How to joke with the person you love the most?

Sometimes, when we communicate with those closest to us, we unconsciously use a joking tone to express our thoughts and feelings. Among these joking words, there are also some true words hidden. They are either some of our deep emotions or our true attitude towards life. In this post, I want to share some of my heartfelt words behind some of the tongue-in-cheek talk.

Perhaps the most impressive time for me was at the beginning of my relationship with my girlfriend. We were joking together and I asked her: "You know what? If you leave me now, I will go to practice, no Marry a wife but not have children, just focus on cultivation!" Then, I immediately changed my mind and said, "Don't leave, I only like you in this life!" She smiled, and then said with a slight blush on her cheeks: "You are serious. So sweet." This sentence didn't sound like a joke, but at that time, I did use a joking tone to express my love.

In another chat with my friend, I said: "If I could go back in time, I would choose not to associate with you, so that I would have a few more days of freedom." My friend immediately replied : "If you don't come and go, then no one will accompany me, and I will be very lonely." Actually, I was joking in front of everyone, but my friend's answer made me feel that he really cares about me. , and his words also made me realize the power and meaning of loyalty to friends.

Another time, I was chatting with another friend. I felt that he was having some difficulties, but I was too embarrassed to ask directly, so I said in a joking tone: "You know what? When we were children, we dreamed Earn a lot of money to buy a luxury house, but now we don’t know what to do.” This sentence seems light and humorous, but it actually hides my concern and worry about their economic situation.

The above examples are just the tip of the iceberg. In fact, there are such examples around each of us. When communicating with the people closest to us, we can always find some joking topics, but behind these topics are often hidden our true emotions and attitudes. In a way, what we say about joking topics isn't really joking, but rather expressing our truest emotions but masking them with a light-hearted tone.

Therefore, when we communicate with our closest people, we should always remain sincere and frank, and do not hide our true emotions behind jokes. We should learn to tell them our thoughts and feelings directly so that we can express our love and care more truly. After all, love must be sincere in order to truly feel its warmth and power.