The real experiences of three 50-year-old divorced women: DINK deceives people, especially women. What do you think?

Someone asked, "If I never get married, will I be sad in my later years?" Someone replied, "Of course, but if you choose to get married and have children, you may not live until your old age." Although this is just It's a joke that is really unacceptable, but it does mention two very real problems: some people want to be single, but they are afraid of "No Country for Old Men." Some people want to get married, but are afraid that getting married will be too hard. This kind of thing varies from person to person. Everyone's life is full of possibilities, both good and bad. The key depends on your choices and choices.

If you want to be single but are afraid of No Country for Old Men, then you need to stop and make a decision again. Only when you choose a certain path and dare to walk it willingly can you have no worries. Likewise, if you want to get married but are afraid it will be too difficult, you need to stop and make your decision again. Working hard after marriage is definitely hard work. If you choose to get married, you have to face many problems. The key is whether you have made up your mind.

The saddest thing in life is to live in the above two uncertain situations. As a result, I get old without realizing it. When you get older, you start to regret it. It was really tragic at that time. This man’s ex-wife’s life was miserable. Let's look specifically at what's going on. Will those women who insist on being DINK regret it when they get older? "Anyway, my ex-wife regrets it." Hello, Teacher Lin Dong: I saw many people discussing on the Internet, "Should single women be free to freeze their eggs?" Others were discussing whether to do so, and I thought of my ex-wife.

My ex-wife used to be a woman who wanted to be a DINK, but I didn’t want to be a DINK. If she had told me before marriage that she wanted to be a DINK, I would definitely not have married her. Originally, we had no idea whether we should have children before marriage. I thought we would always go smoothly after marriage. Who would have thought that after marriage, she would tell me that she wanted to be a DINK and never wanted children. In order to implement her idea, she began to resist my approach to her. After a long time, I couldn't stand it anymore. My parents couldn't accept that we didn't want children, so our marriage ended.

As for women who have children, although there are many older women in reality, generally speaking, the best period for childbearing is definitely around 30 years old. For those who want to have children, if possible, they must grasp this key point, otherwise everything will become very troublesome afterwards. The question I mentioned earlier, "Should single women be free to freeze their eggs?" is to freeze their eggs during the best growth period. By grasping this key point, even if you don’t want children for the time being, you can always want them in the future.

However, my ex-wife has not thought about this issue. She just wants to be a DINK, regardless of whether she missed the best fertile period. After divorcing me, she has been looking for someone who agrees with her. As a result, she became a super old leftover girl without realizing it. During the years when she insisted on being a DINK, she felt that she would never have children in the future and could spend whatever she earned, so she would have no savings in her hands. As she got older and worked hard to make money, she finally wanted to start a family, and Dink's thoughts began to change. She wants to get married and have children like everyone else.