facts. However, we should not forget that in that era, the top leaders issued ordinary instructions. Farmers, in their busy minds, don’t think about the reasons for failure. In a field, the yield per acre does not reach the target, but it is due to insufficient fertilization, poor management, or the failure of the weather. , we can always use "failure is the mother of success" to excuse it, but the mother comes over and over again, and we fail to see the birth of her beloved son, success. But if the objective fact is that success is possible, is it certain? Will it succeed? The answer is of course no. Among the factors that make something successful, our efforts also play a considerable role. Such examples abound around us. Humans are emotional animals, busy, but also like to make various plans. When people are about to implement their plans, one of the worst things in the human body will show up, and that is inertia. When we were children, we heard the trilling cry of the cold-horned bird, "Dorolo, Dororo, we will build the house tomorrow," but this cry has not awakened us even now. As animals of the same species, perhaps the ancients sighed: Tomorrow comes tomorrow, there are so many tomorrows; I am born waiting for tomorrow, everything will be wasted. The most worthy of our vigilance. In short, the success of something is the perfect combination of subjective efforts and objective soil, both of which are indispensable. Contrary to success, failure is the result of something or all of the subjective and objective things going wrong. If we are subjectively slack, we can correct it. As long as we have an objective basis, we can still succeed. If there is no objective basis for success, no matter how hard we try, it will be in vain.

Didn't our ancestors also try to invent some kind of "perpetual motion machine"? Even a few years ago, many people tried hard to prove that humans were created by God, but the results were of course absurd. It can be seen from the above that success is success and failure is failure. They are two concepts that are completely incommensurable. If the right time, the right place, the right people and the right people are all in place, success can be achieved overnight, without the need for failure. The so-called "failure is the mother of success" is also untenable. If the argument that "failure is the mother of success" is allowed to become popular in the educational or scientific circles. In that way, people will not face failure correctly. Anyway, if the failed mother is here, will the successful son be far away? This kind of thinking will only produce two effects: one is to blindly chase failure again, and the other is to fail to calmly analyze the reasons and be blindly optimistic when facing failure. The ultimate consequence of these two effects is only one - failure.

For failure, we should calmly analyze the subjective and objective reasons, and should not be blind or discouraged. If the subjective reasons are good and there is a basis for objective success, we must find out the reasons and strive for success; if there is no objective possibility of success, we must have the courage to give up.

This is what we need to do now.