Daughter-in-law can't cook Every time after dinner, she neither brushes the pot nor washes the dishes, just lowers her head to play with her mobile phone. What should I do?

Daughter-in-law can't cook Every time after dinner, she neither brushes the pot nor washes the dishes, just lowers her head to play with her mobile phone. What should I do?

First: What do you think of your daughter-in-law as your own daughter? What would you do if it were your daughter? Put yourself in each other's shoes.

Second: You have worked hard to raise your son and married him, so you should let them go out and live alone. The son found his daughter-in-law. He must know her character. The fact that two people can get married proves that he has accepted everything she has done. Don't underestimate it and confuse it. Let them build another "stove" and cook and wash dishes by themselves. If they don't do this, they will starve. They learned everything in a few days.

Third: When no one is doing housework, family meetings can be held and division of labor can be implemented. Or, if the mother-in-law thinks that housework should be done by the younger generation, she should also give it to her son to handle and negotiate the housework between their husband and wife, instead of complaining directly to her daughter-in-law.

Fourth, if a mother-in-law wants her daughter-in-law to take her life seriously, she must first learn to give up her son's life properly, instead of taking full responsibility for them, observing their performance, or accusing a person of not washing dishes and doing housework. On the contrary, we should learn to let them run their own small homes, let them have a vision for the future, let them take life seriously, wash dishes, do housework and take care of themselves!

Fifth: If the mother-in-law lives with her son and daughter-in-law, housework is a matter for four people, or a matter for the mother-in-law and the young couple. Therefore, if no one does housework, family meetings can be held to realize division of labor and cooperation. In other words, if the mother-in-law thinks that housework should be done by the younger generation, then the son should also handle and negotiate the housework between husband and wife, instead of complaining directly about the daughter-in-law!

In short, we must learn to put ourselves in the other's shoes so that the family can be harmonious.