Criticism and satire

Everyone's power to create his own life is considerable, far beyond our imagination. Our perception of others determines what they will look like in front of us and our relationship with them. Our words will let the other person know what we expect from him and his behavior. If there is criticism in his words, his behavior will faithfully reflect what we criticize.

as we all know, some parents only pay attention to their children's unsatisfactory performance, but don't appreciate their good grades. When a child brings home a report card with four A's and a C's, parents will say, "How did you get a C?" The focus of parents' attention is just that ordinary score, not the other four excellent grades.

leading others sounds like a daunting task. Criticism is often used by leaders who have no real leadership.

a leader's job is to motivate everyone to do their best and perform their best. When employees do their best, the company will undoubtedly benefit, and employees themselves will feel a strong sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. They will feel that they have discovered the secret potential that they have never realized before, and they will be excited about it. When employees do more and find more abilities and potentials, they will grow, which makes them feel excited and excited.

the job of a leader is to carefully maintain the balance between motivation and guidance.

sir Richard richard branson wrote in his book "Business Stripped Bare": in people's hearts, they all want to do their best for themselves, organizations or companies. He believes that people all over the world are actually strict with themselves. If leaders understand this, they will know that even without criticism, good people will not make mistakes again.

As a leader of a family, a non-governmental organization, a church and a company, what you have to do is to encourage others to move on after they show subtle vacillation about the way forward, and then let go. This will inspire them and make them feel proud and more motivated. As a leader, success lies not in how much you do, but in how things develop in the direction you want; Sometimes if you do less, it will help you succeed.

Like criticism, satire is also a kind of complaint.

Criticism is a direct and aggressive complaint, while satire is a negative/provocative complaint.

people will ask, "what's wrong with a little irony? I just want to be more humorous. " Satire is often a critical language with a humorous mask. It is actually a sharp comment, but it is told like a joke. For those who want to say harsh words but are worried that their words will cause trouble, irony is the only thing they can do.

"cynics often have a complex and think they are superior; The only way to cure them is to let them know humility. "

—— Lawrence G.Lovasik.