My friend invited me to dinner, and I bought wine. What should I do when I pay the bill?

I have met this kind of thing twice and have more experience. I'll tell you how I handled it. Call me my first friend A first. The thing is, I just graduated from college, and we rent a house together. One day, A's friend B came to see A, and then they went out to eat together. When they arrived at the restaurant, A called me and asked me to have dinner alone. But he kept inviting me. After all, I'm embarrassed to refuse to live together. After dinner, A sat still, neither checking out nor leaving. At that time, the three of us were sitting there, feeling particularly embarrassed. Later, I understood what A meant. He seemed to want me to pay the bill, but he didn't make it clear, which made me realize. You don't ask me for money, you don't accept my thanks, and I have to pay for him? I was a little angry. Isn't this my routine? If I don't come, you have to let me come, say it's your treat, and then let me spend money? After I read the form, I sat there motionless and paid whoever I liked. I can't eat this dumb loss anyway. Later, A's friend B saw the clue, so embarrassed, stood up and settled the account, then exchanged a few pleasantries and left. When I came back, A ignored me and I ignored him, so I moved out and broke up a month later.

Another thing is this: I called a friend and invited him out for dinner, and he agreed. I was going to invite him to dinner, but I didn't want anything from him. I haven't seen you for a long time, so I wanted to get together. I didn't expect him to think too much. I'm afraid of AA when I check out. When I arrived at the restaurant, I ordered everything. He took his daughter-in-law and said that he had dinner. I was depressed then. I contacted you in advance, and you agreed, and then I arranged everything. Later I said I hadn't eaten yet. Sit down and have some more. After they sat down, I ordered some drinks for his wife. He ordered some foreign wine, which was very expensive. I drank beer myself. Then he began to drink that expensive wine bottle after bottle. I understand that this is a fight against local tyrants. When his wife left, I took advantage of him to go to the bathroom to pay the bill. When he came back, I said it was almost time. Let's leave now. As soon as he heard that the bill had been settled, it was not enough. He ordered five or six bottles of beer. After a while, he finished reading it and didn't mean to leave. I said I wouldn't drink, so I went out and settled my account. A few days later, he called me and invited me to dinner. When I went, I saw his friends come to see him and asked me to have dinner together. It was nothing at first, but when I checked out, I started playing tricks again. Later, his wife said that this card had no money, and then she took out some cards with no money in front of me and played for about 10 minutes. All kinds of people call for money, so I keep a straight face. His friends are like me. We had a tacit understanding and didn't go to be polite. Later, he reluctantly took out a credit card and settled the account. He also told me how much it cost, but I didn't answer the phone, and then we lost contact.

Last weekend, I received a phone call from an old friend for many years, saying that his restaurant was newly opened and he wanted to invite me to have a good time. He said this on the phone at that time:

"You must give me a face, I invite you to dinner. By the way, you have to make many friends in business! Call more people to join us! "

I have known him for more than ten years, although I feel that he is a little petty and not very generous at ordinary times. But this time he opened a new store, which is rare for him to be so enthusiastic. I couldn't refuse, so I agreed.

Anyway, it's the weekend, and I think many friends should be free, so it's good for everyone to get together. Call and send WeChat, and invite all relatives and friends, more than 40 people.

Someone asked me if I needed to bring some gifts. I don't think my friends gave me any special instructions, so they didn't have to. But he sincerely invited me to dinner. I felt embarrassed to go empty-handed, so I got up early and drove a bottle of wine with more than 10 thousand yuan to a hotel before I went to the appointment!

That night, a large group of us arrived back and forth according to the directions given by our friends. I went late, and there were already twenty people in front of me when I arrived. I called them in together, but as soon as I came in, I saw several boxes were empty. If we hadn't come to the opening ceremony of the new store, it would have been really deserted.

Seeing a large group of us go in, the waiter was quite enthusiastic, and quickly greeted him and asked me:

"You are our boss invited guests today? He will be late for something, but he told me to treat you well. There are more than a dozen tables in the hall, and each table can seat eight people. Please select a location. " .

Hearing this, I felt that the waiter would not come to work, but let us sit in the hall when there is a box. However, since it is said by an old friend, they are all called "distinguished guests". If they feel more comfortable, they don't care so much.

Glancing at the hall, I calculated that more than 40 people would have six tables! I chose some tables near the inside to make everyone eat casually and comfortably. At my sign, the waiter quickly arranged our seats.

Later, the waiter brought us the menu, saying it was all their specialties here. Please make yourself at home and enjoy yourself. I was thinking about the hospitality of my old friend. We have increased his popularity today, so I won't be polite to him!

We ordered roast chicken, steamed fish maw, sweet and sour pork ribs, sauteed beef with sauce, fresh-fried seasonal vegetables, Dongyin Kung Shrimp Soup, dried prawns, steamed scallops with vermicelli, and winter melon duck soup, and each table served one according to this dish. Later, a friend from the same trade suggested that it was unpleasant to have meat without wine! I called the waiter and added two more bottles of white wine to each table, one for 12 bottles.

But after we had enough to eat and drink, we still didn't see our old friends. According to the truth, he invited me to dinner and asked me to bring a bunch of friends. He has no reason not to show up. I was worried and went to the front desk to find the waiter. As a result, she said:

"Our boss is talking about business and is expected to come back later. You can tell me anything you need. If you want to check out late, just come to me. The boss has confessed and will give you a 30% discount. "

I was dumbfounded. This old classmate made it clear that I should bring my friends with me. He invited me to dinner. Why did he finally ask me to pay the bill? I can repeatedly confirm with the waiter that he did.

Then I suddenly understood that I had just started a business and had no business. Originally wanted to take me as a "big head" to open the brush! The money transferred my mind to my old friend. Is it necessary to continue dating? Let me call many people to be friends. My feelings lie to me. I feel that with so many people here, I can't keep this face without paying.

Old friend, this abacus is really good, but I am not easy to mess with! In the end, I only used one trick, and he was miserable by me!

After dinner, I arranged for more than forty friends to leave one after another and stay to settle the bill. As soon as the waiter calculates, I'll give you a 30% discount, and I have to pay 8630 yuan. Before paying, I specially called my old friend and said I wanted to wait for him to come back for a while and settle the bill by the way.

He seems to feel guilty. He passed the buck and didn't arrive so early. I'm going back. I'll contact you later. But I won't just let him go. I'm talking about the bottle of 65438+100000 red wine I brought him.

"I brought so many people to entertain you today and a bottle of good red wine to congratulate you on the opening of the new store. Money is rolling in. Not showing up is not good for you! "

I had no choice but to fart. About an hour later, he drove to the store. As soon as I met that kind of enthusiasm, I thanked you for holding my hand. It was beautiful.

I naturally accompanied the smiling face, then handed out the red wine I brought him and said to him:

"My old friend invited me to dinner today, but thank you very much. He gave me a 30% discount, more than 8,000 yuan. I can afford it, but it doesn't mean anything, you know! By the way, my bottle of red wine is over 10 thousand, which is not cheap If the price is clearly marked, the meal will be included. By the way, I'll calculate the price difference in the middle. Just give me 2000 yuan. Scan the code! "

After listening to my words, my old friend's face suddenly turned white and red. It's probably embarrassing! But he also asked for it. In the end, he didn't pester me, and he obediently transferred the money to my account. After receiving the money, I immediately blacked him out and never contacted or interacted with him again.

This question is a misunderstanding caused by your enthusiasm.

Under normal circumstances, whoever invites you to dinner will prepare cigarettes, wine and tea, which are all available where you eat. The guests only need to report the brand and quantity of cigarettes and alcohol after ordering.

When someone else's house is hanging for dinner, you take the initiative to sell wine outside, which is suspected of going from one customer to another. People who treat you have two kinds of psychology. First, you have to replace the host, so he will do you a favor and treat you with a logical conclusion. Second, the person who treats you is disgusted with your behavior and thinks that you look down on him, so there is resentment in your heart. You just don't give him face when you check out, so you can be the host of this meal!

Generally, if you attend an invited dinner party, don't buy things by yourself, which will easily lead to misunderstanding, especially for people you are not familiar with.

The best way to deal with this situation is that you take the time to repay it, which is completely appropriate.

Why do many young people refuse to give up their seats, and young people and old people stand together? If anyone can't figure out what the problem is, ask the young and the old to know! Young people have to go to work, so why don't the old people take the bus later and get on the bus together! Ambitious personality, some people will be calm, some people will not be calm, what wine will your friend buy you! Why is it strange that you are polite and let you pay the bill? What should I do? Generosity will go further and further, meanness is difficult, suffering is a blessing, and the future is boundless. Good luck and all the best!

When a friend invites you to dinner, you buy wine, but you are asked to pay the bill when you pay the bill. I have lived most of my life, and I have never met such a friend in Inglourious Basterds.

Although there is no explicit provision for the communication between friends, there is an unwritten unspoken rule that whoever invites you to dinner pays the bill, which is tacit, forming a tacit understanding, mutual compliance, courtesy and safety.

Your friend invites you to dinner, and you take the initiative to buy wine, which fully shows that you are not a stingy person, but your friend belongs to a typical foreign type, and a meal is only a few dollars! You shouldn't hit a fat man in the face when you are short of money. Just stay at home honestly Why set up a game to count your friends? I guess you have a good temper. If I pour a cup of boiled water on his face, such a friend will break up immediately.

Friends should be loyal and upright. Tell the truth when a friend is in trouble. Don't cheat and play tricks on other people's IQ. If my friend is really in trouble, let me invite him to eat a few meals, drink a few bottles of wine and even subsidize tens of millions. As the saying goes: speak clearly, beef is respected. Things on the table, a willing to fight a willing to get, never allowed to calculate by the feelings of friends, otherwise it will be endless after the first time. Maybe you were very concerned about your friend's face at that time, and later people laughed at you behind your back.

You should always remember one sentence: Mashan is ridden and others are bullied. You can't make friends indiscriminately, you should observe his behavior first, and then look at his character. If you are dishonest, cheating, fooling around, and lead a drunken life, call each other brothers. When you encounter something, you put oil on your feet, sow discord, cause trouble, be ignorant and talk nonsense, and try your best to avoid it.

In today's society, circles are very important. To make friends, you must make friends with large pattern, positive personality, high status, regardless of gains and losses, and positive energy.

A friend invited you to dinner, and you thought it was free, so you brought wine. You have to pay the bill after dinner, so you feel lost, don't you If you say you will pay the bill, will you leave? As the saying goes, there is no such thing as a free lunch, and so is sixty-six. So, you can take this as the closing tuition.

This is called self-love, digging a hole and jumping by yourself, which is a curse. Also should be a word, call, my treat, you pay. [Laughter] [Laughter] [Tears] [Tears]

People in China are more hospitable, so it is normal and natural to have a meal and a glass of wine. After all, we may not get together often at ordinary times, and it is understandable to get together when we have time.

In the past, friends got together in twos and threes and liked to do it at home by themselves. But now, with the continuous improvement of people's living standards, people like to eat out to show the atmosphere when friends get together for dinner.

But the problem is, going out to eat costs money, so who will pay the bill?

According to the normal rules, unless there is a special agreement, whoever asks for a meal will usually pay the bill. Etiquette is present, rules are indispensable, otherwise people are at a loss. At the same time, when the banquet reaches a certain time, as the host, he will naturally find an excuse to pay the bill first, or assign his own people to pay the bill first, and will not leave the guests with time or opportunity to "take care of face" so as not to embarrass them.

"My friend invited me to dinner. I bought wine, but I was asked to pay the bill when I paid the bill. What should I do? " This is a little hard to understand.

China people have a heavy face and always feel that "I should say something when others treat me, or I will be embarrassed", which is human nature. But all the guests have this mentality. As masters, they should be more generous and decent. Otherwise, your treat will be a bit hypocritical and looked down upon.

The topic "My friend invited me to dinner, but I bought wine, but I was asked to pay the bill when I paid the bill". What is this thing? This larded school is too good.

Since it's your friend's treat, to put it bluntly, it should be your friend's pay, otherwise how can it be your friend's treat? Is it "you treat me and I pay"? Besides, you thank your friends for treating you, which means "buying wine". You are supposed to be polite all the time, but you have to pay the bill yourself in the end. Not depressed!

In fact, the subject should not be distressed by this, because in real life, such examples are not uncommon.

For example, the host invited a group of old friends to get together, but the invited people called "seven aunts and eight aunts" without clear notice, which made the host laugh and cry.

For another example, the host treats guests, and the guests hold cigarettes and wine before the host checks out, which makes the host want to cry.

For another example, it is agreed that the host will treat you, but as soon as the banquet is over, the host will "pretend to be crazy and sell stupidity" and force the guests to "bleed" themselves to pay the bill. ......

To put it bluntly, it is to be kind to others, to stand the test of time, and to grow old together, otherwise the former friends will be disloyal from now on, and they will never contact each other. To tell the truth, it takes a long time to make a friend, and it only takes a few minutes to break up. Why do you have to be a petty gentleman and let your friends look down on you from now on?

Look before you leap! Because of this, it is not worth it.

If he invites you to dinner and you bring wine, that's fine. Why should I let you pay the bill? In our Tianjin dialect, isn't this fun? In view of this situation, turning your face on the spot is the same as turning your face later.

If you can't bear it, make a great plan! In this case, buy it! You have to pay a tuition fee to know someone, so that you can recognize the host (the "friend" who invites you to dinner) in time, so that you can stay away from him in the future and avoid being cheated to bring more harm in the future. Although this tuition fee is not paid voluntarily, it is still worth paying! Do you think so?