Does failure contain opportunities?

In life, failure is inevitable, but failure is not an obstacle to success. Sometimes we fail because we still need to learn and get more useful things on the road to success, because we are not strong enough.

Failure is just a prelude to success and a special way to improve yourself. As long as we truly understand our own shortcomings in failure, we should make good use of the lessons and experiences brought by failure. Then, we can find that failure is not a dark trough, but the dawn before dawn. It can be said that failure will make us more aware of our future path and how to stay away from failure. If we make this clear and always believe in our own ability, then at this time, failure becomes our opportunity to succeed.

failure is perhaps one of the words that we are most afraid of. Who would like to fail? Not to mention "repeated defeats", even one or two failures will make us feel greatly weakened, not only losing energy, time and money.

one of the feelings that failure brings us is inferiority. "I can't. Achieving a career is something for those with special talents or lucky ones, which is unattainable for me. " So we admit that we are incompetent and retreat from the runway of life to be a spectator.

the second feeling that failure brings us is cowardice. The so-called "once bitten, twice shy". From then on, we became timid, afraid of wolves before and tigers after, and never dared to take even the slightest risk again. We became complete cowards.

the third feeling that failure brings us is guilt. We always think that if I hadn't done that, I wouldn't have failed. If only there were people selling regret medicine in the world. We stare at the wound of failure and watch it bleed, but we don't know how to dress it quickly, but we are deeply trapped in remorse.

the fourth feeling that failure brings us is shame. In our opinion, failure is the most shameful and disgraceful thing. Therefore, there is such a joke-a person loses all three sets of chess with others, but he still has to keep his mouth shut and say, "I almost won the first set;" He almost lost the second set; The third set, I let him. " Don't say "I lost" anyway.

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Is failure really so annoying?

Hong Yingming, a Ming dynasty, said that the harsh living environment (including unfair treatment, poor life and the predicament of not being successful) is the melting pot and anvil for training heroes. Those who can withstand its exercise will benefit both physically and mentally; On the contrary, the body and mind will be damaged. In modern words, Hong Yingming told a truth about how steel was tempered.

we should also take this view of failure. In fact, failure often makes a person's living environment worse. For example, if an investor fails, he may immediately become penniless; If a soldier fails, he may become a prisoner of war or be injured. Failure is a fait accompli. If we treat it correctly (so-called "can be exercised by it"), our body and mind will benefit. If we can't treat it correctly, failure will make you feel inferior, cowardly, guilty, shirk, escape ... and make you feel physically and mentally tired, which makes it difficult for you to start working, actively remedy or find a new way, thus contributing to new failures.

first of all, we should realize that failure is an inevitable lesson in life. We can't be born with it. We have to experience many failures when we grow up. Babies always stumble when they are toddlers. If he can't get up on the ground after one or two falls, he will never walk. Hugo, a French writer, said: "Make as few mistakes as possible. This is the principle of being a man. It is an angel's dream not to make mistakes. Everything in the world is inevitable. "

the reasons for the failure are nothing more than subjective and objective factors. Some failures are due to our own knowledge level and ability. This situation requires us to redouble our efforts and make another impact.

Shang Guanyunzhu is a famous film actor in China. She used to be a female employee in a photo studio. Because of her beauty, Guohua Company hired her to play an important role in a film, and also put her color photos on pictorial, ready to make her famous. Unexpectedly, on the first day of filming, she smashed the pot and stood in front of the camera shivering and couldn't say a word. The director tried patiently for three times, but she trembled and had to give up. Shang Guanyunzhu was unwilling to fail when his star dream was shattered for the first time, and he was introduced to Yihua Company by a client to win a role. When shooting under the mercury lamp, her nervous and trembling problem happened again and failed again for the second time. In the face of two failures, Shang Guanyunzhu did not feel inferior or give up her dream. Instead, she carefully analyzed the reasons for the failure with an aggressive and prudent attitude, and realized that trembling was due to her lack of basic performance skills, and her guilty conscience and timidity were the root causes. So she entered the amateur troupe, honed her basic skills in stage performances, accumulated experience and prepared to make a comeback. She also went to Shanghai Theatre School and Xinhua Company's actor training class. In 1941, Shang Guanyunzhu participated in the filming of The Rose Falls, which was a success and finally became a big star.

British poet Pope said, "Not every disaster is a curse. Early adversity is often happiness. The difficulties that have been overcome not only give us lessons, but also inspire our future struggle. "

Emerson, an American writer, said, "Every kind of setback or unfavorable mutation carries the same or larger beneficial seeds." If Shang Guanyunzhu didn't suffer a failure and passed the first shot "smoothly", but in fact, her actress's basic skills are very poor, then she may only be a short-lived "star" and there will be no real glory later.

Indian Mahatma Gandhi said, "Contradictions and misfortunes are not the worst things. What kind of experience leads to what kind of person-the more experience, the stronger a person's personality. " Gandhi fought against British colonialism for many years for India's independence and advocated non-violent resistance, during which he was imprisoned many times. But these did not make him yield, but strengthened his courage in struggle, and also increased his struggle experience and finally won the final victory.

As long as we fight against difficulties, we can make our weak muscles strong-hope is born in the long night of panic watch, and confidence comes under defeat and frustration.