How to chat with girls to find the same topic, when you chat with the right girls.

In fact, many boys have a natural problem when chasing girls, that is, they will not chat with them. They always chat online, and people will say, "We seem to have nothing in common."

Many boys will be very strange at this time. What is the same language in love? Why can't I always? Why are girls always not interested in what I talk about?

In fact, girls say that they have nothing in common with you, but they are uncomfortable when chatting with you. Think about it, no one is born with the same language. We grew up in different living environments, how can we think of the same thing?

It is normal that many opinions are inconsistent, or many things do not have the same topic.

The reason why girls speak different languages from you is because you are too dull and unhappy when chatting with you. All you have to do is make her feel comfortable, happy and happy when chatting.

* * * Learn to imitate her speech when establishing the same language.

A person who likes to use the word "Ba" always feels awkward when chatting with a person who likes to use the word "Bei". You can try if you don't believe me.

So learn to imitate her speech, her intonation, or sentence patterns. For example, she often ends with the word "pull". You can also try it, but remember not to be too deliberate and use it occasionally.

Or when you chat face to face, you can imitate what she has been doing. For example, if she reclines in a chair, you can also recline.

If you keep imitating, she will feel comfortable chatting with you, because you are very similar to her.

Learn to praise her.

I remember Carnegie's masterpiece The Weakness of Human Nature. Among them, the first one is to say nice things to each other, which you can also understand as sweet words.

But many boys don't boast. When they meet girls, they just say, "You are so beautiful today". But it's no use praising people like this. You have to admire the details.

For example, you can say, "The coat you are wearing today is really beautiful. It matches the color of your skirt and shoes. Do you usually like reading some fashion magazines? Your aesthetic ability is so strong. "

This is a specific aspect of boasting, and other girls will think that what you said is very real, out of sincere praise, not perfunctory.

Learn to compliment her, and then she will tell you how to choose clothes in the future. How to match the colors? This is how you start a conversation.

Learn to share life.

If you really have nothing to say when chatting together, then share your life directly. For example, the lobster snack I had with some good friends in a place the other night was delicious.

In fact, sharing life is also the most commonly used way for many people to chat, but it's a pity that you don't share it, just share something that you find interesting.

You should observe what she says and see what kind of life experiences she likes to share. For example, she said before that her clothes are all color-matched, and she likes the warm orange theme.

Then you will know that she is particularly interested in color matching. The next time you share, you can say, "Look at the boy sitting in front, dressed in black, and he looks very uncomfortable."

At this time, she will explain, "Solid color clothes will make people feel cool, but they will soon have aesthetic fatigue, and ..."

Why others don't take up the topic you share, because you don't pay attention to what she likes. You can step on her circle of friends in advance and pay attention to the direction and content of her speech.

Careful people can always find many preferences after dating.

Prepare more jokes.

Everyone will get bored when they talk together for a long time. What you have to do at this time is to prepare some jokes, even some cold jokes, which is much better than sitting there saying nothing.

For example, you can prepare this type of joke.

"Oh, my little sister has heard the story of Mulan. No, it doesn't matter if she doesn't. This joke can go on. It is said that after Mulan joined the army for her father, she made many exploits on the battlefield, so one day, their general took Mulan to buy clothes.

It is said that this is to reward her bravery. As a result, after they walked four blocks, the general found Mulan's daughter. Do you know how they found out? hahaha.

The reason is that men don't walk four blocks for a suit. "

For example, if you sit for a long time, no one talks. At this time, she asked what you were doing, why didn't you speak? You can say, "I'm searching how to chat with the girl I like, and the internet is a bit stuck."

This is the legendary joke. Make more preparations, and the chat between you will not be awkward.

Learn to turn around when you speak.

Usually, when we are chatting, if others think you are interesting, you should never play by the rules and never let others know what you want to say next.

In fact, it is necessary for you to learn to think in a turning point when answering her words.

I'll give you a few simple examples, and you'll understand completely. For example.

When you accompany her to the supermarket and she buys milk there, you can boldly tell her that "those children who drink a glass of milk every night spend a few more dollars every day than those who don't drink."

Or see my little sister riding a battery car and wearing a helmet to go to an appointment, you can say, "My little sister has such a high safety awareness and knows to wear a helmet. Are you afraid that those students who drive a BMW will recognize you?"

Learn to turn, so that your communication will be smooth.

In fact, I said from the beginning, girls' mouths, we have nothing in common, that's bullshit. The core reason is that I can't chat. Chatting with you is boring and often cold.

But you should pay attention, everything is afraid that you will get serious. All you have to do is study hard and think carefully about my five points. Basically, chatting will definitely pass.

Besides, we are just chasing a young lady with average conditions in all aspects, not Liu Yifei and Fan Bingbing. As for every assessment, it is so strict.

I am Arvin, and I will continue to teach you how to talk about a little love.