What is the psychology of women who often mention divorce?

First, divorce is fake, and it is true to threaten men to achieve their own goals.

Why do women threaten men? The main reason is to fulfill one's own wishes, so as to use the word divorce to coerce men into submission, admit defeat, change, etc.! For example, a couple had a disagreement over a very small matter. Because of their different ideas and opinions, they ended up in a quarrel.

At this time, women will be more eager to prove that "she is right" but suffer from no better way, so they think of divorce.

It can be regarded as a threat, and it can also be regarded as a way to test the man's attitude towards himself through divorce. Because every woman, deep down in her heart, longs for her man to take care of her, pamper her, and care about her.

There is another situation where women want to bring a sense of crisis to men through the word divorce.

Generally speaking, women often talk about divorce when quarreling, and threats are the main psychological factors. If this is the case, then men should think deeply about their own problems. In this case, every time a woman files for divorce, it is an expectation for you, so don't let her really despair. When she never files for divorce again, that is when she gives up on you.

Second, it is not that you really want a divorce, but a resistance to maintain your self-dignity.

Yes! If a woman really wants to divorce you, I'm afraid she would have taken serious action long ago. And all the thunder and rain are mostly a kind of resistance to maintain self-dignity. The most common situation is that she wants to confirm whether you really care about her.

For a woman, feelings are very important, but more important than feelings is dignity and face. Just like a popular saying on the Internet, I love you very much, but I can't even lose my face in order to love you. Mutual respect between two people is the basis for maintaining a relationship, which means that dignity is a person's true bottom line.

You see, when some couples quarrel, most women roar hysterically when they file for divorce.

Faced with a man's aggressiveness, a woman always retreats again and again. However, when she has no way to retreat, she will definitely fight back, and she is so powerless that she can't even argue. However, the last counterattack that can be thought of is to file for divorce, which is the most powerless kind of counterattack.

Also, when a woman faces substantial harm from a man, such as domestic violence and cheating. Maybe they can forgive, but they are so unwilling to forgive so easily, so they hope that through the divorce, they can give men a certain warning, and it can also be regarded as a kind of comfort to themselves. ! Although this kind of comfort is a bit sad!

Third, it is true that I want to divorce, but I have not yet reached the point where divorce is inevitable.

I forgot where I saw a sentence before. The general idea is that many times a person’s jokes are often the truest thoughts in his heart. In other words, the moment a woman files for divorce, she more or less really wants to get divorced.

Perhaps because of unwillingness, perhaps because of reluctance, her impulse was temporarily suppressed.

No matter how much a couple falls in love, they will have 200 thoughts of divorce and 50 impulses to strangle each other to death in their lifetime. If the urge for divorce is really caused by impulse, it is not terrible at all, it is also a normal situation and a normal phenomenon.

In any case, couples must not talk about divorce often, no matter what the purpose or idea, because such behavior will only make the other party feel cold, even if it is true It is effective, but the only thing that is certain is that the harm will definitely outweigh the benefit.

If divorce is talked about too many times, both spouses will become numb. You must have heard the story of the boy who cried wolf! In fact, it's the same truth. In the end, it will only make the other party gradually presuppose the possibility of divorce in their heart, thus preparing a way out for themselves.

Also, the simple word divorce is a complete denial of the other party's feelings and dedication, which is really sad.