I really want to run into my cousin nursing the baby.

I really want to run into my cousin nursing the baby.

Reading Tip: One day, I came to help again and saw my cousin nursing the baby. She stood sideways, with a beautiful figure, gentle movements and full of femininity. I was attracted to her. To tell the truth, my cousin is more beautiful and charming than my girlfriend. How can she get out of the shadow of divorce? Please look at teacher Zhou Xiao's answer.

Being with my cousin is enjoyable, happy, sweet and even impulsive. I got deeper and deeper.

How can I stop "emotional depravity"

Hello, Miss Zhou Xiao:

I wanted to go directly to the consulting room to find you, but I still didn't have the courage to think about it. I could only tell my secret by writing to you. This knot has been stuck in my heart for a long time and it is very uncomfortable. I hope Mr. Zhou Xiao can give me some advice.

My heart knot is a story of "love between fish and birds". Maybe it was wrong from the beginning, but I didn't brake and got stuck. I am confused because I fell in love with my cousin, had sex with her, and now I love her deeply.

Four years ago, my cousin went home to have a baby. I visited my cousin on behalf of my parents. Although we are close relatives, it is the first time to meet each other. At that time, I had just talked about my girlfriend, and I had no feelings for my girlfriend. Later, my girlfriend was sent to work in another city by the company, but I stayed in Jinan.

Soon, my cousin opened a small shop for my cousin to run, but he often went out to do projects and run other businesses, and almost everything that happened at home fell on my cousin. Usually there are only cousins and children at home. At that time, the child was still breastfeeding, and the cousin was busy with the business in the store and cleaning up the housework while taking care of the child. I think she works hard.

At that time, my unit was close to my cousin's house and I had to commute. As soon as I have time, I will help. My cousin welcomes me very much, because I can help her take care of the children as soon as I come, so that she can have time to do housework, cook and take care of the business in the store.

I didn't work overtime for a few days. My cousin called to ask me if I was free. I said yes, and she said come and help me. I went to my cousin's house to help her look after the children after work, and she cleaned up the housework and cooked. My cousin is very capable. As she worked, she said, "If you don't help me, I won't be able to eat, so I can only go hungry." I said, "then I will come often, but you have to cook for one more person!" " "My cousin said," great. I'm just paying for the meal. It's a good deal. "

One day, I came to help again and saw my cousin nursing the baby. She stood sideways, with a beautiful figure, gentle movements and full of femininity. I was attracted to her. To tell the truth, my cousin is more beautiful and charming than my girlfriend.

I go to my cousin's house to help after work every day and leave after two or three hours. Sometimes when my cousin is at home, we just talk casually and work together. I am very happy. Sometimes my cousin and children are at home, and we have a good chat. Every time we leave, we want more. I found myself happy, and a kind of joy rose from my heart.

Going to my cousin's house to help has become a part of my life. If you don't go for a day, you will feel something missing.

One day, I suddenly found myself in love with my cousin. This discovery scares me and worries me more. I don't know when my cousin's smile and every move often appear in my mind. I seem to have lost something when I can't see her. She touched my heart.

In order to escape this feeling, I keep in touch with my girlfriend, either by phone or by text message, but the feeling with my girlfriend is far less pleasant than that with my cousin. I feel very enjoyable, happy, sweet and even impulsive with my cousin.

Cousin has a bad temper. Sometimes, he loses his temper with his cousin and blames her. Once, my cousin came back from the outside and saw that he had no food, so he blamed my cousin for not cooking and said that he had come back for dinner and rest after a tired day. Seeing him lose his temper with his cousin, I have no taste in my heart Actually, my cousin is not idle at all. She is busy with the business of the small shop while taking care of the children. Cousin was not only inconsiderate, but also lost his temper. Cousin cried very unjustly. I can feel that my cousin doesn't respect my cousin.

In the evening, I received a short message from my cousin: If I divorce your cousin one day, will you still recognize me as a sister-in-law? I immediately replied: of course, I have never regarded you as a sister-in-law, just as a friend.

After this time, we started to contact by SMS. Sometimes, I download jokes from the Internet and send them to her to make her happy. In the following days, our feelings have undergone subtle changes, and our eyes are different from the past. Although we can't say what that feeling is, we are very happy, as if we are all expecting something from each other.

I will still help with some things every day, and my cousin will also talk to me about some contradictions between them. She is very distressed and wronged. I am very distressed. I hope my cousin will be better to her.

Days passed day by day, until that night, my cousin was not at home, and I chatted with my cousin by SMS very late and had a good time. I suddenly had an idea and sent a short message: shall I come to see you? Cousin replied: How dare you come over? I am very excited and nervous to receive such a reply from my cousin. I am entangled in my heart. Should I go there? What will happen in the past? I had a terrible headache and finally decided to go there.

Cousin was surprised and said, "How dare you come here?" We just sat face to face, and suddenly fell silent, and no one spoke. Later, we talked late and were sleepy.

Cousin said, "Go home and sleep when you are sleepy." I replied, "I don't want to go back." Cousin said, "Then you can sleep in the back." . I said, "Well, you can sleep together." My cousin sighed and went to bed with me. In fact, nothing happened that night, we just hugged. I wanted to, but my cousin refused. My cousin cried and asked why this happened. I kissed her and said, I like you.

That night, although we didn't have sex, we talked all night and our relationship became closer.

One night a few days later, my friend gave me a birthday. It was very late after drinking and breaking up with friends that night. I was walking alone in the street. When I missed her, I sent her a message saying I didn't want to go home. She texted back that her cousin was not at home and asked me to come over.

I went there. We erupted like a volcano that night. I will never forget that madness. This is the first time I have sex with a woman. Up to now, I still clearly remember the feeling at that time. Perhaps because my cousin was my first woman, I never forgot her.

After this time, I can feel that she is eager to be loved and considerate. I care more about her. Her face is as bright as a peach blossom. It is said that all women nourished by men are like this.

I still help her every day after that night. But the difference is that we will find opportunities to get close. I know this is wrong and immoral, but none of us can stop, so we can only fall willingly.

In this way, my cousin and I have been lingering for more than a year. Later, my girlfriend transferred back to Jinan Company, and we got married. Having my own home and being far away from my cousin's, it is not convenient to go to her home every day, but I miss her very much and can't let her go, so I will secretly send her a text message whenever I have time.

Once, I heard that my cousin and cousin were getting divorced. I sympathize with her, and I hope my cousin will be more considerate to her, but they seem to be too stiff to be together. After I learned the news, I was very entangled in my heart, wanted a divorce, and then I was with my cousin. Unexpectedly, my cousin made me forget her and advised me to live with my wife.

Later, my cousin went to work in other places alone. I really want to contact her, but I can't make up my mind. How lonely and helpless is a weak woman alone in the field? I miss her very much and worry about her.

I think I love my cousin more than my wife. But my wife is pregnant, and I can't be irresponsible to her. Now, shall I choose my cousin? Or choose a wife? Should I give up that "relationship"?

Psychological interpretation:

In a lonely or unloved marriage, some women wither, some women are depressed, some women avoid, some women have affairs, some women are helpless, and some women choose to reflect on themselves and run a marriage. In either case, the parties concerned should be responsible for it.

When you first went to your cousin's house to help, it was your free time, and it was also the emotional alienation and blank period between you and your girlfriend. Although you are siblings, you are about the same age. You can help your sister-in-law and talk to her. When she is wronged, you can understand her, be considerate and comfort her. These are all things that a husband should do, but as his cousin, you didn't do it, you did. Undoubtedly, this behavior satisfies my cousin's desire and need for men's love. At the same time, the cousin also filled your emotional gap. Both sides met their emotional needs in a specific period of time.

Ok, now you need to distinguish clearly, do you love or need your cousin? Guilt or sympathy? Do you miss the smell of her mature body or do you want to be responsible for her?

If you really want to marry your cousin, her divorce is an opportunity for you. You have chosen her in despair, instead of hesitating here. People's bodies have memories. Your cousin is the first woman you have sex with, so you will naturally miss her. If you really want to be responsible for her, you shouldn't have had and developed this relationship in the first place.

Aside from the needs of human nature, it is immoral for you to have an affair with your cousin from a social and ethical point of view. If you were responsible for her, you wouldn't have been in a relationship with her for so long! You only care about the love between men and women, but forget what consequences this behavior will bring to each other's lives!

At this point, you can only do what you should do, instead of spinning and wandering in your mind. Obviously, the most important thing you need to do now is to be responsible for your wife and fetus and not let them be hurt and influenced. For my cousin, she has the right to choose her own life. It is a kind of support for her that you stop interfering and disturbing her life.