Old Liang with iron mouth tells you with personal experience why people should learn to show weakness.

In order to win in business and competition, of course, we can't show weakness, but openly admitting our shortcomings and deliberately exposing some of our weaknesses are often a useful way of life under certain circumstances. When negotiating with others, if you show weakness appropriately, you can often get the miraculous effect of retreating into progress.

Weakness can reduce dissatisfaction or jealousy. A successful career is the luck of life. Being envied is an objective existence. Before this social psychology is temporarily eliminated, its negative influence can be minimized through appropriate ways of showing weakness.

Weakness can keep people in a worse situation psychologically balanced and help unite people around them. To make weakness have a positive effect, we must be good at choosing the content of weakness. In front of people with low status, people with high status might as well show their low education, limited experience, lack of knowledge and ability, and all kinds of tortuous and embarrassing experiences to show that they are really ordinary people. Successful people should talk more about their failure records and real troubles in front of others, giving people a feeling that success is not easy and success is not everything. For those whose economy is not as good as yours at present, you can appropriately complain about your own difficulties, such as poor health, poor children's study, and many difficulties at work, which makes the other person feel that "his family also has a hard book to read."

Some people with professional skills should declare that they know nothing about other fields and reveal how they make jokes and embarrassment in their daily life. As for those who are lucky enough to get fame and fortune by objective conditions or accidental opportunities, they should frankly admit that they are "blind cats meet dead mice." Weaknesses can be confided in personal contact, or humorous self-mockery can be often carried out in public, so that consciously using one's own shortcomings to supplement the advantages of others can often achieve the effect of avoiding disadvantages.

Weakness is sometimes manifested not only in words, but also in actions. I have always been in a favorable position in my career and achieved some success. In my opinion, even if I have the conditions to compete with others, I should try to avoid giving in. In other words, apart from your career, you should be indifferent to petty gain, because your success has become the envy of some people. Don't burn yourself for a little profit, but give some fame and fortune to the temporarily weak.