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Is it appropriate? Good looking? Your understanding of marriage may be wrong!

For a while, there was a very hot post on the Internet: What is the standard for marrying a rich man? What kind of girl can marry into a rich family?

One of the answers was highly praised:

I am the manager of a TOP 10 headhunting company. There are thousands of people with an annual salary of one million, including vice presidents, presidents and even chairmen with an annual salary of ten million. But there is an amazing data. Most rich women are not beautiful women in the secular sense.

Who do you choose to get married longer? What kind of marriage is less likely to divorce or regret?

"Good-looking, suitable for every family" is the standard of happy marriage generally recognized by the public for thousands of years.

However, with the opening of modern people's concept of marriage, the traditional concept of "talented women and beautiful women" has a new definition.

For example, Guo Jingjing said: He is a giant, and I am still a champion! There are many giants, but few world champions. This is a new pair that fits.

Whether we are rich or ordinary people, who we marry is indeed the most important decision in life, and it is also a life choice that we must be cautious.

0 1, soul level "suitable"

Compared with the "mismatch" in appearance, the most worrying thing in marriage is that one person is growing rapidly, while the other person is still stagnant or even retrogressive.

For example, Zattberg and his wife Priscilla are not a "perfect match" in the traditional sense, but a "perfect match" in the soul.

First of all, two people should have the same outlook on life, be able to chat happily together and grow up at the same speed.

Zattberg and Priscilla are classmates of Harvard University. She was not "liked" by Zattberg after he became famous, but accompanied him to create Facebook from scratch.

What attracts Zuckerberg is Priscilla's intelligence, strength, flexibility and independence, and her soul of "knowing him".

When Priscilla graduated from Harvard, Facebook was on the right track, and Zuckerberg invited Priscilla to become a partner. Priscilla flatly refused, on the grounds that she had her own things to do.

First, she became a science teacher in a primary school. Then she went to the University of California Medical School. One week before the wedding of 20 12, she got the qualification of practicing pediatrics.

In the United States, doctors have a high social status, so it is very difficult to enter medical school and obtain medical qualifications.

On the same day, Xiaozha could not conceal her inner excitement and confessed to her fiancee on Facebook: I am proud of you.

Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. Their love has reached the level of the soul.

Zuckerberg is the kind of person who pursues dreams, and Priscilla stands at the same height as him.

02, the perfect match is not as good as "getting along comfortably"

I have a female friend, height 1 m 72, dark and strong. At school, the boys in the class nicknamed her "Black Tower".

My friend is the leader of a street office. He has a bad temper, is very motivated, and is determined to do things!

Her husband is thin and small, standing beside her like a little brother, and he is a school logistics staff.

Her husband is humorous, often tells her jokes and is good at cooking. When she gets home, she will feel very relaxed.

My husband is happy to be a good wife and take good care of her. She also found herself admiring these qualities of her husband.

For example, if the husband falls asleep in bed, he can chat with strangers and make friends everywhere. He is humorous and optimistic everywhere.

And she herself, even if she occasionally makes her own mask, thinks it is a waste of time. Apart from hard work, she has no hobbies, and she has uncontrollable anxiety and insomnia.

With her husband around, she felt at ease and lived a full life.

In marriage, it is more important to make the other person feel relaxed and happy in daily life, that is, whether they are comfortable and happy together, rather than whether they look good together.

Marriage is happy, accept it and don't change it.

I remember the story that Fu Seoul told about her and her husband in The Story of Qi Pa.

Compared with her efforts, her husband always muddles along.

Fu Seoul decided to transform her husband: "He sold durian, had insurance, and was cheated by others at my urging."

Many nights, I found him smoking alone on the balcony. I know he is unhappy, and I feel very sad.

But when I woke up the next morning, I couldn't help but say to him, "Continue to refuel today."

But in this way, it is not a good strategy to seek and transform each other.

Trying to change the other person conveys the four most terrible words in marriage-I am not satisfied.

The right way to get along in marriage is never to get tired of seeing each other. I can accept your little shortcomings, and you can tolerate my little habits.

In short, "Only the feet know whether the shoes are comfortable or not", so is marriage, and only what suits you is the best.