Joke Collection Website - Joke collection - "Told Aunt Gao's secret.No matter how she explained, my wife didn't believe it, and my son also felt that his mother had embarrassed him. The originally harmonious family became lifeless. Aunt Gao sai

"Told Aunt Gao's secret.No matter how she explained, my wife didn't believe it, and my son also felt that his mother had embarrassed him. The originally harmonious family became lifeless. Aunt Gao sai

"Told Aunt Gao's secret.No matter how she explained, my wife didn't believe it, and my son also felt that his mother had embarrassed him. The originally harmonious family became lifeless. Aunt Gao said: "Don't treat your in-laws as relatives, let alone good friends. It's best to treat them as familiar and ordinary friends. Because no matter how good you are to your in-laws, once it comes to your own children, you will immediately turn your back on them. Treating my in-laws as my relatives is the thing I regret most in my life. ”

There must always be a distance between people, especially between in-laws. If you get too close, it is easy to leave your heart and soul, and it is easy to leave something to talk about. Once a conflict occurs between the young couple, they will Catching each other's little tail to fight back. If you go far, it is more suitable for the in-laws to get along. They don't know each other well, and they will think carefully about what they say and do, so they will not cause trouble to the children and do not participate in the affairs of the young couple. Just show up ceremoniously.

There are actually not a few people like Aunt Gao who care deeply. They think that the in-laws are not outsiders, so in order to increase the intimacy between each other, they take the initiative to express their feelings to each other. Some emotions, attitudes, concepts, and feelings. In psychology, this process is called self-exposure. Through this way of sharing information with others, we can get the other person's reaction and let each other deepen their understanding, belief, recognition, and care.

Although self-exposure can enhance our relationship, it also brings us risks, which is the loss of our sense of control. The other party may use the information we provide to control us. Aunt Wang used Aunt Gao to control us. She secretly controlled and counterattacked her, and in the end Aunt Gao was completely defeated by her mother-in-law. You must know that everyone has a "selfish side" and will unconsciously protect themselves when their own interests are touched. This is human nature, so no matter who you are with. When getting along, you must understand that talking too much will lead to mistakes.