Do you think blind date dinners should be AA?

I think the blind date should be AA. After all, the two people on blind date are basically adults and have certain financial ability. Moreover, this blind date is also an equal thing. You don't know, but the purpose is clear. Then why do I think blind date should be AA? Below I will answer in detail from the perspective of an emotional counselor.

1. Blind date should not only be paid by boys.

Maybe we have long been influenced by the "male-dominated society". It is generally believed that men should be more masculine and should take the initiative to pay the bill and grasp the situation of this blind date. But these are all previous impressions. Now is a new era, an era with very rich information. Many previous concepts don't seem to apply now. On the one hand. Now all women will have the ability and opportunity to work, and even do better than men in some industries. After gaining economic independence, they have more say in feelings. I'm not as passive as before, so my parents arranged this wedding event for him, and the girls can only endure it.

And blind date, everyone AA will not make girls feel that they owe boys a meal or human feelings. Even if two people turn this into a, this behavior of A does not say that it will hurt the self-esteem of boys. If this boy is so sensitive that even the matter of eating AA on a blind date makes him feel very hurt, then this boy really needs to reflect on it. Isn't he a little too big?

2. Girls can choose AA.

There may be some girls who think that boys have to pay for such preferential things as blind date eating. This dependence is not desirable. After all, other boys have parents and don't owe you anything.

In addition, some girls may think. If you pay for your own meals, will it make boys feel humiliated? I think this kind of worry is unnecessary, because boys didn't live in the Qing Dynasty after all, and they knew this basic social rule. On the contrary, you can set a boundary between these two people through these details before you fall in love or have a further relationship, and the other person will respect you more.

Generally speaking, blind date eating, everyone is developing in the direction of marriage in the past, and marriage is more about mutual cooperation. On the other hand, eating AA on a blind date, including falling in love later, is conducive to the emotional development of two people. So, especially girls, don't think too much. Let's just do it. On the contrary, it is a plus item.